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With hundreds of eMails coming in every day and while I answer many, it is not possible for me to reply to all of them. However, I wanted to provide a section where we take some of our readers questions and post them on our web site so that we can provide answers that everyone can benefit from having the information available on our web site.

To submit your question such as those shown below eMail us for consideration of publishing it in our next newsletter.

Lisa Lawless
Lisa S. Lawless, Ph.D., C.E.O.
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Dear Lisa,

I have begun using a diaphragm. My problem is that I swell up every time I use it. I get very tender inside, and I don't know if it is the diaphragm or the spermicide. Can you help?

- Amy

 

Hi Amy,

I personally had a hard time with the diaphragm because it turned out my doctor had not provided the right size and I found it terribly uncomfortable, however the diaphragm is an excellent method of contraception. It is commonly fitted for you by your gynecologist, with or without an arcing spring on its rim (which helps it to fit snugly against the cervix).

Usually, unless you have a fit that's much too tight like I did, there should be no swelling just from the mechanical aspects of wearing this little rubber hat inside at the end of your vaginal canal. But you may want to discuss the size with you doctor just in case that is the issue.

However, it is more common to have an allergic reaction to spermicides. You can try a different brand and experiment with a milder dosage of the nonoxynol-9 that most spermicides contain. There is a product called Erogel, which is a spermicidal lubricant containing nonoxynol-15 and avena sativa that may also be a good alternative.

Honestly, I would speak with you doctor about it as they may need to not only determine if the size is correct, or if there is a possible medical issue such as an undiagnosed STD that is causing the swelling. In cases like these it is best to seek medical assistance just to make sure you are covering all the bases.

I wish you well in getting this worked out!

Love & Light,

Lisa

Often thought to be spelled- diaphram


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