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Weddings
are often a time of joy, family, stress, parties, drinking,
eating, gifts, flirtation and much more. The bride and groom
often have their obstacles to hurdle as do the guests.
Sex
is often a major topic from discussions, bachelorette and
bachelor parties as well as the wedding night. The following
is the first in a series of articles that we will be doing
to cover all of these aspects and more.
Lisa
S. Lawless, Ph.D., C.E.O.
HolisticWisdom.com
Founder
Wedding
Night
Sex Tips
Keep
Expectations Realistic
A
wedding can be exhausting, so it is important to understand that
a romantic evening afterward may take some planning and consideration.
Often times couples build up their wedding night in their mind
to be the end-all sex experience in their minds. While it can
be amazing, don't build it up in your mind to be perfect because
it is more about just having a relaxing, good, romantic time together.
Note
for the sexually active couple
For
couples who are already sexually active, you might try not having
sex with each other for a couple of weeks before the wedding.
Many couples try this to make the wedding night sex fresh and
new again.
Note
for the virgin-
You have waited so your expectations may be higher than someone
who has had sex before. Your first time may be not be what you
had expected, but don’t worry it can get a lot better. Make sure
you bring a water-based lubricant and do everything you can to
relax and just enjoy the evening.
Things
To Do Before & During The Wedding
Flirt
with each other during the wedding, remember to make time for
one another in-between talking to everyone else by sharing sexy
looks, laughter, kisses and even whisper naughty things into their
ear. This will help build the excitement for later.
Take
time to read sex instruction
books or watch Better Sex DVDs
that will give you pointers on how to better sexually please your
soon to be spouse before the wedding night.
Plan
ahead and get romantic items for the wedding night in advance
as discussed later in this article.
Take
It Easy
Most
brides and grooms are exhausted from the emotional aspects of
a wedding not to mention the stress, activities, dancing and drinking.
While you both may be a little too tired to have the best sex
of your lives you can make this night about simply connecting
emotionally with one another. Even if you decide to save sex for
the next day and sleep, there is no reason why you can't hold
one another and enjoy being together on this special night.
Make
sure to compliment your new spouse, you may both be feeling vulnerable
and a bit out of sorts. Marriage is a big commitment and you both
just took a leap of faith. Make sure to remind your sweetie just
how wonderful they looked today and how much you love them.
Because
you will be tired, make sure you do things that relax you both.
This is a great time to have a romantic time together, sensual
massage, talking, bathing, snuggling and having a more intimate
sexual experience.
Items
To Have On Hand
Soy
Scented Candles-
These can create romantic lighting as well a an aromatic scent
to delight your senses. Why soy? Because paraffin is toxic.
Romantic
Music-
Make sure to remember favorite CDs or MP3's that you can plug
in for play to make things feel familiar. Many couples feel strange
in a hotel for their wedding night and bringing items that will
make you feel at home such as favorite songs you both love is
a perfect way to set a relaxing mood.
Massage
Oils & Lubricants-
Bringing massage scented massage oils is a great way to give one
another a relaxing massage as well as keep your bodies slickened
and easily able to slide against one another. Bringing stimulating
and flavored lubricants is another way to make sexual activities
not only nice and wet, but also feeling and even tasting wonderful!
Sex
Toys -
Now is a great time to bring out your favorite sex toys. One of
the favorites like the Hitachi
Magic Wand doubles as a body massager in addition to
a sex toy. You can also give your bride or groom a romantic
gift basket as your way of inviting them into a whole
new life with you full of sexual adventure!
Traveling
With Sex Toy Tips- If you travel with them, make sure not
to leave batteries in your sex toys, you don't want your suitcase
buzzing!
Sexy
Underwear-
Make sure that you have some sexy undergarments to dazzle your
new spouse with. This is a special day and deserving of special
dressing underneath your clothes.
