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A woman was having a daytime affair while her husband was at work. One rainy day she was in bed with her boyfriend when, to her horror, she heard her husband's car pull into the driveway. "Oh my God - Hurry! Grab your clothes and jump out the window. My husband's home early!"

"If my husband catches us in here, he'll kill us both!" she replied. He's got a hot temper and a gun, so the rain is the least of your problems!"

So the boyfriend scoots out of bed, grabs his clothes and jumps out the window! As he ran down the street in the pouring rain, he quickly discovered he had run right into the middle of the town's annual marathon, so he started running along beside the others, about 300 of them.

Being naked, with his clothes tucked under his arm, he tried to blend in as best he could. After a little while a small group of runners who had been watching him with some curiosity, jogged closer.

Another runner moved a long side. "Do you always run carrying your clothes with you under your arm?"

"Oh, yes" our friend answered breathlessly. "That way I can get dressed right at the end of the run and get in my car to go home!

Then a third runner cast his eyes a little lower and asked, "Do you always wear a condom when you run?"

Prostate Massage
How To Do It & Why It Is Good For You

There's more to the male genitalia than the head and shaft of the penis... if you press your fingers against your perineum (area between your testicles and anus) you can feel this root, or bulb of your penis.

Lisa S. Lawless, Ph.D., C.E.O.
HolisticWisdom.com Founder

The root of the penis is sensitive and can be stimulated through the perineum or the rectum and is just one reason that anal penetration feels pleasurable to many men. Now I know there is a lot of homophobia that goes on for men around the talk of anal play... so let me just address that before I go any further.

We of course respect anyone's sexual preference when it comes to being heterosexual or homosexual. We see beauty in both and we support either preference. For those men who are heterosexual and fear that anal play may lead to homosexual feelings or that someone will think they are... think again.

Some people think the anus is dirty. But there is nothing dirty about the body, which must be cared for. The only thing that might be considered dirty is disease; and these practices are intended to prevent and cure disease through regular care for the entire body, including the anus and prostate.

Many men are troubled by these massages because they think there is something "homosexual" about it, especially if it is pleasurable. They might feel differently if they knew the extent to which neglect ultimately results in prostate dysfunction, malfunction, and disease. Inserting anything into the anus never turned anyone into a homosexual.

Many straight men enjoy prostate massage with their female partners and don't miss out on the health benefits or intense pleasure that it brings because they are confident in their masculinity and are able to work through any fear that they have regarding it. If you are worried about the homosexual piece of this, then I suggest that you talk about these feelings with a trusted friend, partner or professional to try and work through your fears because you will be missing out on a wonderful sexual release if you let your fears keep you from trying it.

Male Ejaculation
Using Prostate Massage

Through Prostate Stimulation You Can Increase Your Ejaculation To Amazing Proportions While Enhancing Pleasure! The most easy to use and best selling sex toy for prostate massage through our company is the Hitachi Magic Wand with Gspot/Prostate Attachment.

Okay... back to the joys & benefits of prostate massage...

Traditionally, doctors would massage their patients' prostates regularly to cure or prevent disease. Now, however, most doctors only check the prostate, and if they find a problem prefer to cut it out or prescribe medication. But a doctor is not necessarily required for prostate massage.

You can do it yourself or have your partner do it for you. Try this practice and discover its health benefits. When you do it yourself, you can be very gentle and make the treatment pleasurable as well as efficacious.

The prostate is analogous to the G spot in women which is shown to the left. The prostate can be massaged by inserting a finger (toy, dildo etc.) a minimum of three inches into your anus and stroking toward the front of your body through the walls of your rectum.

The technique of prostate massage actually involves two (three) organs of the male reproductive system: the prostate gland, the seminal vesicles, and the ampulla, which is the reservoir which actually holds the male sperm just prior to ejaculation.

The prostate gland when engorged can be felt by pressing a finger into the middle of the perineum (in back of the scrotum). It is a rounded lump about the size of a large marble. It can also be accessed via the rectum, where it can again be felt as a rounded lump toward the front of the body and just about an index finger's length inside the rectum.

