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Me
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Ways To Love Your One Eyed Snake
Lisa
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There are
many ways for men to pleasure themselves. Here are just a few
tips. If you would like to share your favorite or most creative
method, let us know and we can post it in our Readers Forum
in the next newsletter edition.
Fisting
It
This is
a very common technique in that you simply wrap your fingers
around the shaft of your penis like a baseball bat and rub it
up and down. It provides lots of contact between your hand and
penis — and more contact means more pleasure. You can reverse
grip it from this technique as well for a different sensation.
Fingering
It
You can
use all of your fingers to only two for this technique. With
fingers on top of the shaft at a diagonal and your thumb below.
Simply running your fingers along the shaft like this can provide
a soft and mesmerizing effect.
The
Blow Job-
In order
to simulate the feeling of lips sliding over your penis, lube
up your erection and hold the shaft in one hand while you put
your dominant hand's index and middle fingers together horizontally,
palm toward your face, in front of the penis head. Push the
head into the gap between the fingers. The fingers should be
relaxed, not tense. Now pull back and do this over and over
the top third of your penis. Feel how the fingers conform to
the penis's contour as they slide over the head and back. As
you do this, position your other hand behind the "lips" your
fingers are making and grip and squeeze the head as you push
the penis in.
Mattress Love-
Get a plastic
sandwich baggie, saran wrap or bubble wrap and put some lubricant
in it. Then put your penis in and move it around to make sure
your penis is fully lubricated. Once that is done, kneel in
front of a bed. Lift the up mattress and put your penis, with
the baggie, bubble wrap, etc. still inside it, between the mattress
and the box-spring. Start thrusting in and out as if you were
having sex. Bonus is the easy clean up- when you're done, all
you have to do is throw away the baggie and wipe yourself off.
Sock
& Condom-
Get a condom
that's a little too big for your penis, fill the tip with water
and water-based lube.
Now get your penis wet and slippery and slide on the condom,
getting rid of any air bubbles. Unroll it all the way so it
has some excess at the end. It should feel super-smooth and
should slide without much friction. Get a soft and elastic sock,
and turn the open part inside out over the toe part. Carefully
pull it over your penis while making sure there's still some
slack at the end of the condom. Lie down on your couch, hold
the cushions apart with one hand, pull the sock down in with
the other, and settle into a lying-down position. If the lubrication
is right, the slightest movement will make your penis slip one
way or the other.
Bananarama-
Simply peel
a banana, slip the peel over your penis, and masturbate with
it. The banana slime is a cool natural lubricant. You can warm
up the peel in the microwave for added sensations. Just be careful
not to overheat to avoid burning yourself! Also, you might have
better results if you peel the banana by making just one cut
in the peel and removing the fruit through the single cut; you
can then cut off the end of the banana peel and insert your
penis through that end.
Dress
You Up In My Love-
Using a
soft piece of fabric or clothing (silk is the best- such as
silk boxers, but you can also use velvet, satin, etc.) Lie down,
and place the cloth over your penis. Then, with both hands rub
the fabric to the left and the right, with the silk touching
the sensitive underside of your penis. But don't rub too fast
or you will get the equivalent of carpet burn from the friction.
You can enhance the feeling by draping some of the fabric over
your scrotum so it gets stimulated, too.
Veggie
Melt -
Select an
eggplant, cucumber, zucchini that is sufficiently larger than
your erect penis. Cut a hole in the peel that's the exact size
of the base of your erect penis. Then make a hole in the pulp
smaller than your erection (using a broom handle works well).
Then put the eggplant in the microwave for about a minute, just
so it gets warm inside and starts to get a little soft, but
don't really cook it. Then, after you make sure with your finger
that the inside is cool enough, put in some lube (try coconut
oil), put the eggplant between a couple of pillows thrust away.
You can lie on your back and just move the veggie back and forth
on your erect penis. In addition, cantaloupe, watermelon are
fruits that work well.
Pasta
Masta -
Cook some
noodles in boiling water, pour off the excess water, and let
the noodles cool off. Then make a penis-size hole in the pasta,
which should be fairly stuck together at this stage. Then away
you go. The wet pasta should be enough for a lube. Caution:
Don't be too eager with this one — to avoid burning yourself,
the pasta must have cooled enough so you could hold a finger
inside it without any problem. You can also use lasagna noodles
to wrap around and slide up an down your shaft and head. Add
oil or lubricant for a smooth glide.
