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November 12, 2006

Fear Of Sex Toys
What Many People Worry About

Sex Toy Reviews
What Staff & Customers Really Think


Sex In The News


Vegas Exotic Dancers Must Keep Distance
Newspaper Gets Slammed For Sex Story
Church Addressing Sex With Whipped Cream
Town Makes Road Signs Non-sexist
Men Spend Six Months Ogling Women
Girl Swallows Toothbrush Practicing A Blow Job
Abstinence Message Going Beyond Teens
Who's to blame for Pastor Haggard's fall from grace?
His fat, lazy wife.
Republican National Committee Accepts Money From Army Porn Movie Distributor
Island Fever 4 Continues To Set Records

This Issue's Quote

"I stopped getting the girl about ten years ago. Which is just as well because I'd forgotten what I wanted her for."

- John Wayne

 

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This Issue's Sex Jokes

The Night Out-

Two nuns decide they're going to sneak out of the convent and have a real night on the town. They hit all the bars and dance clubs, and decide they've finally got to head back to the convent. To enter the convent's grounds they have to crawl under some barbed wire. The nuns start crawling under the wire on their bellies. As they're crawling under the wire, the first nun turns to the second and says, "I feel like a marine." The second replies, "Yeah, me too, but where can you find one this time of night?"

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It doesn't care that you gained 10 lbs.
It doesn't fall asleep and snore in your ear afterwards.
You don't have to clean up the apartment before bringing it home.
You don't have to cook it breakfast and pretend to be interested in it the next morning.
You can throw them in a drawer and only take them out when you want to!
They don't get tired after the first time.
They never poke you in the back in the morning to see if you are in the mood.
They never drink too much and embarrass you.
You don't have to reassure the vibrator it's the best you ever had!
Vibrators don't prematurely ejaculate.
Safe sex without a rubber.
Vibrators don't ask who your Daddy is.
They don't burp, fart, belch or fall asleep on you.
It has no problem finding the "g spot."
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Vibrators don't care if you get crumbs in the bed.

 

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Fear Of Sex Toys
         What Many People Worry About

Since I wrote the article about Men's Fears of Sex Toys: Will She Like It Better Than Me?, I received a great deal of eMail and phone calls from people who had said that it really helped them to explore such fears.

Fear of sex toys certainly applies to both men and women and I thought it would be a positive thing to explore many of the most common fears that people feel about them. Fear often leads to myths and misconceptions and sex toys are no exception. Below are just a few of them-

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Lisa S. Lawless, Ph.D., C.E.O.
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Sex Toys Are Only For Perverts Or Sluts

This myth is simply in no way true. Normal, healthy people use sex toys all the time. If it helps break any misconceptions we have sex toy orders from every type of person imaginable. From accountants, doctors, celebrities, professional athletes, to house wives and college students. Using a sex toy doesn't make you "weird," it helps provide pleasure, creativity and adventure to your sex life.

Your Partner Will Feel Inadequate If You Buy A Sex Toy

The bottom line is that toys only enhance variety and pleasure if you and your lover already have a good sexual connection. Even if you separate out physical sensation with emotional and mental sexual turn ons... the physical sensation of another person and you getting off with each other is hotter than anything else.

For example, my vibrator stimulates my clitoris faster than my husband ever could, but the feeling of his finger rubbing it gets me off for a few reasons. Not only does his finger rub me the right way, it is warm and I get off knowing he is touching me. Most women and men do!

Using Sex Toys Can Be Dangerous

Sex toys are not dangerous if used properly. They can have very positive effect on your sexual health. For example, menopausal women can use dildos to maintain vaginal tone, staving off incontinence and other sexual health issues. Many doctors and therapists recommend sex toys to women who have trouble reaching orgasm. And finally, a healthy relationship with your body is beneficial to your overall health. Using sex toys heightens your awareness of your body and its functions, making you more alert to abnormalities such as bumps, lumps or abrasions.

If You Have A Partner You Don't Need A Sex Toy

Using a sex toy with your lover can actually strengthen your relationship. You need to have a certain amount of closeness to share this intimate new experience together. Using a sex toy can be a good affirmation of that closeness. If your lover doesn't think you need a sex toy to brighten up your sex life, assure him or her that you don't need a sex toy either, you'd just like to try one as a way to have creativity and a positive sexual adventure that you can share together.