The prostate gland is responsible for producing a large percentage of a man's ejaculate, and it is healthy and desirable to fully drain this fluid regularly. Prostate massage is the most effective means of doing so, as no other method directly stimulates the prostate gland.

A better way to find it from the rectum is to insert the middle finger, and slide it from just inside the rectum (on the front side) up and in until you feel it move over a lump. That will be the prostate.

Just in back of (up from) the prostate is a smaller and roughly triangular wedge shaped nodule that is the bottom portion of the somewhat larger seminal vesicles, which is where most of the fluid of the ejaculate is produced and accumulated. Underneath the seminal vesicles are the ampulla.

During sexual arousal, sperm and ejaculatory fluid accumulate in these glands backing up behind valves in the ejaculatory ducts. When fluid pressure reaches a high enough threshold, the valves open and the urethral bulb fills, triggering the ejaculatory reflex and muscular contractions of orgasm, which empties the glands.

You can massage your prostate by simply inserting your finger or toy into the anus and reaching back and up towards the navel until you feel the prostate gland. Use natural-content personal lubricant of the type specific to this purpose to facilitate insertion of the finger, and gently rub back and forth on the prostate using as much pressure as you can without causing pain.

This massage can be made even more pleasurable if your partner is willing to do the massage for you. You need not concern yourself about bacterial transmission if the hands are clean. Use of any toy using the instruction above will do the trick.

Sexual intensity is enhanced by massaging the penis at the same time! Some men have passed out from the sheer pleasure so be prepared for an amazing sexual experience!

Medical Bonus-

It is important that men examine themselves often by checking the condition of their prostates. You can determine the condition of the prostate by feeling for changes in size and resilience.

Check this as often as possible, at least every few months, and you will be able to establish a standard for yourself. By doing so, you will be able to detect any changes in the size and flexibility of your prostate. A very hard, enlarged, or painful prostate is an indication of a disorder that could lead to cancer or some other major problem.

Prostate disorders do not develop overnight, and regular massage can prevent and reverse problems. Medical science accepts that it is normal for men over the age of fifty to experience problems with their prostates. Although prostate problems may be common, they are not normal. They are abnormal. There is no need for any man to have prostate problems.

Prostate massage is sometimes carried out as a medical procedure for the treatment of chronic prostatitis and benign prostatic hyperplasia (BPH), although it is highly inadvisable for patients with acute prostatitis, for whom the infection can spread elsewhere in the body if massage is performed.

Too vigorous a massage in some cases may be cause health problems. Very gentle external anal massage, which relaxes the sphincter muscles, has been shown to relieve hemorrhoids and fissures.

Don't Over Do It-

Too much pressure can result in tearing or other damage, therefore it is important to be sure to relax completely your abdomen during prostate massage. Don't thrust things in a harsh manner and avoid sharp fingernails.

Extremely hard massages can cause bacteria or cancer to leave the prostate and spread through the body, although gentle massaging is generally seen as safe.

How Often-

For a swollen prostate, many men indicate that they see improvement within 3 drainages, but it will depend on your own prostate and your own skill. For a normal functioning prostate, some men say that once a month for about 10 to 20 minutes is enough.

Ejaculating beyond the ability of the prostate to empty and fill may cause discomfort just as not ejaculating enough will cause pain as well. Finding what is right for you may take some practice.

Reduction of Sexual Tension As Well-

The prostate is responsible for producing male ejaculate, thus, massaging it can also release these fluids and relieve sexual tension, thereby decreasing sex drive for a period of up to several days.

Without Orgasm-

Prostate massage can also have the effect of producing ejaculation without having an orgasm. The orgasm is often described as not being as satisfactory as a normal sexual orgasm. Some doctors will often numb the genitals with ice before performing a prostate massage to keep the patient from associating the massage with sexual stimulation.

Letter From Customer-

Dear Lisa,

We got our Pandora vibrator and it is great. My wife gave me a prostate massage and it took me 5 minutes to get off the bed when I was done. It felt unbelievable. I shook like a leaf and when my wife stroked me, I ejaculated so hard I sprayed myself in the face. If a man has not had this done to him he does not know what he is missing. I cannot wait to do it again.

