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A young couple
got married. On their honeymoon, they were very anxious about
having sex because they were both virgins. Because of their sexual
inexperience, they were a bit uncomfortable discussing the subject
so they came up with the term "doing the laundry" to use in place
of "having sex."
This made
them both more comfortable with the whole concept. Well, the first
night of their honeymoon was wonderful. They "did the laundry"
5 times that first night.
In the middle
of the night the new husband woke up, and he was ready to do the
laundry again. He gently shook his new wife and asked her, "Can
we do the laundry again?" but she was very tired. She told him
that she just couldn't do it again just yet. Maybe in the morning.
A few hours
later the new wife awoke feeling very guilty. What
he had asked for wasn't unreasonable, and she decided she should
go ahead and "do the laundry" with him again.
She gently
shook him and said, "Honey, I'm sorry I denied you... We can do
the laundry again if you want,"He
replied, "That's OK It was a small load... I did it by hand."
Giving
a great hand job begins with the mind as all seduction begins
there. Making the context for the hand job feel erotic is
about your attitude first and foremost.
Just like women, men want to feel that you want them and
doing things like whispering naughty things in their ear
while you slowly ease your hand south is much better than
jerking his cock out and mechanically going up and down
with your hand.
Lisa
S. Lawless, Ph.D., CEO
HolisticWisdom.com
Founder
Of course
those things are not necessary to a good hand job, they
are simply icing on the cake. However, if you are like many
and enjoy the icing, I would suggest keeping a sample size
lube in your wallet (like a staff favorite: ID Pleasure-
a watebased, stimulating lubricant.)
If you
have a purse or man bag, I always keep some hand wipes in
my purse for easy clean up afterward. After all, things
when done well sexually can get a bit messy.
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Hand
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The
best way to start is gently and then gradually slide your hand
up and down with a bit firmer grip, making sure to notice if he
is enjoying the added pressure or if it is getting to be too much.
Communicate-
Ask him in a soft whisper if it feels good, does he want it harder,
or softer. Let him tell you what he wants. Many men will want
it softer and then want increased intensity to as the hand job
progresses. However, many factors will influence this, including
personal preference, so it is always best to ask in a seductive
way if this is a first time and/or it has never been discussed..
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If you do not have access to a lubricant, using a substitute
like hand cream, cooking oil or petroleum jelly will do.
If
you use an alternative, remember that should you continue
to sexual intercourse that a condom will not be safe to
use unless the lubricant is water-based.
Also,
make sure to avoid any types of oils or products that
have skin irritants in them. Even using something with
essential oils (like cinnamon, orange, etc.) can cause
irritation and inflammation to the skin.
If
you do not have access to a lubricant or do not want one,
hand jobs must be done with more care as the friction
to the tender skin of the penis can become irritating
and painful.
Hand
Job Winning Tip
Where
Is The Most Sensitive Part of A Man's Penis?
Ahhhh,
the Frenulum (fren-yuh-lum). This is the most sensitive
part of a man's penis.
Knowing
that this is the most sensitive part of a man's penis it
is easy to see why this is a great place to focus your efforts.
A great
way to stimulate this part of the penis is by using the
thumb to rub it while lubed or unlubed; enclosing it with
your hand in a circle and lightly pulling on the head as
you massage your thumb into the frenulum underneath.
To intensify
this, take your other hand and hold his penis at the base,
forcing the blood to the head (which will increase the intensity
of the sensations).
Various
Hand Job Techniques
Milking
This
is the most common approach. Use one or both hands to milk his
penis as you slide up and down it. Speed and pressure may vary.
Making
A Fire
Rub
the penis between both palms, as if rubbing two sticks together
to create fire. Be sure to use plenty of lubricant or light friction
for this technique.
Head
Of The Class
Hold
the penis in one hand with the head sticking up. Using the well
lubricated palm of your other hand, slowly and sensitively massage
the head in a back and forth or rotating motion.
Ball
& Shaft
With
the penis resting on the man's stomach, take one hand and massage
the testicles softy. Then glide the heel of the palm of the other
hand up and down the underside of the penis.
Twist
& Shout
Pull
the skin of the penis toward the base with one hand. With the
other hand use a corkscrew motion as you slide up the penis. The
twist can be done with the thumb and first finger or with your
entire grip.
