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A
male patient is lying in bed in the hospital, wearing an oxygen
mask over his mouth and nose, still heavily sedated from a difficult,
four-hour, surgical procedure. A
young, student nurse appears to give him a partial sponge bath.
"Nurse",
he mumbles, from behind the mask. "Are my testicles black?" Embarrassed,
the young nurse replies, "I don't know, Sir. I'm only here to
wash your upper body and feet. He struggles to ask again, "Nurse,
are my testicles black?"
Concerned
that he may elevate his vitals from worry about his testicles,
she overcomes her embarrassment and sheepishly pulls back the
covers. She raises his gown, holds his penis in one hand and his
testicles in the other. Then, she takes a close look and says,
"There's nothing wrong with them, Sir!"
The
man pulls off his oxygen mask, smiles at her and says very slowly,
"Thank you very much. That was wonderful, but, listen very, very
closely...
A r e - m y - t e s t s - r e s u l t s - b a c k?"
Many
women also experience changes in their vagina. With arousal,
the vagina may tilt upwards and become longer. It may also
become wet with a "sweating" of the vaginal walls. This is
not female ejaculation
which comes from the Skenes Glans is similar to prostate fluid
in a male. This
lubrication of a woman's genitals is caused by the release
of a special fluid from the "vaginal epithelium" (the walls
of the vagina). This fluid is not like the sweat of your skin,
but is what scientists call a "modified plasma transudate."
Lisa
S. Lawless, Ph.D., C.E.O.
HolisticWisdom.com
Founder
In
general, the release of this fluid serves by making vaginal and
vulva play more comfortable during sexual play. It also aids in
the movement of sperm up the vaginal canal, increasing the likelihood
of impregnation.
Many people take this "sweating" of the vagina as a reliable sign
that a woman is sexually excited, or even that she is "ready"
for vaginal play or intercourse. Beware of such assumptions! Women
sometimes lubricate vaginally when they are not sexually aroused,
and women often feel erotically aroused without becoming vaginally
wet.
Excess
lubrication, even though some women feel almost embarrassed by
it, can easily be solved by use of an absorbent external panty-liner.
Dryness is another common problem, and is easily addressed.
Some women simply do not lubricate so plentifully, or at least
not plentifully enough to keep pace with their sexual wishes.
While some women become dry when anxious or under stress. Many
women become drier with the frequent use of tampons, other internal
sanitary devices, or douches. And most women will become drier
with the use of prescription medications that have anticholinergic
or sympathomimetic effects which dry out the "mucosal" or wet
tissues of the mouth and vagina. These include many common drugs
for allergic, cardiovascular, psychiatric, and other medical conditions.
You can always ask your physician before getting a prescription
or pharmacist after getting one as the what effects, if any, will
this medicine have on your sex life.
All women become drier as they approach and proceed through menopause.
This is because menopause causes a thinning of the vaginal walls
(from about nine epithelial layers to about three), with a consequent
loss of their elasticity and their capacity to produce fluid.
The solution to all these difficulties is to use artificial lubricants
for sexual play. Many brands are available in the "Feminine Hygiene"
or "Family Planning" sections of your local drug stores including
our own selection of lubricants.
Be careful of using K-Y Plus types of lubricants that contain
Nonoxynol and might irritate your vagina. Astroglide is
a favorite. This is an all water-soluble lubricant with glycerin
giving it slippery properties. Such lubricants are usually odorless,
tasteless, and sterile. They may also be hypoallergenic.
When
finding a "lube" that suits your erotic life, there are three
rules:
One
Always use a water-soluble lube. Never put a petroleum-based lubricant,
such as Vaseline, into your vagina. Petroleum-based jellies
are likely to increase your vulnerability to infections, and they
will corrode the latex used for condoms and other safer sex practices.
Two
Beware of confusions between moisturizers, anti-irritants, and
drying powders. Vagisil, for example, markets all three
under the same brand name. Anti-irritant creams (usually containing
5% to 20% benzocaine) numb the skin and are sometimes useful externally
on the vulval tissue, but should never be applied inside the vagina.
"Feminine powders" and talcs are sometimes used to absorb unwanted
wetness of the vulval area, and should also never be applied inside
the vagina. Moisturizers are lubes applied either directly inside
the vagina, or delivered by a vaginal suppository (such as Lubrin
and other brands).