Endurance
Set a timer,
alarm clock, or digital watch to go off in 20 minutes and don't
let yourself ejaculate until the timer goes off. You can increase
the time if you desire. Waiting will increase the anticipation
because the alarm could ring at any second. Try to hover right
on the edge so you can orgasm immediately when the alarm rings.
It may seem like an eternity! It's especially good if the alarm
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Using
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Hand Job Combo
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Hot & Cold
Women's Lubricant
Hands On Your Head
Adore The Cock
Penis Anatomy
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Perineum Love
Anal Love
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Oprah
Covers Swinging & Infidelity What
Do Swingers Do & Why Are More Women Cheating?
Lisa
S. Lawless, Ph.D., C.E.O.
Holistic Wisdom Founder
Lisa
S. Lawless, Ph.D., CEO
Oprah
is of course a leader among women and I was so happy to see
that she covered these topics as they are truly important to
be educated and speak openly about these things.
I
couldn't help but think about the guests that appeared on the
show and how coming out in public with the life styles that
they chose for themselves would ultimately affect them. I think
that they may find themselves surprised at how much positive
and negative feedback they will receive as this is a topic that
people get worked up about.
Shocking
Swingers!
Obviously
Oprah's staff looked for the most shocking types of people to
reveal as swingers for that segment of the show; constantly
saying things that reinforced their personalities to be the
least likely type of person to do something like this.
For
example they kept mentioning that the swinger guests were Ph.D.s,
Masters educated, had children, was a minister, or even ran
a Brownie group. I had to chuckle when they kept emphasizing
that because I think people are truly so taken in by someone's
"credentials" and in turn tend to make those who seem
stereotypically "wholesome" seem incapable of sexual
activity that involves anything out of mainstream. The reality
is that it simply does not matter if you are a Ph.D. or a grade
school drop out... your sexual preference is not dictated by
education or social status. We are all human after all and have
individual needs that work with our own sexuality.
For
example, Tina and Sam have been married for 22 years and have
three children together. They're basically upstanding citizens,
they go to church every week, both have their Ph.D.s, and they
also say they are kind of "boring" people.
However
what most people do not know about Tina and Sam is that they
are swingers, often having intercourse with other couples. They
both look to clubs, or the Internet to meet other like-minded
couples.
Tina
expressed that for them, they felt that swinging enhances their
experiences with one another. "Some of the best sex we've
ever had is after we've been with somebody else," said
Tina. Tim did provide a warning to the audience by saying of
swinging that "This is a magnifier. If you have problems
in your relationship, it's not something you should try."
What
Is Healthy?
I
think where there is the most confusion is how to know when
a relationship is healthy and when it is not. The answer to
that is complex, but to simplify... it is healthy when you are
doing what fulfills you and allows for you to be empowered and
furthers your growth. It is unhealthy when you cause harm to
yourself or someone else (such as lying, cheating, and doing
things that lower your integrity).
The
best way to know what is right for you and/or your partner is
to COMMUNICATE. If there is one thing that I could stress above
all else in regard to what makes a relationship or sex great
it is communication.
My
husband and I have spent a great deal of time and effort to
make sure that we speak with one anther. We do not assume that
what we once felt or thought will always be the case because
we respect that we are always evolving as people and as a couple.
We find it essential to communicate about what we want in our
lives from our sex life to our relationship. Without that communication
I can't imagine that we would have the deep and loving marriage
that we have.
For
example, we touch base with one another to see how we are doing.
We will ask if we are feeling satisfied with one another in
specific areas and if not we discuss how we can improve. It
is a great idea to envision a relationship as a car that will
need to be fine tuned and provided maintenance over the years.
Without that, it will breakdown just as many marriages breakup.
When
my husband and I discussed having an open relationship and joining
a swingers lifestyle neither of us felt that we would be happy
with that path and so we have decided to have a closed monogamous
relationship which has happily served us.
However,
we do check in with one another to discuss whether we ever think
about that or if we are feeling that our choice no longer serves
us. So far we continue to desire a monogamous marriage, but
the fact that we take the time to openly ask is what I believe
is just one of the ways we show respect for one another through
a willingness to truly explore one another's desires, insecurities,
and other important aspects.
