Penis Enlargement & Size
         By Lisa S. Lawless, C.E.O., Holistic Wisdom Founder

This article will review why penis size matters, how it affects women, and techniques and solutions to address these concerns. I will also touch on a woman's need to contribute in keeping her "equipment" in good condition, as well as how all of this relates to female sexual arousal.

Penis Size Matters-
What You Can Do If You Want To Improve Yours

People who think that men are insecure or even egocentric to think about the size of their penis are not sensitive to this legitimate concern. In fantasy-land we are all perfect lovers, in reality we can ALL use improvement. My goal in all of my work is to empower people and provide realistic suggestions.

I like being up front with my clients and provide them with empowering solutions to their challenges. Hence, if there are things they can improve in their lives to feel happier, healthier and more at peace... then that path should be explored. If your overweight... let's look at how to work on that, if your marriage is not going well, let's explore techniques to not only save it, but make it something fulfilling and beautiful, and so on and so forth.

I believe you get what you settle for in life, and if you are settling for a mediocre sex life, than listen up… you can make it better, you can do things that will not only improve it, but you can make it better than a fantasy, because it will be real!!!! That is why we do these newsletters... to aide all people in bettering their sex lives, and their health.

Some of the articles that we do are more geared toward one sex or another, while others are more focused on couples, others toward singles. Obviously we can't address everyone in every article, but stay tuned as we will have many to choose from so that your questions, concerns, and interests will be covered.

Men & Penis Size-

Men are not egocentric for being concerned with their penis size. Generally, men who are concerned about it are concerned for two reasons-

1) They want to be thought of as a virile lover who offers their lover something     really pleasureful through their penis. They want to be adored and have     
    their penis appreciated.

2) They want to please their partner sexually with a thick, long, hard member.

What I have found in my interviews for my eBook The Art Of Female Ejaculation, is that the opinions expressed publicly are different from opinions held in private. The truth is that penis size, parameters, shape, and angle… do matter to both men and women. I would have to say that in general, men are concerned about size, rigidity and staying power for good reason. Let's face it women simply do not have fantasies about men with small, flaccid, penis.

I am not saying we women need something HUGE to feel sexually satisfied, but a big penis can be nice for a few reasons (discussed in more detail below). I go into great detail as to why a larger penis, dildo and g-spot stimulator aides in female ejaculation in my eBook The Art Of Female Ejaculation, however for this article, I will keep to the main points.

Penis Size & Making A Woman Orgasm

It is good to know how to give a woman not just a clitoral orgasm, but also the deeper, more fulfilling orgasms- the vaginal/cervix and g-spot orgasms. These are achieved by specific techniques due to the physical layout of the vagina. Again, if you are interested in the details of how this directly affects female ejaculation, you can always order the eBook, but let me at least give you some basic understanding of the general principles.

The Vaginal/Cervical Orgasm-

Because the vaginal/cervical orgasms involves the cervix, which is located further up inside the vagina, a long object (or penis) thrusting into the vagina will better reach the cervix and be more successful in aiding a woman to reach this type of orgasm. Hence a longer penis is going to feel more arousing inside a woman.

The G-spot Orgasm-
(A Great Orgasm In Aiding In Female Ejaculation!)

Like the vaginal orgasm, this orgasm usually takes longer to build. Because the g-spot is not stimulated by friction as much as through pressure, using a rhythmic" pushing" against the g-spot is more pleasureful than a light rubbing. Hence, a wider penis is going to feel more arousing inside a woman.

Does this all mean that a woman can not be satisfied with a man who is not well endowed or is able to get a raging hard-on?

No, a woman can be satisfied without her lover having a large penis by them using some specific sexual techniques (as outlined in my eBook). A perfect sized dildo, g-spot stimulator, penis extension toy or method can be used effectively when her partner is or is not well endowed.

Women Have A Role Too-

Let's not forget that women are part of the picture and can aide in solutions as well. Doing Kegel exercises to keep her vagina muscles toned can be one of her contributions as well as using other toys and products I will discuss in upcoming articles.

Open communication is the key, and women should discuss what will most pleasure them in detail with their lovers as that will provide their lover with a guide, rather than leaving them in the dark as to what will make them sexually pleased. All women are different, and while there are certain techniques that will pleasure a woman more... to what extent one prefers one technique over another will vary from woman to woman.

Penis Enlargement Techniques-

The size of your penis doesn't have a relationship with anything else on a man's body. For example a man with big feet does NOT necessarily have a 9 inch penis. Whether you have above or below the average penis size, ask yourself does it really matter to you. If you feel comfortable with the way your penis looks then it is not an issue.

While Viagra works well at allowing increased erectile rigidity (a better hard-on), size is a different matter. There are a lot of gimmicky programs out there that are a waste of time and money and I warn you to become an educated consumer before you buy into them.

If you simply want to enlarge the thickness of your penis, you may want to consider a less harmful approach by using a penis sleeve.

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