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Sex in Car with Penis Pump
Man
Needed Surgery After Sex With Hedgehog
Cop
Arrests Cop In Prostitution Sting
Orgasm
Is The Best Gift To Give
British
Sex History Now Revealed
Court
Rejects Suit Over Right To Sex
Penis
Transplant Successful, Then Reversed!
National
Coming Out Day
Rape
Down Because Porn Up?
Police
Chief Resigns Over Wife's Nude Pictures
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Cyberskin Not Toxic
Couple
Kidnapped Daughter For Abortion
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Two
priests decided to go to Hawaii on vacation. They were determined
to make this a real vacation escape by not wearing anything that
would identify them as clergy. As soon as the plane landed they
headed for a store and bought some outrageous shorts, shirts and
sandals.
The
next morning they went to the beach dressed in their tourist garb.
They were sitting on beach chairs, enjoying a drink, the sunshine
and the scenery when a drop dead gorgeous blonde wearing a string
bikini came walking straight towards them. They couldn't help
but stare. As the blonde passed them she smiled and said, "Good
Morning, Father. Good Morning, Father," nodding and addressing
each of them individually; then she passed on by.
They
were both stunned. How in the world did she know they we're priests?
So the next day, they went back to the store and bought even more
outrageous outfits. These were so loud you could hear them before
you saw them.
Once
again, in their new attire, they settled on the beach in their
chairs to enjoy the sunshine. After a while, the same gorgeous
blonde, this time topless with just a thong bikini, taking her
sweet time, came walking toward them.
Again
she nodded at each of them, she said, "Good morning, Father. Good
morning, Father," and started to walk away. One of the Priests
couldn't stand it any longer and said, "Just a minute young lady."
"Yes, Father?", she said. "We are priests and proud of it, but
I have to know, how in the world did you know we are priests,
dressed as we are?" "Father, it's me, Sister Margaret.
Healthy
Vs. Unhealthy
Sex
What
It Means To Be Sexually Confident & Empowered
When
most people think of society today, they typically consider
that we are more open about sexuality than ever before.
I
disagree.
Lisa
S. Lawless, Ph.D., C.E.O.
HolisticWisdom.com Founder
Extreme
Superficial Sexuality
I
think that we are more daring with nudity, and bold through sexual
display, however, it is a superficial type of sexuality. It is
more often than not coming from a place of ego, insecurity and
rebellion when it is displayed.
Often through
reality shows, music videos, commercials, movies and even the
news you see extremely superficial aspects of sexuality. Women
as well as men are sex objects. Women in particular have long
been shown this way, and while I am not against nudity, or displays
of sexuality, I am not impressed with women running around dressing
like hookers, waving their asses in the faces of anyone who will
look and then in turn calling any other women who does this a
whore.
Check out
the Flavor Flav show on VH1 Flavor of Love 2 or
look at anything Paris Hilton does to see what I mean. There is
a big difference between a woman who is confident in herself,
who dresses sensually and a woman who is insecure and is desperately
trying to get the attention of any one who will notice her. This
kind of approach to sexuality sends the message that sex is all
about having power and control over others. It is fear based,
it is from insecurity, it is not beautiful to those who know the
difference.
People who
see the world in black and white make the mistake of thinking
that sexuality can be viewed in two ways... cheap and superficial
or uptight and conservative. This is a dangerous way to view the
world and can lead to all sorts of problems.
Women
In A Sexually Superficial Society
For women
it often sets the stage for her to feel that in order to compete
for attention she must dress and act in a manner that focuses
completely on her appearance. Wearing revealing clothes to bragging
about sexual prowess are ways this is accomplished. A big trend
now is for young girls to claim they are bisexual, even if they
are not, to seem sexually edgy in order to attract men.
When you see
women waving their ass in someone's face, the message that can
be interpreted is that they are a piece of meat to be screwed,
and discarded. I am not saying that you can't ever put your ass
in someone's face, because sometimes that is fun... what I am
saying is to look at WHY one is doing it.
We need to
move toward a place where we experience sexuality from a place
of confidence, not insecurity. Where we express our sensual natures
from a more empowered place within us. We are more than our butts,
breasts and vaginas.