Rose
petals and Exotic flowers-
Most florists will have small bags of fresh roses petals for purchase
that will last several days. Spread them along the floor leading
from the door to the bed. Lay them out on the bed as well. Consider
a few bouquets of roses or some more exotic flowers such as orchids,
violets or lilies.
Chocolate-
Most
couples love chocolate, having some to enjoy whether it be in
a box or even body
chocolates is always a fun idea.
Champagne-
Here’s a short list of our personal favorites: Dom Perignon, Perrier-Jouet,
Veuve Clicquot or for the budget conscious- Andre.
Josh’s
First, Big Adventure
An
Erotic Tale by Bobjj123
Josh Wessman
had never been so excited before. His mouth was dry with an acrid
taste and as he moved to please the eighteen year old woman who
lay before him. Josh was going where he’d never gone before as
he moved by instinct alone and based on the sounds from Ardith,
the girl he was serving, he was doing something right. After a
series of preliminary activities that had included several assignations
of kissing and feeling and touching he moved forward between her
legs so that his lips were directly over the opening to her vagina.
As he moved,
he became aware of the scent of a woman, slightly pungent, not
unpleasant and unique to his senses. The source of the aroma was
easily discernible as he moved upwards with his lips to the upper
end of her slit, lapping her labia as he went. Josh moved slowly,
exploring and experimenting as he moved and responding to Ardith’s
reactions.
Then, seeking
more sensitive spots in her pubis area, he placed his thumbs on
either side of her outer labia and spread them to expose the delicate,
smooth folds of the membrane of her inner labia. It was a welcome
move as evidenced by Ardiths cries of pleasure. He moved forward
until him mouth was scant inches from it before blowing his warm
breath on to the soft membranes.
"Ohhhh my
Gooodddd!" Ardith cried as she felt the gently draft from the
hot breath on her already aroused pussy. It was a few seconds
later when she felt Josh’s tongue against the soft membrane. She
writhed and lived out her increasing passions.
He had started
at the lower end of her slit and slowly kissed and tongued the
folds of that inner labia as he moved slowly upwards and over
the opening to her vagina. As he moved, Josh worked at improving
his technique and soon began to enjoy the activities... he felt
the power he was exerting over her.
Having tongued
her vagina and moved back down and up again, he moved up further
still. With his thumbs he parted the sheath covering her now enlarged
clit and placed his lips over it in a suckling action and then
a nibbling which brought a major response from Ardith. So intense
was her reaction that for a moment Josh thought he might have
hurt her but it became immediately evident that her enhanced responses
were from pleasure alone.
As Josh sucked
and kissed the erect clit, he heard Ardith cry out, "Fuck me.
I want it now!" and felt a surge of confidence as he realized
that he had brought her to that point. Suddenly he was in no hurry
as he continued his ministrations.
Josh was a
virgin. Ardith was reported by the studs in high school to be
too difficult to get next to and she simply didn’t fuck. As usual,
the rumors were just that and quite wrong about her. She didn’t
fuck the loudmouths and studs that were noted for their sexual
prowess.
Ardith had,
however, experienced sex frequently. She had been extremely cautious
and carried on her rather covert affairs only with carefully selected
boys and under her control. Should a boy wish to have a return
date with her, he should never reveal anything about their sexual
activities and, since she had carefully selected gentlemen in
the first place, her reputation remained intact.
Josh was actually
the fifth boy she had selected to date her; only the third to
have gotten as far as Josh. Her first, involved a Senior student
who, though considerably older than her and experienced had provided
her first experience with sex and though she got any real enjoyment
out of it, she learned much of her body and her needs.
The others
had all provided her with less than satisfactory experiences and
only one of those was permitted to put his dick in her after he
had licked her pussy. She knew that there was more to sex than
she had discovered... perhaps it was instinctive. Perhaps it was
simply a suspicion.