Thank you for your help.
- Brian & Julie

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Top Ten Things Women Look For In Dates
April 2008: Men's Health Magazine Reviews-

Did he dress well for the date?
"She's watching to see if you put some energy into your dress and grooming," says Aline Zoldbrod, Ph.D., a sex therapist in Boston. "If you don't take the trouble to dress well for her now, she sees it as disrespectful."

Does he have a sense of humor?
If you're a total loser, it pays for her to ascertain that on the first date, says Zoldbrod.

Is he like my ex?
Yes, we always pay for the last guy's sins. What women want is often based on their past negative or positive experiences. So when she talks about past boyfriends, heed well. Is he bitter about past relationships? She needs full use of your closets. There's no room for baggage.

Can he talk about himself and listen to me?
She'll carry 80 percent of the conversation load. Just make sure your 20 percent is about something.

Is he generous?
Women somehow see a correlation between leaving a 10 percent tip and having a propensity to drown kittens.

Does he make me feel understood and appreciated?
If you can't succinctly state her values, her politics, and her ambitions, you're probably failing here. Ask more questions. Listen to the answers this time.

Is he open to a relationship but not needy?
Ace the other nine criteria here, and your odds of appearing needy will edge toward nil.

Does he keep promises?
If you're not reliable, you're not viable, especially not for the ultimate goal of all this.

Does he have the potential to be a good father?
For long-term potential, she considers whether you have the values she wants in a man. How you interact with your own family can be a strong indicator here. If she can't see tykes on your knee, she's wasting her time.

A new Indiana law that requires sellers of "sexually explicit materials" to register with the state has stirred opposition among mainstream booksellers. The law was signed by Indiana Governor Mitch Daniels on March 13. The House Enrolled Act 1042 takes effect July 1. It requires a person who intends to sell sexually explicit materials to register and file a statement with the secretary of state. The state is to notify officials in the county in which the business is located. The law imposes a $250 filing fee, and failure to register would be a Class B misdemeanor.

Adult industry attorneys today blasted a Georgia lawmaker, who has introduced a proposal that would close a loophole and regulate further adult material sold at military exchange stores. The Military Honor and Decency Act, introduced last week by Rep. Paul Broun, R-Ga., would amend a provision of the 1997 Defense Authorization Act that limited sales of sexually explicit material on military bases.

"Angelle L. Brook," a computer-generated composite based on a survey of British women, has been dubbed "the most seductive woman of all time." According to U.K.'s Telegraph, "Angelle combines [Kelly] Brook's hair and body, [Jennifer] Lopez's nose and [Angelina] Jolie's lips, wrapped up in 'the most seductive dress of all time': Marilyn Monroe's white halter dress from The Seven Year Itch."

Indianapolis tops the list of most sexually satisfied cities, according to a survey by Men's Health magazine. "Researchers analyzed data on condom sales, birth rates from the U.S. Census Bureau and sales figures from two top sex-toy retailers to compile the ranking," Reuters reports.

Insect researchers at Oxford University genetically modified the brain cells of fruit flies so that the females believed they were male. The females demonstrated courtship behavior previously only seen in males, and this leads the scientists to believe that male and female brain chemistry is very similar. The findings may pinpoint what the "master switches" are that set brains on "male" or "female" mode.

A burglar who broke into a California sex shop failed to open the cash register, but ended up with the lower half of Jenna Jameson instead, the O.C. Register reports. A stolen rubber replica of the porn star, made of "Ultra Realistic skin" and worth $250, is described as "open-ended for easy cleaning." LAist.com quips, "Fullerton Police are interested in anyone with information regarding the burglar -- besides the fact that he is probably broke and horny."

A Tennessee woman may be charged with murder after her husband died in "an apparent bondage session gone wrong." The woman supposedly left him alone in their house for 20 hours in "panty hose with his arms and legs bound, a gag ball stuffed in his mouth -- which had been covered in duct tape -- and his head wrapped. The only opening for air were slits for his nostrils," reports ABC.com.

I was on a business trip in a nearby state and having finished the job I came for, I decided it was too late to drive back so I was just going to catch a bite to eat and hit the sack. I found a nice restaurant and had placed my order when the hostess seated the sexiest little blond at the table near and facing me. I tried not to stare but see kept looking at me and I could not take my eyes off of her beautiful blond hair and sexy eyes.

