Mature
Men & Sex
Refining
Skill Makes A Better Lover At Any Age
Lisa S. Lawless, Ph.D. CEO
Holistic Wisdom, Inc. Founder |
With
maturity comes the opportunity for heightened sexual wisdom
and that means you can have more to offer in the bedroom!
Women are complex creatures emotionally and physically and
a mature man is often better able to satisfy them. A sexually
mature man is a magnet for lovely ladies every where.
If you
think that maturity is about age... you would be wrong...
older men or younger men, it’s not the age – it’s the attitude
(caring, considerate, passionate). From
the immature man you always hear, "I want to get laid,"
not "I want to be unforgettable and rock her world."
When
a man is immature sexually there is a simplistic goal toward
sex to get it up, get it in and get it off. I compare that
to a half-assed 3 minute neck massage... maybe a little
nice, but forgettable and no where near as satisfying as
that full body, deep muscle massage that leaves you floating
for days and eager for more.
The
old Pointer Sisters song "Slow Hand" had it right
when they sang “I want a man with a slow hand, I want a
lover with an easy touch, I want somebody who will spend
some time, not come and go in a heated rush.” They sang
it well... they sang it true.
When
a man is more mature he understands that sex is better when
it is not all about him. The "Don Juan" of men
understands when he can maximize his partner's pleasure,
he will have a more enthusiastic partner which is such an
enhancing aspect of sex.
I mean
think about it, do you want your lover licking and sucking
on your cock while she looks at you with her eyes that say
I can't get enough of you, or when you just see her head
bobbing up and down as she frantically tries to get you
off and finish her chore?
Women
are the same... we want you to show your desire for us as
you caress, kiss, and lick our bodies. Desire is in the
mind, and creating that through your attitude alone will
make a huge difference!
As
a man matures and becomes better at devoting attention to
sexual pleasure, he may indeed find that desire, arousal,
and orgasm may not all occur together and also be surprised
to find that women greet this change of pace with delight.
When your focus shifts from a purely physical connection
to a combined emotional, physical and mental one, that’s
when you’ll reach the heights of sexual fulfillment.
What
Makes A Man
Better In
The Bedroom?
What
makes a man better at business? He researches his project,
he pays attention to it, he focuses on what will make his
goals a reality, hones his skills and gets the tools he
needs to do the job, and do it well. The same applies to
sex!
Listen
to your partner's likes and dislikes... and ask them for
more information. Have your lover share what pleasures them
in fantasies, when they masturbate and what they want more
of in your own sexual experiences. Once you have information,
you are now empowered to work on making those fantasies,
and desires a reality.
Don't
get me wrong, women need to do the same thing, but for the
purpose of this article, I am focusing on men so please
forgive what may seem like a one sided approach to sex.
The
reason I wanted to focus on men in this article is because
I think men often feel lost where women are concerned...
and honestly I can see why.
We women
tend to hold back sexually, we tend to need a lot of reassurance
verbally before we are comfortable physically. But, once
you have the ability to connect with us on a mental, emotional
and physical level regardless of whether it is a one night
stand or a long term relationship you will find us begging
for more.
Sexual
ecstasy is achieved when we savor one another like a fine
wine or a succulent meal. Take time to enjoy each morsel
of sensual goodness! Bring creativity in the bedroom...
and don't forget sex toys baby, because those viiiibrators
combined with you playing with our sweet pussy drives us
clawing across the bed for more!
Play
We Can
Have With Sex
Toys!
Then
there are the many phone calls I get asking what sex toys
I think are the best... of course we have a "Featured
Products" page and I can assure you they are
the toys I personally recommend. I also did a review of
the best
Pyrex Glass Sex Toys so make sure to check them
out.
Also,
I just added a new vibrating cock ring, and let me tell
you those vibrating bunny ears against our clit while you
thrust inside of us are great. You can also use it during
anal sex as the vibrations around the anus is also really
great.
The
Jetaime is not just for women but can also be used
for men for incredible prostate massage that is
capable of providing some of the most intense orgasms
a man is capable of when combined with genital stimulation.
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Sex
Machines
While
we don't sell the Jetaime directly I can tell you where
to get one, and let me assure you this is a serious sex
toy! You can read more about it in our review section on
sex machines if it interests you.
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Conclusion
When
they speak of great lovers of the past, present and future,
we speak of those who use knowledge, communication, and
creativity combined with respect, caring and sensuality.
Using those as your guide allows you to join the ranks the
best lovers on the planet!
The
Holistic Wisdom Corporation