Then, she
had looked at Josh for the first time. She had known him since
grammar school and knew him to be an honor student, a good athlete
and active in a number of school clubs. Although she knew he had
dated girls from time to time, she was pretty sure there had been
no serious relationships. Best of all, he never talked about those
girls!
Within a week,
Ardith had Josh’s attention and in another week, Josh was sure
that it had been his idea to ask her for a date. They had gone
to a movie and did some light petting. A week later, they went
to dinner and a school play and got to some heavy petting in Josh’s
family sedan. It had been over a month since they’d started dating
when she suggested that her parents were going to be gone the
following weekend and that they should plan something.
The weekend
assignation was soon planned and Josh was filled with anticipation
as he had approached Ardith’s back door lest he be seen entering
her house while her parents were away.
As the door
closed behind him and he was inside the strange house, he felt
Ardith move towards him and plant a kiss on his lips. In minutes
they were in each other’s arms and fondled and caressed. When
Josh removed her blouse, she did not object. Then she had helped
Josh remove his shirt.
She moved
to assist Josh, who was awkwardly fumbling with the snaps, in
removing her bra. Then, with her breasts fully exposed, she waited
as Josh fumbled and experimented with the breasts. It was then
that Ardith felt her suspicion that Josh was a virgin was confirmed.
She allowed him to continue to fumble and familiarize himself
with a woman’s breasts. As he fumbled, Ardith felt her passions
rising. Perhaps she could train him.
A few minutes
later, Josh had reacted to her responses and had become quite
adroit at pleasing her. Ardith, on the other hand, lay enjoying
the pleasure he was invoking in her. She began considering the
possibility of letting him fuck her... he seemed to have a natural
ability to please a woman.
It was as
she was about to make the decision when Josh stopped what he was
doing and move to remove her skirt and panties. Again, it was
not the act of an experienced lover and Ardith’s ardor began to
cool.
Before she
had time to think about it, Josh moved again, off the bed and
around between her legs. He kissed her feet and ankles and moved
slowly up her legs kissing and laving as he went. It was then
that she realized what Josh was doing and what was about to transpire.
She had never experienced it before.
Josh had moved
slowly, taking each new step carefully and working to please the
girl he wanted so desperately to give his virginity. He worked
ever so carefully so as not to dissuade her from the final completion
of the act.
When Josh
heard the word, "Fuck me" come from Ardith’s mouth, he knew that
he had made her ready. His confidence reached new highs. He was
in no hurry.
He approached
his oral performance with renewed effort and got an even stronger
response. Ardith was crying out little animal sounds and attempting
to pull him up over her. He continued his cunnilingus.
It was then
that Ardith felt movement again and even as she felt her own cunt
being seriously licked, she saw Josh’s cock only a few inches
from her mouth. "Take it," Josh said.
Ardith had
never sucked a cock before; it had all seemed so dirty somehow.
It was when she saw Josh’s there just inches away that she decided
to try. She wasn’t sure why... perhaps it was an experiment. Perhaps
not!
She placed
her mouth over the crown of Josh’s penis and commenced mouthing
it. As she toyed with the prick in her mouth she decided that
the act was a pleasant one and it seemed to increase her empowerment.
Suddenly Ardith
was horny... filled with lust to the point she had never experienced
before. She wanted that big cock in her mouth deep in her throat
and she wanted it then. She moved.
As she moved,
Josh sensed what Ardith was seeking and moved over her into the
missionary position. With no experience, Josh again acted on instinct
alone as he move into position. Then, he felt Ardith’s hands guiding
his virgin cock into her waiting and ready pussy.
He drove himself
slowly into her, relishing each new sensation and nuance that
came from the friction between his cock and her vagina. Ardith
lay passive, enjoying the penetration as she never before had.
She was hotter than she’d ever been. She realized that she had
reached a new level of pleasure unlike any she’d ever imagined.
She wondered why? But not for long!
