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...I
wanted to convey to men out there that there are more important
things in a relationship than penis size and that women
generally do not base the depth of their affection on this
factor. However, I can tell you that there are some differences
in what it is like to be with a man who has a larger penis
and I would like to share with you my own experiences.
My
four inch lover-
I
loved this man very much, and despite his penis being smaller
than most, I found sex to be satisfying and felt connected
to him during our sexual encounters. I was not able to have
an orgasm during sex with him because his penis (also being
thin in width) did not stimulate my g-spot and thus provided
me with pleasure, but no climax. He was able to use fingering
and oral techniques that allowed me to climax and thus our
sex life was satisfactory to me.
My
seven inch lover-
I
too loved this man and was quite overwhelmed when he first
penetrated me. I was not used to having as large a penis
inside me and I found it painful at first. After about a
week, I was used to his size (as my vaginal walls stretched
to accommodate him). I had my first orgasm with him through
intercourse because he was not only stimulating my g-spot
with the much larger width of his penis than my previous
lover, but also was stimulating my cervix with his ability
to reach up inside me that far with the tip of his penis.
I was truly in heaven and enjoyed the pleasure his penis
gave me.
It
occurred to me in retrospect that had I wanted to have that
feeling with my first lover, we could have explored penis
extenders, dildos and other options... if I had know how
much I loved the feeling of being penetrated.
Because my girlfriend told me that she does not enjoy penetration
(from her similarly sized husband) as much as she enjoys
clitoral stimulation, I think this is a personal preference.
Some women like g-spot and cervical stimulation more than
others so it's probably good for a man to check in with
his partner to find out and for a woman to experiment with
a dildo if her lover is on the small end of the spectrum
to know.
My
nine inch lover-
This
was a short relationship and not as emotionally strong as
the other two, and I do think that is a factor. However,
on the physical end I can say that this man was too big
for me. His penis often hit my cervix with force and it
was painful. I ended up not being able to do many sexual
positions with him as I found some more painful than others
(such as doggie style). He ended up not fully penetrating
me to keep from hurting me and it made sex less spontaneous
and carefree.
All
in all I must say that a woman can accommodate width as
we are built to stretch for childbirth, but too much length
can be tricky.
I
think that most women do like a wide penis, but again it
depends on how much she likes vaginal stimulation compared
to other forms such as clitoral, anal, etc. Looking back,
I think the most important component is how you feel about
your lover and what you are willing to do to pleasure one
another. Whether you learn techniques to compensate for
having a small penis, large vaginal opening all the way
to learning what your partner enjoys the most.
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