Three
Remember that, unless the label of your lube states otherwise,
it is not a spermicidal (contraceptive), anti-viral, antibacterial
or estrogen-supplementing agent. If you want an estrogen supplement
or cream, you should consult a clinical sexologist or a knowledgeable
physician. If you want your lubricant to do double duty and provide
protection against sexually transmitted infections, buy one that
contains Nonoxynol. However, Nonoxynol can be irritating to the
delicate tissue of the vagina, increasing the receptivity of the
vaginal walls to infection; so if a Nonoxynol lube is going to
come into direct contact with the vagina, a counter-irritant such
as Avena Sativa should be used as well.
In
addition to using artificial lubricants, keeping healthy the musculature
of your pelvic floor will increase the blood supply to your vaginal
canal and will help with dryness as well as giving you an increased
sense of comfortable control over your genitals. Start doing "Kegel"
exercises. Find the relevant group of muscles by stopping and
starting the flow of your urine (while seated on the toilet).
Then, with an empty bladder, squeeze these muscles tight and hold
them for a count of three. Repeat this until they feel tired (initially
you may only be able to squeeze these muscles a couple of times
before they feel tired, later you should be able to gradually
work up to twenty repetitions). Do "kegels" twice a day, every
day if possible. Within a few weeks you will feel that they have
improved your sexual life.
Sooner or later every sexually active woman who enjoys vaginal
or vulval play will have a problem with dryness. Combat dryness
by becoming accustomed to using your lube regularly and plentifully.
Start young, before menopause is an issue. And don't be embarrassed
with your partners because, when used properly, lubes will enhance
sexual pleasure for you and for them. Lubricants make for a more
relaxed erotic life whether your favorite form of vaginal play
is with a finger, a sex toy, or a penis.
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Masturbate-a-thon
In England
August 2006
In England,
hundreds of people attended a Masturbate-a-thon that was sponsored
by Marie Stopes International, an HIV/ AIDS. They said that this
was a way to get people talking about safer sex, masturbation
and to lift taboos.
Participants
had to be over 18, and could bring any sexual aids they needed.
There can be no touching of other participants nor are people
allowed to fake orgasms. The amount of money a participant raises
will be determined by how many minutes they masturbate and/or
how many orgasms you achieve.
Local religious
groups had been initially outraged, but after people had heard
what the event was about, most had approved it. Police have also
given their approval.
Similar events
have been staged in San Francisco for the last six years raising
$25,000 for women's health initiatives and HIV prevention.
Scottish
politician Tommy Sheridan is a 42-year-old socialist member of
the Scottish parliament. A newspaper has claimed that Sheridan
cheated on his wife and went to night clubs for group sex. Sheridan
denies the claims and is seeking damages.
Fiona McGuire
is a 32-year-old former prostitute who said she had sex with Sheridan
over four years, starting shortly after the politician's marriage
to childhood sweetheart Gail in 2000.
Sheridan called
his wife Gail Sheridan, 42, as a witness who defended her husband
and said she would have killed him and dumped his body in Glasgow's
river Clyde if she believed the allegations. "You would be in
the Clyde with a piece of concrete tied round you and I would
be in court for your murder," she said.
If Sheridan
wins, the News of the World will face a libel bill of several
hundred thousand pounds. If he loses, he faces financial ruin
and the destruction of his reputation.
Robert Johnson,
the former publisher of Newsday and a New York State Regent, entered
a guilty plea Friday to charges that he possessed child pornography
and destroyed computer records that were the subject of a federal
investigation.
Johnson knowingly
possessed sexually explicit photographs of children and obtained
the illegal images by purchasing membership rights to websites
that sold child pornography.
After learning
of the inquiries, the indictment said, Johnson used a computer
program called "Evidence Eliminator" to destroy and obliterate
more than 12,000 files from his hard disc drive. Johnson faces
a maximum 10 year prison sentence on the charge of possession
of child pornography and a maximum of 20 years on the charge of
destruction of documents in connection with a federal investigation.
He is scheduled to be sentenced in Manhattan federal court on
Oct. 27.
Sexually
active teenagers aren't regularly using condoms according to a
survey by Child Trends research center. The report also showed
that Hispanic girls used contraception 36 percent of the time,
blacks used protection 57 percent of the time while whites used
it 72 percent.
Porn star
Jenna Jameson will will be in the mainstream horror film “Sin-Jin
Smyth.” The horror movie also stars former professional wrestler
Roddy Piper and Richard Tyson. The plot involves two federal marshals
who receive orders to cross the state border to transport a mysterious
prisoner named Sin-Jin Smyth during a tornado warning. An official
release date has not been announced.
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