Josh’s big
cock had reached bottom and she was struck with a sudden pain
in the cervix area as she realized that he was capable of at least
another inch or two. As she contemplated this she felt Josh withdraw
till he was nearly totally extracted from her before pushing himself
slowly in. Then, ,just as she felt her cervix touched but before
pain, he withdrew only to repeat the motion again.
Soon there
was a steady reciprocating motion as Josh drove himself into Ardith.
For Ardith, a bit fearful of the long cock that had caused her
pain, soon noticed with some satisfaction that she was taking
all of Josh’s cock to the very hilt! Then, free to experience
the steadily rising lust, Ardith found herself reveling in pleasure.
Of course,
young lovers seldom last long in conjugal love before they reach
their peaks and Ardith and Josh were no exceptions. When Josh
felt his semen rise up in preparation for the big climax, he cried
out, "I’m gonna’ come." and Ardith barely had time to object before
she felt the spurts of jizm flying onto her belly. She went to
the bathroom to clean up.
It was on
her return to the bedroom that she saw Josh waiting, his cock
again at full extension, a certain confident look in his eye.
She rushed to him, knocking him backwards on to the bed and mounted
him as he lay where he fell on his back. There were no preliminaries
as she moved to position herself over his resurrected phallus
and lower her vagina over his pole. It was another first for both
of them.
They worked
together now as experienced lovers and were soon at new levels
of passion that neither had ever experienced or even imagined
and they drove themselves in a fit towards their peak. In a few
minutes it was over. . . both were completely sated.
Josh lay beside
his exhausted lover reviewing what he had just experienced. He
was pretty sure he’d done things just right based on the reactions
of the girl next to him and he had some good ideas regarding how
he might improve his technique. He thought that with a bit more
experience with some other girls he might become quite proficient
in the art of making love. His confidence was peaked at an all-time
high.
For Ardith,
it was also a new experience. She felt totally affected for the
first time and marveled at the pleasure she had received from
this inexperienced virgin. She wondered what it was that he had
provided that drove her to the heights she had attained. Oh! It
was true that he’d eaten her and given her a slow, easy buildup
and it was true that they were in her comfortable bed but there
surely was something else.
It was late
in the day when Ardith suggested that Josh had better leave lest
her parents come home and find evidence of their tryst. On Monday,
at school, the two hardly spoke as they kept their relationship
clandestine. For the next couple of weeks, Ardith was either busy
or had some reason that they might get back together.
Then Josh
happened to meet Geena as she was preparing to walk home from
school. Geena was the senior class ‘beauty’; brunette, clear ivory
skin, blue eyes, tall and perfectly formed and held the attention
of every male for miles around. She seldom dated and had no close
friends. As they were going the same route, Josh asked if he might
join her as they walked.
As they walked,
Geena asked, "Didn’t I see you with Ardith the other day? Are
you guys like going out or anything?" and Josh replied, "We’re
just friends... not going out or anything!"
It was just
over two weeks later when Josh made the ultimate high school conquest
and Geena gave him gladly what she had saved for that special
person. She would never regret her decision nor forget Josh.
Josh went
on to the university where more adventures awaited.
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Scientists
Discover 'Natural Barrier' to HIV March
2007
Researchers
have discovered that cells in the mucosal lining of human genitalia
produce a protein that "eats up" invading HIV possibly keeping
the spread of the AIDS more contained than it might otherwise
be. Even more important, enhancing the activity of this protein,
called Langerin, could be a potent new way to curtail the transmission
of the virus that causes AIDS, the Dutch scientists added.
Vince
Neil, Adult Industry Join Forces for Charity March
2007
Rocker Vince
Neil once again will team with the most popular figures and companies
in adult entertainment to raise money to fight cancer, leukemia
and AIDS at the annual Skylar Neil Memorial Golf Tournament.
Neil, who
began the tournament in 1995 after he lost his daughter Skylar
to cancer, has worked with the adult industry for the charity
event to raise more than $1 million for research over the years.