We need to
show our sexuality in a way that commands respect while honoring
our integrity. We can exhibit our sensual beauty through our speech,
dress and body language in an empowered way and make that the
norm, rather than focusing only on our skin.
Whether you
are into a one night stands, open or monogamous relationships...
you deserve respect from yourself and others. A woman who knows
and believes this will ensure that she receives it by putting
out signals to the world that she is a sexual goddess with a mind
and soul.
Men
In A Sexually Superficial Society
Men in our
society are often encouraged (especially by peers) to seek out
any kind of sexual activity no matter what woman it is with or
the health risks involved. They are often encouraged to manipulate
others to get sex and to talk about getting it. They are erroneously
taught that they are valued for their performance, penis size,
physique and ability to get laid.
Like women,
they are taught to be ashamed of masturbation. Men are not made
aware of prostate massage, the health benefits or pleasure due
to fears of homosexuality. There is no emphasis on embracing their
pleasure as a whole- pleasuring themselves beyond just their penis
or how to develop healthy sexual self esteem with respect for
their bodies or their sexual partner(s).
The
Sexually Superficial Path
Both men and
women are being groomed in these situations to see themselves
and their worth as dictated by how they can appeal sexually. These
superficial approaches to sexuality are often demeaning to our
sense of self. When we send out messages that we are wanting to
be seen for our surface sexuality than we will in turn attract
people into our lives that are also preoccupied with all the baggage
that comes along with it.
Conservative
Repression
On the other
side of the spectrum, you have ultra conservatives that are repulsed
by many aspects of sexuality and who are more than ready to throw
out what are healthy, educated and empowering forms of sexuality
right along with the dysfunctional.
When this
happens you find that people will repress their sexuality and
see all kinds of problems. You will begin to see increased sexual
abuse, rape, pedophila and a lot of hypocrisy.
Let's look
at a current example of what happens when sexuality is repressed-
Florida Representative
Mark
Foley sent sexual harassing eMails to minor, teenage males
while he was the founder and co-chair of the Congressional Missing
and Exploited Children's Caucus and has played key roles in recent
legislation to protect kids - including the Volunteers for Children
Act, which gives organizations that work with youths access to
FBI fingerprint checks to make sure they don't hire child molesters.
Most people
are saying how ironic... but I say how typical. People hate most
in others what they hate in themselves. We must look closely at
people who are in such positions. Often, those who take a moderate
approach are not of concern, it is those who come down hard on
issues in an ultra conservative manner that have the hidden issues.
This is because deep down inside they are yelling loudly on the
outside to either divert people's attention away from their true
intentions and/or to push down what dysfunction is inside them.
We have all
seen it in ministers, priests, politicians and activists who are
overly obnoxious about sexuality. It is of no surprise when you
find out they have been molesting children, raped someone or committed
some other atrocity.
Coming
Out Of The Confusion
So
when you are surrounded with superficial sexuality mixed with
damning conservative views about sexuality, it is no wonder why
there are so many confused and dissatisfied people. I believe
we are in need of a sexual revolution. The following are a few
things I would like to see occur in the future as we evolve and
better understand healthy sexuality.
1)
Embrace
masturbation as a healthy part of our sexuality. Begin in
the early years by teaching children that it is all right
for them to do it in private and that there is no shame in
being a sexual human being.
2)
Dress
and act in a manner that makes us feel good about ourselves
and invokes our creativity and sensuality. Resist dressing
and acting to gain power over others and instead in a way
that empowers us.
3)
Treat
others as we know we should be treating ourselves. Show ourselves
and others love, compassion and respect. Accept that diversity
is a beautiful part of life; it is how we learn from one another
and evolve.
4)
Understand
that people have different sexual orientations and that we
should respect that not everyone should be married, have children,
live monogamously or be heterosexual. We must understand that
our view of the world is simply our perspective and what is
comfortable for us, is not necessarily what is comfortable
for others. With the exception of preventing physical, emotional
or mental harm to others, we should not force a fixed agenda
of sexual correctness on others.
5)
We
must better study pedophiles and provide counseling to prevent
child abuse. We must become more aware of the alarming rate
of sexual assault on children. The government needs to work
with the adult industry not against them to help prevent child
abuse. We must also teach our children about standing up for
their sexual rights and the importance of them keeping people
from violating them.
