Masturbation

Women and masturbation. Does not seem to be as natural for women and yet we should be asking ourselves why. Women should masturbate to better be in touch with their own bodies, communicate with their partners and experience all the pleasure their body affords them.

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This Issue's Quote "If you're going to be sexy in a photo, you'd better be thinking about sex rather than about being sexy." - Peta Wilson

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This Issue's Sex Joke

Wishful Thinking

A young couple is golfing one day on a very exclusive course lined with million-dollar houses. On the third tee, the wife slices her shot right through the large front window of the biggest house along the course.

They walk up, knock on the door, and hear a voice say, "Come on in." Opening the door, they see glass everywhere and a broken bottle lying on the floor. A man on the couch says, "Are you the people who broke my window?" The husband begins to apologize, but the man cuts him off. "Actually, I want to thank you—I’m a genie who was trapped in that bottle, and your wayward shot released me. I’m allowed to grant three wishes, so what I’d like to do is give each of you one wish, and I’ll keep the last one for myself."

"Fantastic!" says the husband. "I want a million dollars a year for the rest of my life." "No problem," says the genie, "it’s the least I could do. And you, ma’am, what do you want?"

"I want a house in every country in the world," says the wife.

"Consider it done," the genie replies, turning back to the man.

"And now for my wish. Because I’ve been trapped in that bottle, I haven’t had sex in a really long time. My wish is to sleep with your wife.

" The husband takes a long look at his wife and says, "Well, we did get a lot of money and all those houses. If you don’t mind, honey, I don’t either."

The wife agrees, and the genie takes her upstairs, where he ravishes her for three hours. After he’s through, the genie rolls over, looks at the wife, and asks, "How old is your husband, anyway?"

"Thirty-five," she replies.

"And he still believes in genies?"

Masturbation Tips  For Women
        What All Women Should Do & How

All women should masturbate whether they are single or in a relationship. Not just because it is healthy, and fun... but there is truly no better way to embrace the sexual beauty within yourself like masturbating. It allows you to better know yourself, your body, your sexual desires, your sexual preferences and provides you with the opportunity for a rich and fertile imagination through your sexual fantasies. There is no right or wrong way to masturbate; as long as it feels good and you aren’t going to harm yourself, it’s great. Remember that pleasure is the goal and however you get there is perfect.

Lisa S. Lawless, Ph.D., C.E.O. HolisticWisdom.com Founder

Preparation

The first thing to do is to set up a comfortable environment for yourself. If you’re going to use toys, get them and your lube out and near the play area. Read an erotic book or watch an erotic movie. Think of a past sexual encounter that really gets you hot, or fantasize about one you’d like to have one with. If you female ejaculate you may want to use the bath tub as a playground or simply get a waterproof liner to protect your sheets.

Pleasure Points

Clitoral Stimulation

You can use your hands, fingers, knuckles, a shower head, running water, vibrators, rubbing up against an object, anything that will stimulate the clitoris. The clitoris is the one organ on our bodies that is purely for sexual pleasure. Women are very excited by stimulation of the gspot, but some women are unable to orgasm unless they receive some sort of clitoral stimulation.

By using your fingers or hand, you can rub, stroke or pinch the clitoris. You can also rub the area around the clitoris and you may find that one side is preferred over another.

The shower massager head can be wonderful too. The shower head where you can adjust the stream of water, a steady, gentle stream and then a more powerful jet spray can be quite exciting.

I love vibrators, my favorite being the Hitachi Magic Wand (Powerful and fairly quiet) and the Water Dancer (Small, waterproof and very quiet). I have several different ones for different situations and different moods.

Holding a vibrator up against your clit is the way to feel the maximum amount of intense stimulation most quickly. I have found it so easy with the vibrators I use that I often have my first orgasm in the first 30 seconds of constant stimulation!

Since clits can be extremely sensitive you can also hold the vibrator around the general area if the vibrations are too strong.

G-Spot Stimulation

There are many toys out there that are specifically made to locate and stimulate the g-spot, like the Rabbit Habit. By using some type of dildo, you will also get that added feeling of fullness in your vagina, which kind of completes the whole experience.

Although, if you can locate your g-spot and can manipulate it and stimulate it with your fingers to your pleasure, then all that too can be great. Many women do find it easier to use some kind of toy. Sometimes using pillows, a bed headboard or even a bath tub to push yourself into a position with your legs open and provide easier access to reach up inside you is a good way to go.

Vaginal Stimulation

There’s always just pure penetration for the feeling of penetration. There are thousands of dildo’s and vibrating dildos on the market. I love the Dildo with Suction Cup because you can easily use it in the shower. And if your fingers or hands feel good too, than go for it!