Now in its 11th year, the event will be held May 4 at Lost Canyons
Golf Club in Simi Valley, Calif. After a day of golf, attendees
will have the chance to participate in a charity auction featuring
celebrity memorabilia, while enjoying food, drinks and entertainment.
During each successive year of the tournament, the adult industry
has become more involved.
Previous sponsors
and participants have included such industry giants as Playboy,
Vivid, Wicked Pictures, Elegant Angel, Pure Play Media, Red Light
District, Hustler and Zero Tolerance. Past industry attendees
have included such female performers as Jenna Jameson, Danni Ashe,
Jessica Drake, Sunny Lane, Rita Faltoyano, Mari Possa, Flower
Tucci, Tianna Lynn, Tori Lane, Carmen Hart, Savannah Sampson,
Ashton Moore, Devon Lane, Brianna Banks and Britney Skye. Male
talent who have lent their support to the event in the past include
Ron Jeremy, Steven St. Croix, Randy West and Cousin Stevie from
Showtime’s “Family Business.” Tournament coordinator Alan Koenig
said he is actively looking for support this year from the adult
entertainment industry.
Portland
Masturbate-a-Thon Scheduled May 19 March
2007
Darklady’s
6th Annual Portland, OregonMasturbate-a-Thon, a fundraiser in
celebration of self love, is scheduled for May 19 from 7 p.m.
until 2 a.m. Attendees are encouraged to donate goods along with
the admission fee, and all proceeds will benefit several nonprofit
organizations.
Darklady’s
Laboratory of Top Secret Sexxx Machines will feature an array
of sex toys, such as the ThrillHammer, Monkey Rocker and Sex Kitten,
for attendees to test out, and Darklady said a brand new sex machine
from the maker of the ThrillHammer will make its “virgin voyage”
that night. The event will also feature a silent auction, party
games and the S&M play space that Darklady said has made her parties
famous.
The Masturbate-a-Thon’s
Opening Ritual is scheduled for 9 p.m. Guests who donate dry goods,
hygiene products or pet supplies can attend for $20, and those
who don’t must pay a $25 admission fee. Darklady said that all
attendees must be 21 or older and that RSVPs are “absolutely required.”
Fans of the event can purchase “M-a-T” T-shirts, mugs and other
themed items online at the Masturbate-a-Thon Café Press Shop.
All proceeds
will go to Esther’s Pantry & Friends of People with AIDS, the
Center for Sex and Culture and the Woodhull Freedom Foundation.
Right-wing Honoree Has Gay Porn Past March
2007
A U.S. Marine
who was honored during the same ceremony where conservative commentator
Ann Coulter called Democratic presidential candidate John Edwards
a “faggot” has a gay porn past.
Marine reservist
Cpl. Matt Sanchez was known in the adult industry as Rod Majors
and Pierre LaBranche in his gay film appearances, which include
the movies “Jawbreaker,” “Donkey Dick” and “Glory Holes Of Fame
3.”
Sanchez was
honored with the Jeanne Kirkpatrick Academic Freedom Award at
the Conservative Political Action conference because of his outspokenness
about Columbia University students’ antiwar protests. Sanchez
is a junior at the New York City school and a staunch conservative
and Republican Party supporter. After photos of Sanchez schmoozing
with Coulter and Fox News contributor Michelle Malkin made the
rounds, the blogosphere lit up revealing Sanchez’s former career.
“I fully expect
the people who supported him on the right to throw him under the
bus now, because these authoritarian conservatives treat each
other as compassionately as disabled veterans,” The Nation’s Max
Blumenthal said on MSNBC’s “Countdown,” regarding Sanchez’s public
“outing.” Sanchez is making the most of his 15 minutes of fame,
appearing on recent episodes of “The O’Reilly Factor” and “Hannity
& Colmes” on Fox News.
