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Condom Comes Off Inside You: What To Do
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Perhaps
while you were having sex, you suddenly realize that the
condom isn't on anymore. You look everywhere and still can't
find the condom. Is it possible to have the condom stuck
inside of you? How far up could the condom go?
A condom
cannot go up into your body and enter your uterus, but can
get up inside an area called the fornix.
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Lisa
S. Lawless, Ph.D., C.E.O.
HolisticWisdom.com Founder |
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If you imagine your cervix to be the "wall" of a castle,
the fornix would be the "moat" around it. In other words,
there's a slightly recessed area around the circle of your
cervix into which something like a condom could get tucked.
Keep in mind that while some lost condoms wind up there
others get lost in bunched up sheets or between the mattress
and the wall or some other obscure place. Make sure to look
around you in addition to inside you.
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What
To Do If It Is Inside You
Have your
partner sweep their third finger (with hopefully short fingernails)
around the outer circle of your cervix. Your partner may feel
it and be able to pull it out. If you can get a flashlight and
spread yourself open, sometimes you can see it. You can also try
douching or using the stream of a tub facet, or removable showerhead
to flush it out or at least get is lower and more easily reached,
however remember that using water inside you to flush it out may
expose the ejaculate more than it possibly already has been.
If any ejaculate
was in the condom, you are now more at risk for STDs and pregnancy.
To prevent pregnancy you are going to want to make sure you use
spermacide or another precaution to try to ensure that there is
no pregnancy.
If you can't
find it in you or the room and cannot find it inside you, see
a gynecologist. You don't want it to stay lodged in your vagina
as it can cause potential health problems if it remains inside
you.
Prevention
Condom
Fit
The condom
will need to fit snugly around the shaft of your partner's penis.
It shouldn't slide around on him while it's sliding around in
you unless he is wearing a snug condom at the bottom of the base
of his penis or a cock ring to prevent slipping. The trade of
is sensation, the more snug a condom is the less sensation a man
typically gets... the real question here is how careful do you
want to play it.
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Cock
RIngs
Slide
a cock ring over the condom, this will better secure the
condom and make sex feel better for the man by pushing blood
to the head of his penis making it more sensitive.
Lubricant
Inside The Condom
If
you're putting lubricant inside the condom before it's put
on, you may want to put a little less in there, or go without
lube altogether. Again, the trade off is sensation as a
man will feel more pleasure with lubricant inside.
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You might
want to buy dry condoms, making them wet on the outside only,
if you so choose. On the other hand, it's possible that vaginal
dryness, commonly experienced by women on Depo, could cause a
pulling effect on the condom as you and your partner are moving
back and forth, to and fro. Another cause can be intense vaginal
contracting caused by pleasure or anxiety.
The
Erection Factor
Erections
can come and go, so if this is the case, the condom may loosen
its grip and slip off. If this is an issue. a smaller sized condom,
or saying and doing things that will maintain arousal during sex,
may help in this situation. Be aware that desensitizing cream
can also cause a loss or lowered erection, while cock rings can
provide assistance with maintaining an erection and keeping the
penis harder and more engorged.
Withdrawing
Correctly
When withdrawing,
hold onto the rim of the condom with your fingers (or with your
partner's fingers). This can prevent the condom from coming off.
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