Double
Stroke
Use
one hand to lightly wrap around the base of the penis and softly
slide up to the head, before that hand leaves the head have the
other hand grasp the base of the penis and do the same thing so
that both your hands are taking turns grasping and sliding up
his cock. This motion can also be reversed to go down his penis
rather than upward. Pressure and speed can vary.
Triple
Delight
Use
one hand to play with his anus (just play with the outside unless
he is into anal penetration), while the other slides up his balls
and penis ending with added attention to the head. This works
really well with fellatio doing the same thing, except using one
hand for the anus, one hand for his balls and your mouth to his
penis.
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It was another weekend up at the cottage by the lake. My wife
had invited a few of her girlfriends over to spend the day. I
never thought anything of it, - they were just friends a few
were good looking, but I never gave it any thought after all
I was married.
It was a blistering
hot humid day and we had all been enjoying doing the things we
love to do hanging out on the deck in the sun, drinking nice
gin and tonics and swimming in the refreshing cool lake water.
We must have
gone swimming at least 5 times that day. It was getting close
to supper time and her friends were preparing whatever food they
had planned for dinner in the kitchen. They had set the table
and decided that a swim before dinner would be just the thing
to cool off. I
agreed and we all went down to the water and jumped in for yet
another refreshing dip.
We all got
out and dried ourselves off and wondered back up to the deck to
dry off in our swimsuits and got back to our nice drinks. They
were chitchatting about this and that, and then the subject came
up about sexual fantasies.
After listening
to a few ridiculous scenarios my wife says “ Gee, I wish we all
had a boy toy to play around with” and with that she turned and
looked at me with a deliciously playful look. No sooner as she
said that she ran up to me and yanked off my swimsuit and threw
it over the railing and shouted “Girls we have our boy toy!
Lets Play!”
I was suddenly
shocked and embarrassed to be sitting there naked , and then they
all rushed over to look at me. “O.K. tease him but lay off the
real merchandise just for now” my wife says. They all started
massaging me , my chest, feet, thighs, legs, everything, and I
quickly had grown the biggest erection of my life.
Embarrassed,
I looked at them as they all eyed my huge cock, but they never
touched it. “O.K. my wife says help him into the kitchen, our
boy toy is going to make us some salad” With that they held my
arms got me up and walking naked and horny into the kitchen.
I was instructed
to get the lettuce and cucumber, peppers and mushrooms all cut
and into the bowl. As I prepared the food her friends caressed
my legs, thighs, my ass, back , chest all the while my huge
purple throbbing cock standing straight up and out, and now started
to ooze precum.
I noticed
this and all embarrassed, I took some Kleenex to quickly wipe
my wet cockhead at which point one of her friends said “ I saw
that you better leave that alone!” This went on for a good ten
minutes and the salad was all done. My wife grabbed the salad
bowl and said "come on girls supper time!" She grabbed my arm
and led me to stand beside her seat at the table.
I was dripping
pretty fast at this point, and she said “No salad dressing” “Boy
toy go over there and grab me that bottle of olive oil please”.
I went into the kitchen and brought her back the bottle, and she
opened it up and spilled some onto her hand. Suddenly, she slapped
her olive oil hand all over my ass and started spreading it around.
As the girls
watched me with my precum dripping, she spread that oil over to
my front onto my upper thighs, my testicles, and now over my entire
cock. She knew by the way I looked that she couldn’t move too
fast or I’d be quickly spilling my load, so she said “come over
here girls and help out our Boy Toy”.
Well they
did, and before I knew it their hands were going slowly all over
my ass, my testicles, and this time my cock. I had several hands
gliding and stoking all at once and I just couldn’t keep it in
anymore. I screamed, and came out in huge successive surges as
her friends pumped every drop out of me and my wife held out the
salad bowl to collect it all.
When I was
done I stood there in a state of shock my wife tossed up that
salad and said “ Lets Eat!" I never had a day like that again.
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US
Judge Blocks 1998 Online Porn Law March
2007
A federal
judge on has dealt another blow to government efforts to control
Internet pornography, striking down a 1998 US law that makes it
a crime for commercial Web site operators to let children access
"harmful" material.