Live
In Alabama? No Sex Toys For You! March
2007
On Valentine’s
Day, the 11th Circuit US Court of Appeals ruled that the law is
constitutional because “the state’s interest in preserving and
promoting public morality provides a rational basis” for it.
Chris Bence,
spokesman for the attorney general's office, said the plaintiffs
have additional appeals left and the state agreed years ago not
to enforce the law until the case was completed. The lead plaintiff,
Sherri Williams, said she was disappointed the 11th Circuit dated
its ruling "on the very day this nation celebrates romance."
The new ruling,
made public, was issued by a three-judge panel of the 11th Circuit.
Williams can ask the full court to review the case and, if rejected,
appeal to the US Supreme Court - two steps she said she hopes
to take after reviewing the ruling with her attorneys.
Alabama residents
may lawfully purchase sex toys out of state for use in Alabama,
or use them if the devices have other recognized medical or therapeutic
uses. The Alabama law doesn't regulate other items, such as condoms
or virility drugs.
Williams,
who owns Pleasures adult toy shops in Huntsville and Decatur,
challenged the law along with seven other women and two men, who
represented consumers of the products. They were represented by
the American Civil Liberties Union.
Alabama's
solicitor general, Kevin Newsom, said he was pleased the 11th
Circuit rejected the plaintiffs' argument that public morality
was an insufficient basis for the legislation. "In rejecting that
view, which necessarily would have invalidated traditional prohibitions
on, for instance, incest, polygamy, and prostitution, the 11th
Circuit recognized and reiterated that 'the law is constantly
based on notions of morality,'" Newsom said.
In previous
appeals to the 11th Circuit, Williams and her attorneys had argued
that the law was an unconstitutional intrusion into bedrooms,
but the 11th Circuit held there was no fundamental right to use
sexual devices.
Pro-Adult
Article Published in Vanderbilt Law Journal March
2007
The Vanderbilt
Journal of Entertainment and Technology Law has published what
is reported to be the first recognized scholarly article to challenge
the antiporn sentiments that so often dominate published academic
studies.
Profs. Clay
Calvert and Bob Richards of the College of Communications at Pennsylvania
State University interviewed five female leaders representing
various aspects of the adult industry: performer/director Stormy
Daniels, industry pioneer Nina Hartley, Wicked Pictures’ Joy King,
performer-turned-health care provider Sharon Mitchell and Michelle
Freridge, former executive director of the Free Speech Coalition.
All shared
their views regarding free speech and censorship, the feminist
response to porn, mainstreaming of adult and the ways American
culture is shifting to accept it. “We’re trying to get views not
typically out there,” Calvert said. “We want to make people see
it’s a business; they’re not freaks or odd, which is how [adult
professionals] are often portrayed in the mainstream media.”
The duo spent
two months last year interviewing such industry leaders as Larry
Flynt, NakedSword President Tim Valenti and Kick Ass Pictures’
Mark Kulkis. They also spoke with adult industry lawyers regarding
2257 federal record-keeping inspections and abolishing obscenity
law. All of their articles have been accepted for publishing by
several academic journals across the country.
Feds
Seek To Gag D.C. Madam March
2007
Deborah J.
Palfrey known as ran Pamela Martin and Associates, a “high-end
adult fantasy firm which offered legal sexual and erotic services
Deborah Jeane
Palfrey pleaded innocent to charges of running a call-girl ring
that had a client list presumed to include a fair share of Washington
big shots.
The Washington
Post said that Palfrey has put about 100,000 phone numbers dating
back to 1993 up for sale as a means of financing her defense.
Her lawyer said at least a dozen cash offers had been made by
unnamed media outlets. No names have been released, but the bidding
war for the records is expected to produce at least a few recognizable
names.
Madame Palfrey
is in California until the trial starts. Before flying west she
read a statement to a gaggle of reporters and bemused passersby
denying she was running a "legal, high-end erotic fantasy service."
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