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         A Condom Comes Off Inside You: What To Do

For Women- Perhaps while you were having sex, you suddenly realize that the condom isn't on anymore. You look everywhere and still can't find the condom. Is it possible to have the condom stuck inside of you? How far up could the condom go? A condom cannot go up into your body and enter your uterus, but can get up inside an area called the fornix.

Lisa S. Lawless, Ph.D., C.E.O. HolisticWisdom.com Founder

What To Do If It Is Inside You

Have your partner sweep their third finger (with hopefully short fingernails) around the outer circle of your cervix. Your partner may feel it and be able to pull it out. If you can get a flashlight and spread yourself open, sometimes you can see it. You can also try douching or using the stream of a tub facet, or removable showerhead to flush it out or at least get is lower and more easily reached, however remember that using water inside you to flush it out may expose the ejaculate more than it possibly already has been.

If any ejaculate was in the condom, you are now more at risk for STDs and pregnancy.
To prevent pregnancy you are going to want to make sure you use spermacide or another precaution to try to ensure that there is no pregnancy.

If you can't find it in you or the room and cannot find it inside you, see a gynecologist. You don't want it to stay lodged in your vagina as it can cause potential health problems if it remains inside you.

Prevention

Condom Fit

The condom will need to fit snugly around the shaft of your partner's penis. It shouldn't slide around on him while it's sliding around in you unless he is wearing a snug condom at the bottom of the base of his penis or a cock ring to prevent slipping. The trade of is sensation, the more snug a condom is the less sensation a man typically gets... the real question here is how careful do you want to play it.

Lubricant Inside The Condom

If you're putting lubricant inside the condom before it's put on, you may want to put a little less in there, or go without lube altogether. Again, the trade off is sensation as a man will feel more pleasure with lubricant inside.

You might want to buy dry condoms, making them wet on the outside only, if you so choose. On the other hand, it's possible that vaginal dryness, commonly experienced by women on Depo, could cause a pulling effect on the condom as you and your partner are moving back and forth, to and fro. Another cause can be intense vaginal contracting caused by pleasure or anxiety.

The Erection Factor

Erections can come and go, so if this is the case, the condom may loosen its grip and slip off. If this is an issue. a smaller sized condom, or saying and doing things that will maintain arousal during sex, may help in this situation. Be aware that desensitizing cream can also cause a loss or lowered erection, while cock rings can provide assistance with maintaining an erection and keeping the penis harder and more engorged.

Withdrawing Correctly

When withdrawing, hold onto the rim of the condom with your fingers (or with your partner's fingers). This can prevent the condom from coming off.

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