That
is why many swingers will tell you they are happy. Swingers
that are successful at their lifestyle are so because they do
the same thing. They lovingly communicate with one another allowing
open dialog that provides trust, safety and respect. When you
do this in a monogamous relationship or an open one you will
find a happier relationship.
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Increase
In Infidelity Among Women
Newsweek
recently exposed a well-kept secret—the sex lives of American
wives. What they've discovered is startling. With over 15 percent
of women cheating on their husbands one must look at not only
why there is a shift but why they do it.
Why
The Shift?
One
of the things that Oprah and her guests agreed upon was that
marriage is changing. People are looking outside of what is
defined as a "traditional marriage" to find what is
right for them. Part of the reason is that women's roles on
society have changed. With more than 60% of women in the work
force and over 25% of those women earning more than their male
partners, women are taking a different approach to sex.
Why
They Do It?
Adrienne
Lopez and Stephanie Gertler are journalists who have written
a new book called To Love, Honor and Betray: The Secret
Life of Suburban Wives. They found that women who were
cheating on their husbands would end the affair if they were
treated differently by their husbands. Yet, that conclusion
sounds a bit one sided. It seems that if a woman or man cheats
on their significant other married or not that there is more
than just not being treated well.
Stephanie
Gertler almost tearfully told the Oprah audience "we would
ask them, If you came home one evening after having this affair,
and you walked in the house and your husband had votive candles
lit and was dressed beautifully, and he had a stew on the stove
and a bottle of wine, and he looked at you and said, 'Tell me
how to love you, tell me what it is I need to do to show you
I love you,' what would you do? Would you leave your lover?"
And every one of them cried and said that's what they want.
They want their marriage. They want their husband.
Problem
with a statement like that is the focus then becomes the cheater
now appearing to be the victim. This is simply not the case
in most situations. The truth is usually that neither partner
has made an effort to make their relationship work.
With
hundreds of eMails coming in every day and while I answer
man, it is not possible for me to reply to all of them.
However, I wanted to provide a section where we take
some of our readers questions and post them on our web
site so that we can provide answers so that everyone
can benefit from having the information available on
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To submit your question
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Does
the vagina tighten up after a period of inactivity? I
am seeing a woman who has not had sex in over two years
and her vagina seems very tight. We had sex for the first
time and she says that it is so tight because of not having
had sex for so long and it hurt a little bit. Can that
be accurate?
-Jerry
Hi
Jerry,
Yes,
vaginal tightness can occur from inactivity. Of course
there are other reasons for tightness including menopause,
psychological tension, and even lack or lubrication.
However,
a woman's vagina can become tighter with inactivity alone.
If it is painful for her then I recommend starting with
finger activities that will help to stretch her opening
a bit and a lot of lubricant. Take things slowly at first
once you enter her with your penis and check in with her
to make sure she is not experiencing pain. After about
3-4 times she should feel that she can take you in without
too much friction. If she is still experiencing pain she
may want to be examined by her OBGYN for other potential
causes.
Hi
Lisa,
Why
do I sometimes cry after having an orgasm?
-Kerry
Hi
Kate,
The
sexual response cycle works like this:
1)
A woman feels a slight interest in having a sexual experience
and feels a
"vague stirring" phase.
2)
She may become aroused and feel actual desire for sexual
expression.
3)
She
will experience excitement, during which many physiological
changes
occur, followed by heightened
arousal at the plateau phase.
4)
Then comes her orgasm, at which point she releases all
the pent-up energy
and blood engorgement that has
accumulated.
5)
She finds a resolution and sense of fulfillment.
All
along these phases are indicators, such as change in color,
increased breathing, swelling of genital tissue and hardness
and wetness of the male and female sex organs. Throughout
this process of arousal through to the "pop" of orgasm,
energy is amassing and must be discharged. That energy
may take the form of whatever the body is capable of releasing
so that it may show up as crying.
Know
that this is a perfectly wonderful means for letting out
both feelings and energy. Crying, for you, may be your
body's way of telling you it has completed a dance, or
an intense journey, through sex. Be sure that you have
thoroughly checked inside to make sure that these tears
are of joy, not sadness or something else that may stem
from a past wound around relationships, sex or your body
image. Then go forth in delight that you can enjoy so
much emotional juice. It's terrific that you can feel,
express and know that you are truly alive.
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