6)
We
should refrain from demeaning name calling of others when
it comes to sexuality. Calling people sluts, whores, bitches,
pimps, etc. encourages a superficial sexual environment and
black and white thinking.
7)
We
must encourage people to explore their sexuality thorough
masturbation, meditation, and sometimes counseling. Learning
what pleases, nurtures and heals us first, will help us to
communicate to our sexual partner(s) what we need mentally,
emotionally and physically to be sexually fulfilled.
8)
We
need to have frank discussion about sexual health with teenagers.
We need sex education on STD's, prevention and birth control.
Using factual medical information will not cause harm to them.
In fact, it can prevent harm. If moral concerns are present,
then it is up to the parents to have discussions that encourage
a child to do what is right for them based on facts, not fear
tactics.
9)
We
should not be prohibited from exploring sexuality through
sexual aids such as lubricants and sex toys. Being creative
in the bedroom allows us to explore ourselves and our pleasure.
It is a gift that we have been given at birth to enjoy our
sexuality and living in a world where we fear our own sexuality
denies us of a basic human right.
If
you are considering sex with more than one person or exploring
a swinger lifestyle, you may want to learn more about it
through articles,
books, interviews with those who have done it and even DVDs.
Better to be well informed about what you are getting yourself
into than jump in and regret it.
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Auto
Sex in Car with Penis Pump September
2006
A Slovak driver
who crashed into a bus shocked rescuers who found him unconscious
and half naked with a vacuum pump on his penis. Police said the
42-year-old man, driving an old Citroen in the Slovak town of
Levice, had ignored a “give way” sign. “It’s very likely he had
auto-sex while driving, it is a matter of investigation. After
the accident he was found lying in the seat, his pants were off
and it (the pump) was placed on his penis,” police officer Peter
Polak told Reuters. “I’ve never seen anything like this, nor have
my colleagues,” he added. The man was taken to hospital with head
injuries.
Man
Needed Surgery After Sex With Hedgehog September
2006
A Serbian
man needed emergency surgery after he had sex with a hedgehog
on a witchdoctor’s advice. Zoran Nikolovic, 35, from Belgrade,
says the witchdoctor told him it would cure his premature ejaculation.
But he ended up in an operating room after the hedgehog’s needles
left his penis severely lacerated. A hospital spokesman said:
“The animal was apparently unhurt and the patient came off much
worse from the encounter. We have managed to repair the damage
to his penis.”
Cop
Arrests Cop In Prostitution Sting September
2006
A police sting
took an odd turn when an officer pretending to be a john met a
prostitute who was pretending to be an officer to scam him. The
woman got in his car and they went to a nearby parking lot to
negotiate a price for sex. She asked the officer if he was a cop
and he said no. “That’s OK, because I am,” the woman said as she
pulled out handcuffs and a two-way radio. She barked into the
radio: “Move in!”
Police believed
these people were going to rob people or extort money charged.
The prostitute Lisa Greene, 31, with first-degree criminal impersonation,
prostitution and fifth-degree conspiracy. Elena Irwin, 20, was
charged with fifth-degree conspiracy and possession of a hypodermic
needle.
Desperate
Housewives star Eva Longoria is not embarrassed to admit she did
not have an orgasm until she was 26 years old, insisting the wait
was perfectly normal. The 31-year-old actress was married in her
early 20s to fellow soap star Tyler Christopher and claims most
women don’t have orgasms until they’re older, if they even manage
to have them at all.
“Most women
never do. Nine out of ten of my girlfriends never experienced
an orgasm before 30 or before a sex toy… or something else,” she
was quoted by Contactmusic, as saying.
Her stats
are off, as women are much more aware of their sexuality.
British
Sex History Now Revealed September
2006
Historical
attitudes to sex in Britain will be laid bare for all to see this
week in archives which reveal a nation rich in sexual experience
and enthusiasm. The historical documents, to be given a public
outing by the Center for Archive Studies at Liverpool University,
include Britain's first ever sex survey, conducted 57 years ago
but deemed too shocking for publication at the time.