Anal Stimulation

The anus is a very sensitive area of the body. When given a little bit of tender loving care, it can bring you to a wonderful place. You can explore the area with your fingers, just rubbing or tickling the area, or small insert anal toys. There are many to choose from. Just make sure that whenever you insert a toy, finger, etc. into your anus that you have plenty of lubrication and to wash your hands well if you decide to go to your vagina to prevent a Urinary Tract Infection!

Breasts

Let’s not forget about them. Touching, rubbing, fondling and even attaching nipple clamps the can be very exciting. If you’re breasts are large enough, try licking your nipples yourself. This can be extremely pleasurable.

The breasts are a wonderful erogenous zone that should not be ignored during any type of sex play. There is no right way to do it. You don’t even have to get naked.

Just relax and explore your body and see what feels good. Anyway you do it is your choice, just have fun. That’s the point of sex and sexual play, having fun doing it.

For more tips on masturbation as well as how to achieve female ejaculation make sure to check out The Art of Female Ejaculation on video and as a book / eBook.

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Sapphic Yearnings
         Submitted By Shelley

Lacey lit a Dunhill, took a long drag and exhaled slowly. It was twilight now, her favorite time of the evening. Those fleeting moments between day and night splashed orange-pink hues on a blueberry grey horizon. This time of day calmed Lacey's restless spirit. She often experienced the peace and comfort of her Japanese ancestors' presence in the subdued glow of twilight.

A low-flying Cessna cruised over the summer cottage located almost 100 feet from the waters edge on Lake Bonnier. In its wake the first star twinkled. The low hum of the planes engine was soon joined by the treble notes of human vocal chords behind Lacey.

The February night symphony of lake, creek, wind, crickets, birds, and tall pine tree tops overhead faded into the background. It was Colette. Lacey's extroverted Creole friend was finally home from a day of teaching at the university. "Hey, lady. Watcha doing out here on the deck, all by yourself? It's chilly." "Hmm-m, just thinking," Lacey responded without retreating her gaze from the woods, which were sprawled below on each side of the cottage.

The lake lapped at the shore directly before them. On the east side of the deck, where Colette came to lean against the railing, a deer peeked out from the trail that crossed the gurgling creek in the front yard. When it decided the two women posed no threat, the deer pranced across the grass, which separated the stilted deck from the lakes pebbly beach down below, and leapt into the woods on the west side of the property. Colette slid an arm around Lacey's waist and brushed her lips against the back of her neck, nudging the straight black hair with her nose over Lacey's shoulder. Both women stood 5 ' 7 " tall, their soft brown and olive complexions, respectively, were complementing one another.

Colette's medium build, hour-glass shape and 34C breasts attracted Lacey to her on the first day they met, at the downtown coffee shop. Colette, however, was mesmerized by Lacey's coal black eyes, seductive smile on sensual lips, and slender, hourglass frame. "Missed you today, baby," she whispered softly into Lacey's ear. "I couldn't stop thinking about the taste of you on my lips so sweet, so-o-o intoxicating." Lacey's body felt good against hers. Lacey shifted her weight from her left foot to her right and moaned at the thought of Colette's mouth buried in her passion fruit. She loved it when Colette hungered for her this way.

When they met five years ago, they did not let a single day go by without loving one another into pure exhaustion. Now, only the responsibilities of life got in the way, which delayed gratification made their lovemaking all the more passionate and beautiful when time did permit the luxury. "I have tantalizing thoughts of licking, lapping and sucking all your pussy nectar," she continued, nibbling now on Lacey's ear lobe.

Lacey's head fell back on Colette's shoulder, emitting a stream of smoke through her parted lips, a gossamer column into the now darkened, starry sky. She felt Colette's right hand massaging her 34A breasts, index fingers outlining circles around her erect nipples, and a warm, wetness forming in her panties. She moaned in surrender.

The yearning lady was slowly having her way with her pensive friend. "Hmm-m-m. The mangoes are ripe for the picking," Colette noted approvingly. She squeezed Lacey's long, hard nipples rhythmically between her fingers and sashayed her mound back-and-forth across Lacey's perfectly round derrière. Lacey felt her pussy lips swell and the beginning throb that would undo her into Colette's knowing lips, tongue and hands. She had forgotten there was life down there amidst the rush of work, deadlines, revisions, and everything else she loved about litigation.

She smiled in response to Colette's coaxing and took another drag on the cigarette. She enjoyed the foreplay and was in no hurry to end it. Colette continued the seduction with more baby kisses all over her neck. Lacey put the cigarette out in the ash tray on the rail. She gently loosened Colette's embrace around her waist, to turn around, face Colette, and be taken by her. Her blouse was promptly and expertly unbuttoned. Colette was determined to undo this workaholic and cream all of Lacey's tensions onto her own ravenous lips.

