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Lisa S. Lawless, Ph.D., CEO HolisticWisdom.com Founder

Keeping Long Distance Relationships Hot

Hi,

I wondered what my be a good way to turn on my girlfriend from across the miles. Having a long distance relationship we tend to talk on the phone a lot, she has many sex toys that she uses during phone sex but I was wondering what else I could do to keep her hot for me?

- Ben

Hi Ben,

I had a long distance relationship with my husband for several months so I know exactly what you mean when you say you want to keep things exciting. One of the things my husband and I did for one another was to write sexy stories for one another.

We wrote our erotic stories based on scenarios of things we wanted to happen as well as allowed our imaginations to run wild with stories that included time travel back to high school as well as in different time periods... such as the 1800's, etc.

It kept us quite creative and gave us a lot to talk about when we had our hot steamy phone sex sessions. Feel free to check out some of the free erotic stories that we offer for ideas.

As my husband always says... "desire starts in the mind" and I agree. Keeping things arousing through verbal expression is a great way to play. Enjoy!

Lisa

Lisa S. Lawless, P.h.D., CEO

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