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Lisa
S. Lawless, Ph.D., C.E.O.
HolisticWisdom.com
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Hi
Lisa,
My wife has a short vaginal length. When we are having intercourse
due to my length and her shortness, I am able to go far beyond
her cervix. My wife is very comfortable with this and even encourages
me to go further. My question is- Can I do any harm by being internal
within that area of her body?
Thank you,
Allan
Hi
Allan,
No
you should not be able to harm her cervix, although you
can chafe or tear her vaginal opening if not enough lubricant
is present.
During
vaginal sex, the penis enters the vagina (the stretchable
passage that connects a woman's outer sex organs- the
vulva) with the cervix and uterus.
The
cervix is the narrow lower part of the uterus, with a
very small opening.
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Female
reproductive organs-
1) Cervix 2)
Uterus
3) Vagina 4)
Ovaries
5) Fallopian tubes
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This
opening stretches (dilates) during childbirth, but at other times,
it's plugged with mucus and is too small to allow a penis (or
even a finger) to enter. During sexual arousal, a woman's cervix
lifts upward. This allows more room for the penis to enter the
vagina. That is most likely what you and your wife are experiencing.
The
vagina and urethra are separated by a thin layer of spongy tissues
for sexual pleasure. The uterus/cervix are well protected. Even
with a prolapsed uterus and cervix lowering down to the vaginal
entrance, there is no way to penetrate through the cervix orifice
into the prolapsed uterus through a penis or finger.
I
hope that answers your concerns and that you and your wife continue
to enjoy what sounds like a pleasureful sex life!
Best,
Lisa
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