I noticed she had a cute little petite body that looked as if it were made to be made love to. I finally broke the ice and we began a small conversation. I told her why I was there and she told me that she had decided to just eat out and retire early. I was halfway joking when I suggested since we were both alone and both going to bed early, that we should go to bed together.

To my great surprise she said that was not a bad idea, but I could see that she was a little scared too. I gave her my name and phone number to my hotel room and just said "If you change your mind." and left to my room for the evening.

She called me about three hours later and we talked for about a half-hour, then she asked if I wanted to come over. I said sure and she gave me her address. I took a shower and made myself squeaky clean all-over. Her place was only twenty minutes away and I was there in no time. I called her on the intercom and she buzzed me up. In the elevator I got a little nervous as this was a first for me in a long time.

As I got off the elevator she was standing in the hallway wearing a beautiful blue silk kimono. She took my hand and stood on her tiptoes and kissed me. Her tongue just brushed my lips and gave me a nice tingle. As we went into the apartment she asked if I'd like something to drink as she was having a little wine while she was waiting for me to arrive. I said the wine would be fine and she poured me a glass and told me to get comfortable as she would be right back.

She came back into the living room wearing nothing but a smile, she had the most beautiful and firm breasts I had seen in a long time with large erect nipples starting to perk up complemented with a most gorgeous round ass. My cock quickly became hard and I couldn't wait to taste all of that sweetness.

She knelt down between my legs and started to rub my cock through my shorts squeezing and stroking it, she reached up unbuttoned and unzipped my shorts, and took out my hard cock and started to lick up and down the shaft running her tongue around the head. I was taken to new levels of ecstasy as she started to roll and fondle my balls and sucked them one at time into her hot, moist mouth. Rolling them around with her tongue, my cock was so hard I thought I would explode.

She sat back and said "let's get rid of these clothes" and proceeded to undress me. Once I was completely nude, I pulled her up into my lap and started to kiss her, she tasted so sweet as our tongues dueled. Running my fingers up and down her ass crack and rubbing her little rosebud asshole. She was squirming on my lap with my cock rubbing and leaking pre-cum. I bent my head down and captured a nipple and licked, sucked and nibbled as she moaned in my ear.

She reached down between us grabbed my cock and started to stroke me with a steady movement. I rolled her off my lap and lay her down on her couch and licked my way down to her hot pussy, licking the wet juice from her wet pussy. She pulled her legs back to her chest and I spread those sweet lips and licked and sucked her like there was no tomorrow.

She moaned and rolled her head back and forth. I then slid two fingers into her tight ass as I engulfed her pussy and her little pink ass. Her pussy lips started to throb and pulse so I backed off until I had just her clit in my mouth and continued to flick it with my tongue. She exploded sweet cum bouncing off the roof of my mouth and sliding down my throat and I enjoyed her very, very sweet tasting cum.

I continued to lick and suck until there was nothing left, then climbed up and kissed her. Her tongue dove into my mouth dueling for a taste of herself, I picked her up off the couch and carried her into the bedroom. As I laid her down she grabbed my raging cock and said "fuck me, fuck me now!" I pulled my cock right up against her pussy, now oozing cum again and pushed up trying to get me inside her. I leaned over and slid just the head inside,

She put her legs on my shoulders and pushed her hot little ass back against my balls and moaned fuck me, stick your big cock deep in my pussy. She was so aroused and tight I thought I was in heaven.

I started to thrust in and out of her with long deep strokes all the way in and all the way back out. I felt that familiar tingle in my balls and stared to really pound into her pussy. She started to moan and roll her head saying "I'm cumming, fuck me. That's all I could take.

I exploded burying my cock deep inside her. I felt my cock being milked by her sweet, tight pussy and she came all over both of us. I started to stroke her ass again as I slowly came down and slipped out of her cum filled pussy. But I wasn't quite finished, I got down and licked and sucked her pussy until it was nice and clean.

We showered, cuddled and slept only to wake and do it all over again. As the sun rose, I left to catch my flight home. We kissed good-bye and exchanged numbers and I HOPE she'll call.

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