In the ruling,
the judge said parents can protect their children through software
filters and other less restrictive means that do not limit the
rights of others to free speech. "Perhaps we do the minors of
this country harm if First Amendment protections, which they will
with age inherit fully, are chipped away in the name of their
protection," wrote Senior US District Judge Lowell Reed Jr., who
presided over a four-week trial last fall.
The law would
have criminalized Web sites that allow children to access material
deemed "harmful to minors" by "contemporary community standards."
The sites would have been expected to require a credit card number
or other proof of age.
Penalties
included a $50,000 fine and up to six months in prison.
Dating
Site Asks 'Are You Hot Enough?' March
2007
Jason Pellegrino
(an 8.2 on the attractiveness scale) says the problem with Internet
dating services is not enough really hot-looking people. So he
and a business partner have created HotEnough.org, a sort of online
version of Studio 54, the exclusive '70s disco where gaining admission
was a pitiless Darwinian exercise.
HotEnough.org
is for "fit, good-looking" people. Prospective members must submit
pictures and must be rated an 8 or higher by people already in
the club. Once they are in, they are permitted to e-mail other
"hotties" for $9.95 a month. "It's definitely hard to get through
that rope, but once you're in, you're in and you're part of the
party," Pellegrino said. "But you know there's going to be a lot
of people outside waiting."
The 33-year-old
said he and his partner, Sean Cohen, created the site after concluding
that Internet dating sites attract a lot of brave and desperate
people but not particularly attractive ones. A few months after
its launch, membership is just under 1,000, Pellegrino said. In
the beginning, only 8 percent of those who applied made the grade,
but now about 25 percent of applicants do, he said. Candidates
must send in three pictures, including one full-body shot. Active
members rate the pictures online without knowing anything else
about the people in them. "People can say that the site is shallow,
they can say it's superficial, but I think we're all a bit superficial
when it comes to dating."
College
Students To Pay More For Birth Control Pills March
2007
Millions
of college students are suddenly facing sharply higher prices
for birth control, prompting concerns among health officials that
some will shift to less preferred contraceptives or stop using
them altogether.
Prices for
oral contraceptives, or birth control pills, are doubling and
tripling at student health centers, the result of a complex change
in the Medicaid rebate law that essentially ends an incentive
for drug companies to provide deep discounts to colleges. "It's
a tremendous problem for our students because not every student
has a platinum card," said Hugh Jessop, executive director of
the health center at Indiana University.
There, he
said, women are paying about $22 per month for prescriptions that
cost $10 a few months ago. "Some of our students have two jobs,
have children," Jessop said. "To increase this by 100 percent
or more overnight, which is what happened, is a huge shock to
them and to their system."
Cosmetic
Breast Surgery Rates Up March
2007
More people
than ever got cosmetic plastic surgery in the United States in
2006, with breast enlargements the most popular procedure, the
American Society of Plastic Surgeons reported. Nearly 11 million
cosmetic plastic surgery operations were performed in the United
States in 2006, up by 7 percent from 2005, the group said. It
also said more than 5.2 million reconstructive plastic surgery
procedures were performed last year, mostly removal of tumors.
The most
popular cosmetic choice was breast augmentation, with 329,000
reported in 2006. This is the first time "breast jobs" have passed
nose reshaping surgery, performed on 307,000 people in 2006.
A brothel
in Germany hopes to capitalize on the growing number of pensioners
by offering them a 50 percent discount for sex in the afternoon.
The "Pascha" in the western city of Cologne has introduced reduced
rates for sex sessions for clients aged 66 and above -- provided
they can prove they are old enough.
"All clients
need to do is show us some proof of age," said a spokesman for
the brothel's managing director Armin Lobscheid. "A 'normal session'
costs 50 euros with us -- and we're now paying 50 percent of that
for these older guests." "We don't earn as much money, but we're
establishing ourselves across a broader range of age groups,"
he added.
After testing
the water with reductions for senior citizens once a week, the
Pascha decided earlier this month to offer 50 percent off sex
services between midday and 5 p.m every day. "There's been plenty
of demand and people have certainly been taking advantage of the
offer," the spokesman said. "Older folks are more active than
you think."
The brothel's
Web site is keen to stress this point. "Life begins at 66!" it
says in an advert for its "senior citizens afternoon" next to
a picture of a motorcycle rider.
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