Pinning down what constitutes a traditional dildo these days is a difficult task because the sex toy industry has gotten pretty creative. People themselves have also gotten creative in making homemade dildos. There are even kits now that allow people to make their own dildos by molding the penis of a man and creating a true to life replica made out of rubber, chocolate, soap and even a candle.

What To Watch Out For

The most important thing you will want to ensure is that your dildo is safe to use. Believe it or not there are still many sex toy stores that sell toxic sex toys and we are not just talking about the most commonly talked about toxins- phthalates. The problem is that many people are trying to make a fast buck off of consumers. For example, Pyrex glass dildos have become quite popular. However, most of them are made in China and lead paint is often used to make them colorful. Another mistake many sex toy stores make is telling consumers that something is 100% medical grade silicone when it is really a silicone blend which can melt if you mix it with a silicone lubricant. Nothing like having a sex toy melt and leach chemicals into your body.

That is why we only sell nontoxic sex toys so that when you buy from us you can feel safe knowing that what you are going to receive is not just fun to use but safe as well. We have been doing this for a long time, in fact we are the sexual pioneers that started the movement for safer sex toys way back when we started in June of 2000. We are also the founders of the National Association for the Advancement of Science & Art in Sexuality - NAASAS.org, which helps the entire field of sexuality serve you better because you deserve to be empowered.

Choosing Your Dildo(s)-

Determining Size

One of the most common mistakes that people make when ordering a dildo is the size. Any solid website will tell you what the dimensions of a dildo are but sometimes it can be confusing. So here are a few tips when considering what you desire in a dildo.

Use your fingers to determine how big you want the dildo to be. Then measure the amount of fingers you desire by putting a tape measure around them to determine circumference or use a ruler to determine diameter. If you do not have a tape measure you can always do a Google search for 'print out tape measure' and you can print one out on a piece of paper.

You can also use an object like a hairbrush or something like a carrot or even a cucumber. We recommend putting a condom on them or washing them with antibacterial soap if you insert them anally or vaginally as you do not want to introduce any harmful bacteria.

Diameter Vs. Circumference

Make sure to understand the difference between circumference and diameter when assessing how large your dildo is going to be.

Types of Dildos-

Smooth-
Smooth dildos are made from a variety of materials including but not limited to - silicone, Pyrex glass, plastic, rubber, Elastomer, food grade vinyl, metal and even wood. The smooth dildo is great for quick thrusting as you have less friction than some of the bumpy or ribbed types. They are also sometimes preferred for anal stimulation for those who like a gentle stroking.

Shape Curved G-spot and Prostate Dildos-
These dildos are truly the most popular as they can be used for both gspot and prostate massage quite effectively. In fact, it is rare that you see dildos without some level of curve these days as the human body has a slight curve and is what makes them fit so well. The reason that the curve is so appealing is because you can use it to put more pressure up into the gspot or prostate and that pressure means added pleasure.

Anal Dildos-
These dildos can also be used for vaginal stimulation so you may be wondering why there is even a separate category for them. But listen up grasshopper, there are a few good reasons. The ideal anal dildo will have a flared base, handle or ring at the end. The reason for this is because unlike the vagina which will only let you go so far up it, the rectum can take in a sex toy and make it rather difficult to get out. Many a person has had moments of terror when they realized that taking their fingers and trying to grab a dildo out after it went in only pushed it up further. Emergency Room physicians and nurses have all had a story or two about one of these situations and that is why choosing a dildo that is designed for keeping it under control is a good idea.

Another reason is bacteria transfer. You will want to avoid using dildos that cannot be sterilized completely (bleached, boiled, dishwashed, etc.). You do not want bacteria growing on the dildo and getting out of control and then put it in later anally or especially vaginally only to get an infection. One thing you can do if you know you cannot completely sterilize your dildo is put a condom over it so that you can just take it off when you are done. This especially applies to dildos that are very porous like Cyberskin.

Another reason that most anal dildos are not porous is because you do not want them to absorb the lubricant you are using. Because the rectum will need ample lubricant for using a dildo, the last thing you want is the dildo acting like a sponge. Therefore, 100% medical grade silicone and other non-porous materials are a very good idea.

Finally, the most sensitive part of anal play is the anus (opening) and the prostate (equivalent to the female gspot in men). Having bumps as seen on anal beads can bring a great deal of stimulation. A common trick is to use anal beads and pull them out at the moment of climax for added sensation.

Double Dildos-
Double dildos come in a variety of styles now. It used to be that the only type was one long dildo with two heads. But now there are curved ones that can flex and be used to stimulate the same person anally and vaginally or in a variety of combinations. An example of this is the Feeldoe. In that example you can use it on yourself with single penetration and with a partner with single or double penetration. Double ended dildos can penetrate both anally and vaginally.

Celebrity Molds-
If you have a favorite porn star there are many molds made of them in a variety of materials. Many people enjoy using them while watching porn with the adult star in it.

Vibrating Dildos -
Dildos can come with a vibrator or without. If you get a vibrating dildo you will want to note where the power is coming from to determine how much you will feel it. If the power of vibration is coming through a removable bullet in the back of the dildo you will most likely have a mild vibration. However, if the vibrator is built into the dildo than it will most often be a much stronger vibration. We provide vibration levels on our sex toy listings for your convenience.

Dildo Jealousy-
It is true, some people have dildo jealousy. If your lover is worried that you love your dildo more than them you might want to have them read this article as it may help relieve them of some of their concerns- Sex Toy Jealousy

 

What To Watch Out For-

Dildos can be made with cheap materials, so make sure that you get one that is non-toxic and phthalate free. Your rectum and/or vagina is able to absorb things and harmful chemicals should be the last thing on your mind when you are trying to pleasure yourself. We sell only phthalate free products so you can rest easy when it comes to any concerns there. If you want to know more about toxins in sex toys, we have plenty of articles on our Sex Toy Education page.

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Please let us know if you have any questions as we are always happy to help!

 

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