Sex Toys Are For Masturbation Only

While sex toys are great for masturbation, many couples enjoy using sex toys together, regardless of their gender or sexual orientation. It doesn't mean there's anything wrong with your relationship, in fact it is quite the opposite. Again, the kind of couples who are comfortable trying new things together are open-minded, intimate, comfortable and trusting. Using a sex toy together is a good way to reaffirm the strength of your relationship.

Buying Sex Toys Is Embarrassing

We certainly agree that most people do find it embarrassing. That is why we ensure that our company will not send your order in anything but discreet packaging. We will not contact you in regard to anything but your order, and we will never sell your information. You don't have to worry about racy catalogs coming to your house or any other such potential embarrassment. We really care about your feelings and do all we can to protect them.

 

Introducing Toys To Your Relationship

Start Slowly

I don't recommend buying a huge strap on with an anal attachment for double penetration as a first purchase. It is key to start a hesitant or cautious partner with something small and not intimidating. Try a nice simple vibrator like the Waterdancer to get you started. Once your honey is used to the vibe, you can move up to more adventurous toys. Be aware that a traumatic first time experience may be your last so take it easy at first.

Communicate With You Partner

Make sure that you partner is on board when it comes to the idea of using one, and even after an agreement be sensitive to the fact that this is a new experience. As with any new experience there is often a level of anxiety which means that performance anxiety can also come into play. If this should happen, use lubrication, and integrate the toy after you begin to fool around. Also make sure you have enough time to relax and enjoy your time together this is not a good time to be rushed.

Be Flexible

The toy you or your partner have selected might turn out to be totally wrong for your sexual personalities. That's okay, just put it aside, try something different, be patient. Your partner may agree to play with the toy, and then change his or her mind midway through the experience. That's his or her prerogative. Be patient and try again another time, maybe even with a different toy. It might take awhile, but it will be worth the wait.


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Vegas Exotic Dancers Must Keep Distance
November 2006

Exotic dancers have been banned from rubbing against customers as a court has upheld a Las Vegas city regulation barring them from raunchy physical contact with their customers. This ruling seems to counter the gambling city's sinful reputation... guess what goes on in Vegas, may not be as bad as people think... at least in the strip clubs.

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Newspaper Gets Slammed For Sex Story
November 2006

Sexually uptight Malaysian government leaders have reprimanded a local newspaper for publishing an expose of sexual attitudes among the country's youth.

The Weekend Mail gave detailed descriptions of favorite sex positions from its survey -- including "spooning, galloping and tea bag positions" -- in three pages of stories that delivered on its front-page promise: "You'll be shocked."

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Church Addressing Sex With Whipped Cream
November 2006

The United Church of Canada hopes an ad featuring a can of whipped cream and the question, "How much fun can sex be before it's a sin?" will fill its pews as Christmas nears.

The country's biggest Protestant denomination launched an advertising campaign meant to provoke debate on the "deep and persistent attitudes and images of organized religion."

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Town Makes Road Signs Non-sexist
November 2006

A Spanish town council has vowed to banish sexism from street signage by demanding half of all road signs and traffic lights show female figures with skirts and ponytails.

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Men Spend Six Months Ogling Women
November 2006

The average British male spends six months of his life ogling women, a new study reveals. Researchers claim men will target eight different girls every day and spend two minutes eyeing up each one. The first thing the average bloke will look at is the breasts before working down to the bottom and then the legs. Girls do it too but they are not as prolific, picking only two men a day for 90 seconds at a time - for just one month of their life.

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Girl Swallows Toothbrush Practicing A Blow Job
November 2006

A Romanian teenager may need surgery after she swallowed her toothbrush. The 15-year-old girl, named only as Adreea V from Falticeni, in Suceava county, went to A&E saying she had accidentally swallowed the toothbrush. However, her friend told doctors she swallowed the toothbrush while imitating some ‘extreme’ moves she saw in adult movies. The toothbrush showed up in an X-ray in the girl’s stomach. Doctors say if the toothbrush does not come out “naturally” they will have to operate.

