How
To Find A
Partner
Lisa
S. Lawless, Ph.D., CEO |
Dear
Lisa,
I
have been a subscriber to your newsletter for six months now,
so I've finally decided to send some feedback your way. First
of all, I'm a 30 year old man who thoroughly enjoys your newsletters
and finds them filled with very useful information.
The
reason I'm so interested in your website, newsletters, etc.
is I want to make sure when I make love to a woman, I do the
best job possible.
When I'm with a woman, I put all my needs to the side and focus
on hers, I always make sure the person I'm with has one or more
orgasms long before I have mine. In the past, I've been able
to make three women have ejaculating orgasms, but I want all
whom I get the privilege to make love with to experience this
wonderful phenomenon. This is why I'm doing so much research
on this subject, and your website and newsletters are the best
source I've ever seen.
My
favorite part of the whole sexual experience is performing oral
sex on women, and I'm superb at it, and I would love to see
more articles on this subject in future issues of your newsletter.
The sad thing is, even with an attitude like this, I've been
single for three years. I'm attractive and in really good shape
(I work out all the time), but I can't seem to meet any nice
women around here. I don't know what to do, and I'm tired of
being alone. What do you think I should do?
I
will continue to read your newsletters, and make use of the
information by becoming an even better lover than I already
am, I just hope I meet somebody soon who I can share all of
this knowledge with. Where are they? Why can't I find them?
I hope you've enjoyed what I've had to say, and I would really
like to hear back from you either by e-mail, or by publishing
this in a future issue of the newsletter and responding to it
in there.
Take
care, and keep up the good work.
Love,
Dave
Lisa's
Reply-
Hi Dave,
Wow, thank
you for all the positive compliments. It is always such a high
to hear that we make a positive difference to our web site visitors!
In regard
to your quest... one of the things that many people have a hard
time with is finding a suitable partner. If it were easy there
would not be thousands of dating sites making millions!
The best
suggestion that I can make is to first make a list of things
that you are looking for in a significant other. When I say
a list I mean a very specific and comprehensive outline of what
you think would compliment you, your growth as a person and
lifestyle. These characteristics should include their sense
of humor, physical health, habits, belief systems: religion,
family values, and other important attributes. The more specific
you can be the better.
The reason
for creating this list is not to expect them to knock on your
door when you are finished, but to give you clarity on what
you really want in a partner. Often the secret to success in
life is having a very specific vision of what you want, and
then outlining steps to achieve your goals.
This leads
me to my next reason for the list... it will provide hints as
to where to find them. If you are looking for someone who shares
your love for hiking, then seek out hiking sports supply stores,
hiking trails and other obvious related areas.
Also, don't
rule out the idea that you may have already met them. My hubby
John knew me in high school when we were 14 years old when we
lived down the street from one another. He moved away after
high school and because we were only acquaintances we did not
keep in touch. One night out of curiosity he looked me up on
Classmates.com and the rest is history.
No matter
how you go about finding your partner, the most important tip
I can give you is to appreciate your time now as there are many
nice things about being alone. For one, it gives you time to
really know who you are and provides the opportunity to further
develop yourself without the distraction of a relationship.
With appreciation
of your alone time, a comprehensive list providing clarity in
what you are looking for in someone and a plan on where to find
them based on that list is the best place to start!
I wish you
all the best... and who knows... perhaps your future partner
will be reading this in our newsletter and try to contact you
through us!
Love &
Light,
Lisa
The
Holistic Wisdom Corporation