Court
Rejects Suit Over Right To Sex September
2006
A Chinese
court has rejected a woman’s claims for compensation for her sex
life, which was ruined when her husband was injured in an accident,
the Shanghai Daily reported Thursday. Wei Suying, 31, whose husband
has suffered from erectile dysfunction since a 2003 workplace
accident, filed suit in a Shanghai court asking for 220,000 yuan
($27,650) in compensation from the shopping center where the accident
occurred, it said. The compensation included claims for mental
anguish and for her purchases of products such as vibrators. “I
was not even 30 years old when my husband had the accident, which
deprived me of my right to enjoy sexual life,” the newspaper quoted
Wei as saying.
Penis
Transplant Successful, Then Reversed! September
2006
Surgeons in
China who performed the first successful penis transplant had
to remove the donated organ because of the severe psychological
problems it caused to the recipient and his wife.
The microsurgery
to attach the penis, which had been donated by the parents of
a 22-year-old brain-dead man, was successful but Hu and his team
removed it two weeks later.
“Because of
a severe psychological problem of the recipient and his wife,
the transplanted penis regretfully had to be cut off,” Hu said
in a report published online by the peer reviewed journal European
Urology, without elaborating.
In celebration
of National Coming Out Day on October 11, the Human Rights
Campaign (HRC) has created the first online public art project
encouraging Americans to Talk About It.
The
HRC Coming Out Project creates resources to help
gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender and straight Americans
talk openly about their support for equality.
October
11, 2006 is the day set aside when we honor all GLBT (Gay,
Lesbian, Bisexual, Transgender) and straight supportive
Americans who live their lives openly and honestly every
day. It is also a day set aside to help remind everyone
that coming out and living openly is a lifelong journey
– it’s something that we are called to do each and every
day.
Coming
Out Pop superstar P!nk kicks off her world tour and "Talks
About It"
An academic
has claimed that a decline in reported rape of 85% in the past
25 years can be tied to an increase in pornography consumption.
In a study for Northwestern University's Public Law and Legal
Theory Research Paper Series titled "Porn Up Rape Down,"
Anthony D'Amato, a Leighton Professor of Law at Northwestern University,
argues that the increase of accessibility of pornography has lead
to a sharp decline in rape across the United States.
Police
Chief Resigns Over Wife's Nude Pictures September
2006
An uproar
over an adult web site featuring nude photos of Snyder Police
Chief Tod Ozmun's wife has resulted in his resignation and that
of the mayor and a councilman.
A resident
in the town was looking at porn and saw her pictures on the Internet
and out of complete immaturity and hypocrisy, began passing out
pictures of her in town and insisting that her husband should
be fired for this.
Mayor Dale
Moore said, "He was not involved in these, and he has broken no
laws. He's done more drug arrests, solved more crimes than anybody
else in town has ever done."
Doris Ozmun
released a statement in her defense: "Hi, my name is Doris Ozmun.
I am a 43-year-old adult model. I am in no way affiliated with
the Snyder Police Department other than the fact I am married
to the chief of police, Tod Ozmun. The Web site I am featured
on is in no way affiliated with the Snyder Police Department nor
the city of Snyder. "I have done nothing illegal, and it is my
First Amendment right of the Constitution. You do not have to
like or agree with what I do for me to be protected by the First
Amendment right."
Couple
Kidnapped Daughter For Abortion September
2006
A Maine couple
upset that their 19-year-old daughter was pregnant tied her up,
loaded her in their car and began driving to New York to force
her to get an abortion They were jailed on a kidnapping charge
and were being held on $100,000 bail each..
Patrick Trueman
of the Family Research Council has sent a letter to President
Bush requesting a meeting about the distribution of what the letter
calls “illegal pornography.”
“I’ve seen
families absolutely destroyed by the blight of pornography. Pornography
does not lead anyone to anything good, it becomes a financial
drain on the family like any addiction does, and often leads to
violence against women.”
High among
those critical tasks, according to the site, is fighting pornography,
stating, “These [adult entertainment] businesses often result
in increased crime, as well as spiritual entrapment for those
who are caught in pornography’s lure, or who are physically exploited
for material gain,” according to the site.
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