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Abstinence Message Going Beyond Teens
November 2006

The federal government's "no sex without marriage" message isn't just for kids anymore. Now the government is targeting unmarried adults up to age 29 as part of its abstinence-only programs, which include millions of dollars in federal money that will be available to the states under revised federal grant guidelines for 2007. The government says the change is a clarification. But critics say it's a clear signal of a more directed policy targeting the sexual behavior of adults.

Read More At USAToday.com

 

Who's to blame for Pastor Haggard's fall from grace? His fat, lazy wife.
November 2006

Colorado Springs' New Life Church announced that it has fired Pastor Ted Haggard for his "sexually immoral conduct." The much publicized meth and gay hooker scandal has elicited a little bit of soul searching and a lot hemming and hawing from Haggard's fellow Evangelical leaders but the best once came from the following-

Pastor Mark Driscoll of Seattle's Mars Hills church said this of the case- "Most pastors I know do not have satisfying, free, sexual conversations and liberties with their wives. At the risk of being even more widely despised than I currently am, I will lean over the plate and take one for the team on this. It is not uncommon to meet pastors' wives who really let themselves go; they sometimes feel that because their husband is a pastor, he is therefore trapped into fidelity, which gives them cause for laziness. A wife who lets herself go and is not sexually available to her husband in the ways that the Song of Songs is so frank about is not responsible for her husband's sin, but she may not be helping him either."

We at Holistic Wisdom felt a bit of sarcasm come over us and had this to say...

Way to go Driscoll, glad to hear that you teach pastors to take responsibility for their own behavior and not blame the victims of their indiscretions

Oh, that is right we know you would not really recommend doing that as it would be too much like following the real teachings of the God you claim to worship.

Read More At HuffingtonPost.com

 

Republican National Committee Accepts Money From Army Porn Movie Distributor
November 2006

Despite running an attack ad accusing a Democratic senatorial candidate of accepting money from "porn movie producers," the Republican National Committee itself has accepted several donations over the past few years from the president of a large pornographic movie distribution company.

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Island Fever 4 Continues To Set Records
November 2006

Joone’s Island Fever 4 has been met with a strong response from distributors, retailers and consumers alike since its Sept. 28 release date.

The company said it shipped record numbers for the title, which is the first production to star all of Digital Playground's exclusive contract stars.

Joone captured Jesse Jane, Teagan Presley, Jana Cova and Sophia Santi, together with Kinzie Kenner, Marie Luv, Evan Stone, Scott Nails, Tommy Gunn, Marco Banderas and Jean Val Jean, in 16 sex scenes in the three-disc, limited edition collector's set.

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Digital Playground and Joone, the highly acclaimed director of Pirates, are excited to announce the release of Island Fever # 4, the first production to star all of Digital Playground's exclusive contract superstars. Joone recalls his favorite, "We shot an all girl orgy on the beach that is insane. All of our stars, Jesse, Teagan, Jana and Sophia are ravenous for one another. Each of them wants to be the best lover, give the best orgasm and have the best orgasm. It was the ultimate fantasy. I've never seen anything like it."

The title includes 10 boy/girl scenes, five girl/girl pairings and a four-girl orgy. It also includes a dozen solo sequences. The feature clocks in at over three hours and the DVD extras run over two hours. IVD buyer Scott Neumyer remarked, "With the combination of Digital Playground's stellar talent, early preorders, and the phenomenal success of previous volumes in the series, IVD has ordered heavily on Island Fever 4.

We just want to make sure we have plenty to go around to keep all of our customers fully stocked and happy." The company also reported that the Island Fever 4 trailer has been downloaded over 450,000 times since its release on Sept. 1. Company president Samantha Lewis said, “I always expect the Island Fever series to do well but the staggering numbers surprised us all. Huge, record orders are the best testament to our visibility and consumer demand.” Digital Playground’s Island Fever series has received numerous awards from various organizations since its debut. In 2001, the original Island Fever received the AVN award for Best Renting Tape, among other honors, paving the way for one of adult's most heralded lines.

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