Licking Lacey was her favorite part of their lovemaking, and Colette always succeeded in driving Lacey into oblivion. She finally released the breasts she had been massaging earlier from their bra cups and cradled them with her hands. The chill of the evening made Lacey shiver but she did not protest. Colette engulfed one breast with hungry lips and massaged the other. Lacey moaned in pleasure. Colette suckled slowly at first, taking care to nibble and flick the nipple between her teeth, and then greedily sucked the whole breast into her mouth, loving the softness of it and the way it tingled and wet her own mound.

She briefly raised her head to watch Lacey watching her and, in that moment, Lacey grabbed Colette's face with both hands. She kissed Colette sensually and thrust her tongue into her surprised lips. Colette unzipped Lacey's jeans while their mouths licked, sucked and slurped tonguing passionately and raising the temperature between them. She recalled how Lacey had taught her how this type of deliberate love-making slow, deliberate, and often dramatic in its movement-- heightened orgasms with the intensity of sheer erotic force.

The pleasure principle rules, Lacey said. When the fly was open, Colette dove her right hand deep inside Lacey's panties. She cupped her nest and probed the longest finger into her. Lacey's responsive gaze was lecherous she wanted it done to her. Colette kissed Lacey again, continuing to probe softly into the slick recesses of Lacey's beautiful, clean-shaven lips, which were now pressing and gyrating against the palm of Colette's hand. Lacey's panties were completely soaked.

She grabbed Colette's buttocks with both hands to control the rhythm of each jolting wave of pleasure. Oooh, Cole, I love it!! I love the way you make me feel. Lacey was on fire and ready to 69, but Colette wanted her to burn a little while longer. Still cupping the mound, she added the ring and pointer fingers to stroke Lacey in triplet, bringing out oodles of more warm, juicy nectar, the way she liked it. Lacey leaned back to rest her elbows on the deck railing. She circled her hips slowly to the rhythm of Colette's loving fingers.

Colette watched her, longing to put the cum dripping out and around her fingers into her mouth. Instead, she simply commented, your nectar baby so much of your sweetness, dripping out onto my fingers. You know I love the taste of you, don't you?? Lacey gave her a painfully acquiescent smile. She knew Colette's yearnings better than she knew her own. Colette gratefully withdrew her fingers from Lacey's pussy and stuck them into her mouth. She sucked and licked them fervently. Mm-mm-mm. She responded, savoring the sweet yumminess her friend, and quickly shoved the fingers back into her, at the commencement of another orgasm.

Lacey was turned on by the sight of Colette enjoying the taste of her. She wanted to taste her pussy juices, too. She took Colette's face into both her hands and tongued her expertly-- licking inside and outside Colette's lips before sucking gently on her tongue. Their tongues danced rhythmically around one other, lingering on the pleasure of sober, uninhibited lust shared by familiar lovers. But Colette was not yet finished with Lacey's flowing river. She stepped back. The heat emanating from their bodies foretold of the insatiable desire which would burn long into the night and until early morning before it could be cooled satisfactorily.

Colette pulled Lacey's jeans and panties down to her ankles and stayed on her knees, nuzzling her nose into her friends beautifully clean-shaven candy box. She loved the smell of her but, rather than toy with Lacey's pussy lips as she normally did, Colette simply plunged her tongue, lips and mouth upward into Lacey's eager cunt, licking and sucking eagerly while massaging Lacey's buttocks in the open-and-close rhythm. Lacey's juices were all over her nose, face, and hairline but Colette didn't care. Lacey pressed her lips and gyrated on Colette's face, running her fingers through Colette's soft brown, golden-streaked mane, moaning with sheer delight. Colette pulled Lacey's clit gently between her teeth and sucked it until she felt Lacey begin to cum. Fingers, baby? Lacey pleaded. Colette added three fingers to her clit suckling, just before Lacey climaxed. Ah-h-h, yes, yes! My God, I needed this. It feels so good!

Colette slowed the finger-stroke, allowing Lacey's multiples to subside pleasurably. Each breath Lacey exhaled was a little more relaxed than the preceding one. Colette enjoyed watching her bask in the afterglow. She kissed easy pussy lip and Lacey's clit. Lacey shuddered. Colette licked each pussy lip, savoring the feel of it, like the feel of a tongue gliding on an ice cream cone.

She could keep Lacey in her mouth forever. When Lacey's contractions ceased grabbing her fingers, Colette slid them out of the hot, gooey kitty. She pulled Lacey's jeans and panties up to her waist and embraced her in the cold night breeze. Their bodies were molded together while they licked, kissed and sucked one another's neck, ears, face, and lips. They ground their hips and bumped their wet mounds together through their clothes. Neither of them liked to rush, although there were occasions when they engaged in pure, rough, animal passion.

