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How To Use A Vibrator
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Vibrators provide amazing stimulation to a woman's clitoris, to men and women's nipples & anus as well as a man's penis. There are many varieties of ways you can use them. In general, focus on what feels good to you, not just what you may think is "normal." There is no right or wrong choice, rather what is right for you.

Also see our sex toy education center.

Lisa Lawless
By Lisa S. Lawless, Ph.D.
Psychotherapist & Sexuality Expert

CEO & Founder of
Holistic Wisdom, Inc. & NAASAS

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Basic rules to keep in mind are-


1)

Waterproof Vs. Water Resistant

Only use waterproof or water-resistant vibrators in water. Be careful to note when something is waterproof vs. water-resistant. A basic rule of thumb regarding waterproof means that you can submerge it, whereas water resistant means you can get it wet, but not submerge. Make sure to keep rechargeable sex toys clear of being exposed to water or moisture through their plug in areas to avoid damage or even electrical shock.

2)

Quality Vibrators- How Can You Tell?

Buy quality vibrators from a reliable source that will replace them if they do not work when you buy them (like we do). We carry many quality made vibrators and provide our recommendations.

3)

Cleaning

Make sure to clean sex toys after use to prevent transmission of STDs or bacteria build up that can cause urinary tract infections (UTI). The best way to clean sex toys is to use a sex toy cleaner which is safe for the product and won't damage it, while it provides antibacterial protection.

4)

Power

Do you prefer something that requires batteries, is rechargeable or plugs in? There are pros and cons to each-

Battery Pros & Cons
A sex toy that requires batteries affords the user to operate without cords and provides a larger variety of sex toys to choose from as most require batteries. These can be costly if not using rechargeable batteries by having to keep replacing them. These can be bad for recycling purposes if you use non-recyclable batteries and therefore bad for the environment. We recommend getting rechargeable batteries to counter the cons if you get a battery operated sex toy.
Make sure to take batteries out in-between use to extend the life of your vibrator, and especially while traveling with sex toys to avoid embarrassing buzzing suitcases.

Rechargeable Pros & Cons
Rechargeable sex toys do not require batteries and are therefore, better for the environment and less expensive to maintain. Depending on the quality of the toy, they may not hold the charge for long. These may also require long charging periods and may not work unless fully charged; making it important to plan on having it charged before your next use. Some rechargeable may not allow you to use it while it is charging.

Plug In Pros & Cons
Electric sex toys are often some of the most powerful vibrators and offer a deep vibration that others cannot compare to. You do not have to worry about costly batteries, the effect of batteries on the environment or planning to make sure your toy is charged. These can limit how far you can move around (we recommend getting an extension cord). The cord may get tangled or get in the way during wild sexual adventures. These also cannot ever get wet as they may create the risk of electrical shock. We recommend wiping down with a moist wash cloth when it is unplugged that has been sprayed with sex toy cleaner.

5)

What Is The Right Vibrator For You?

Read how to choose the right vibrator for you if you are unsure of what kind to purchase.

6)

Don't Underestimate The Pleasure Of Lubricant

Adding a small amount of water based lubricant to your vibrator play can enhance the sensation and decrease the chance of irritation. Oil Based Lubricants can sometimes lend themselves to irritation and vaginal infections, so we recommend water based for that reason. They can also melt and break down the materials used to make sex toys so we always recommend erring on the side of waterbased lubricants when using any sex toy.

7)

The Need For Speed

Experiment with speed levels- if you find the vibrations to be too intense reduce the speed of the vibrator. You can also decrease the intensity by placing a wash cloth over the surface area of the vibrator, but just holding the vibrator more lightly on a low setting should do the trick. If the vibrations are not intense enough, turn up the speed or increase the pressure of the vibrator against your body.

8)

Small Vibrators

Just because it is small, does not mean it is cannot be powerful. The Berman Athena is an example of a little one that surprisingly strong. Smaller vibrators make moving them around easier, they are good to travel with and can be introduced into sexual positions a bit easier. One amazing new vibrator can be worn during intercourse and stimulates both the gspot and the clitoris. It is the popular We-Vibe

Eggs and Bullets can be used internally (on the g-spot and prostate) or externally (on the clitoris and nipples). Be careful when using bullets anally as the sphincter muscle is strong and the cord can become detached.

9)

Anal Sex Toys

For anal vibrators remember that the anus is a very sensitive area. As the anus has no natural lubrication, it is important to use plenty of lubricant. Start by just touching and stroking the outside of the anus. When you feel you are ready, insert the vibrator, moving it in and out slowly. Make sure to clean your vibrator afterward with a disinfectant as risk of STD and bacteria transmission is high form anal use, as a preventative measure you can simply slide a condom over the vibrator to keep it clean.

10)

Women's Multiple Orgasms

If your vibrator has variable speeds, try using it on low and then increasing the intensity slowly, bringing lots of blood to the clitoris and labia, and then experiencing a big wave of orgasm. Then after a minute or two, go back to low and start all over again. See if you can have multiple orgasms as many women find they are able to using this approach.

11)

Using Sex Toys Together

Don't forget that you can use vibrators simultaneously with finger, tongue and penis stimulation. Using a vibrator creatively can make one's sex life a lot of fun! Another combination that people often forget about is the use of a vibrating cock ring on a dildo or penis to provide dual stimulation!

12)

Men Can Use Them Too

Men are sometimes hesitant to try using a vibrator on themselves regardless of sexual orientation, but are often surprised at how pleasurable they are on nerve rich areas such as testicles, the head of their penis, nipples, anus and even prostate.

13)

Electrostimulation Vibrators

Electrostimulation devices can also have vibrators in them so that they are an are all in one electrostimulating vibrator.

Read more here to learn about erotic electrostimulation.


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