Colette whimpered as she came, gathering Lacey's face in her hands and smothering both their cries of pleasure with mouths pressed together tonguing and sucking greedily as they slid down the other side of the orgasmic precipice. When they were done, they rocked quietly beneath the moonlight.

Finally, Lacey broke the revelry, without releasing Colette from her arms. They smiled at one other for a moment before savoring another kiss. The final release of their lips was a punctuated suck, which echoed on the night breeze. I've got the munchies now for you, Lacey whispered. Let's go inside? Colette, already wet from their kitty dancing, quivered at the thought of what she knew was to follow. She was also anxious to get at Lacey's rosebud, which she had not been able to do on the deck. Ok, let's go inside.

She took Lacey's hand and they walked together through the French doors. The fire was still ablaze in the fireplace and, before long, so would their entangled bodies be ablaze on the bear rug.

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Sex In The News

This section is for sexual current events and news; allowing our web site visitors to hear sex news around the world.

Naughty Nurses

A British hospital has banned its staff from using social networking sites after two nurses posted a topless photo on Facebook. Officials at the Northhampton General Hospital were concerned because “the picture showed two nurses in uniform and on night duty baring their breasts to the mobile phone camera with patients accidentally caught in the background,” the Northhampton Chronicle & Echo reports.

The Leader In Orgasms

South Africans, Spaniards, Mexicans and Italians are the world leaders in orgasms, a new study shows. “In all, 66 percent [in these countries] orgasmed almost every time they had sex,” Health24.com reports. At the other end of the list were Hong Kong and China (24 percent) alongside Japan (27 percent).

Libido Drug For Women

A libido-boosting drug for women will hit the market in two years, experts say. Researchers at Nova Southeastern University have been testing the effects of the compound flibanserin, which works on the parts of the brain that help control arousal. This different approach seems to be working, since women don’t respond to drugs like Viagra that boost blood flow to the genitals, the Orlando Sun-Sentinel reports.

Christian Brothel?

An Arizona pastor was discovered allegedly running a brothel under the guise of a church-sponsored day spa. John LaVoie of the Church of Liberty in Tucson ran a spa where he claims his female “angel” staff was merely practicing the “laying on of hands”—a traditional Christian healing method—on patrons. Authorities say that employees at the Angel’s Heaven Relaxation Spa weren’t exactly doing religious work, the Arizona Star reports.

Braless Bandits

A Florida man claims he was robbed by a gang of braless thieves. The 18-year-old was riding his bicycle when he was allegedly accosted “by five buxom women clad in overalls—with no shirts or bras underneath,” Fox News reports.

Paris Hilton Porn Portrait

A British artist has created two elaborate collages of Paris Hilton and President Bush out of porn magazine clippings. British artist Jonathan Yeo, whose works are currently on display in a New York art gallery, is also selling posters of the Hilton portrait for $20. “Yeo is offering Paris 100 percent of the proceeds from the sale of the posters because she never received any money from her infamous 2004 sex video with then-boyfriend Rick Salomon,” Popcrunch reports.

Nude Painting of Palin

A four-foot-tall oil painting depicting a nude Sarah Palin is currently on display at a Chicago dive bar. Bruce Elliott, proprietor of the Old Town Ale House, is also the painter of the piece, which features a naked Palin holding a huge machine gun and standing in red high heels atop a polar bear rug. “I’d like to offend somebody,” Elliott told WindyCitizen.com. “I would love it if the Secret Service called me up.”

Horney Goat Weed

Web MD reports that the Chinese herb “horny goat weed” (or epimedium) has promise as a treatment for erectile dysfunction. Research from the University of Milan has found that icariin, the main compound in the plant, produces similar results as Viagra. Horny goat weed has been used as a natural supplement for ED for years in China.

Techie Nipple Stimulation

A Japanese techno-blogger has invented an iPhone app that simulates a woman’s breast when touched. “PaiTouch” has the breast react to the touch as if it was real, indenting and bouncing on the screen. Even though users are only copping a virtual feel, the real-life sales of the app are expected to boom.

Daddy's Little Girl

The daughter of a radical Islamic cleric dances topless in gentleman’s clubs. Blonde 26-year-old Yasmin Fostok “has been displaying her ample charms cavorting in cages in pole dancing clubs in London’s West End, and touring as a ‘podium dancer’ with a troupe called Ibiza Untouched,” according to the Daily Mail.

Fashion Showing Off Nipples

The latest fashion trend: nipples. At least based on the sheer quantity of exposed cleavage at a London fashion show recently. “Almost every designer sent out see-through looks that made us blush, from the transparent tops at Ossie Clark to the near-naked dress at Osman Yousefzada,” reports New York magazine, which included a slide show.

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