What Is Male Multiple Orgasm And How Can The Average Guy Learn It? Can you get it up again and again each night after orgasm?

For many, recovering following ejaculation isn't easy. The older you get the harder it is. Or the softer it is. For some of us, quick recovery is an impossible dream. The delay in getting turned on enough to do it again, technically called the refractory period, is a natural part of physiology. Is getting or staying hard after ejaculating what multi-orgasmic men learn?

No. Male Multiple Orgasm means learning to have a series of phenomenal climaxes without ejaculating. Yes, you can learn to separate orgasm from ejaculation. Multi-orgasmic men experience many "dry climaxes" before they choose the wet kind.

Can only vegetarians do this? Do you need drugs? Special world-class DNA? Years of yoga and deprivation?

No, definitely not. Any willing guy, like you, can learn to time his ejaculation with a little practice. And to give and receive as many orgasms as he and his partner wants.

Interested in learning how?
Read on to find out exactly what a dry orgasm is, to take a closer look at the difference between orgasm and ejaculation, and to discover how you can become multi-orgasmic.

LESS THAN A DAY IN THE LIFE

An orgasm is defined as a sexual climax, a few seconds of the most intense pleasure during sexual intercourse, usually accompanied with explosive release.

Think of how much trouble we all go to for these occasional few seconds. If you orgasm for 10 seconds, three times a week (the high end of national estimates), for 50 years, were only talking about 21 hours. That's less than one day of pleasure for an entire life of average sex.

But what if you could orgasm multiple times every night? What if you could go on continuously for hours? Is that possible?

Tantric gurus of the East have been studying all aspects of pleasure and human existence for thousands of years. Through Tantra, the ancient science of sacred sexuality, it is very possible to learn to extend your sexual stamina and virtually go all night.

Here's what Patrick from North Carolina wrote us: "Before I took up Tantra, I couldn't last for more than 4 seconds. Now that you have enlightened me about Tantra, I can go for hours. After 4 months of practicing Tantra, I can now go for 7 hours! I just can't believe that it is just that powerful."

Men, aren't you just a little curious? Women, don't you want to help your lover go on and on? The pay-off of longer-lasting ecstasy is definitely worth it.

ORGASM TO THE WESTERN SCIENTIFIC MIND

Masters and Johnson broke sex down into four stages: arousal, excitement, explosion, and resolution. The explosion phase, ejaculatory orgasm, is a two-step process. First, after reaching the point of no return, the muscles around your prostate gland contract and empty semen into the urethral canal. Second, the smooth muscles around your pelvic floor rhythmically pump the released fluids out the end of your pleasure stick.

If you're interested in teaching yourself multiple orgasm, a great way to start is to become more aware of these processes with this enjoyable exercise...

1) Self pleasure up to the point of no return. (Nothing to feel guilty about, doctor's orders!)

2) Relax completely.

3) Pay close attention to what happens as you ejaculate.

4) Can you feel the involuntary spasms around your prostate and the contractions
    that propel your semen outward?

With a little practice, you'll notice each distinct change and sensation as they happen. Some students repeat this exercise over and over in the interests of scientific inquiry. We applaud them for their dedication!

TANTRIC ORGASM, A DIFFERENT BREED OF ECSTASY

Tantric adepts view ejaculatory orgasm as building energy in the erogenous zones, getting swept away by passion, and exploding with ejaculation. When the excitement climbs higher than you can contain, all your juice finds the path of least resistance out through the genitals, releasing built-up energy and the inevitable wet spot.

What could be better than the rush of that fantastic 10-second expulsion? The Tantric Orgasm is a long series of slow, intensely pleasurable, full-body vibrations accompanied by surge after surge of orgasmic energy. If they continue without ejaculation, the waves of ecstasy climb to unheard of heights. By conserving energy instead of throwing it away by ejaculating, you get higher and hotter all over your body.

To experience Tantric Orgasm, you just pump built-up sexual energy away from your genitals. When you recirculate intense arousal without explosive release, you can still feel those exquisite smooth muscle contractions around your pelvic floor. The slang for these inner energy climaxes is "dry orgasms." Actually, they feel more like implosions, the inner explosion of unrestrained sexual power inside your body.

Temporarily after a dry orgasm during intercourse, excitation typically decreases enough so that you can enjoy more vigorous stroking without ejaculating. Tantric lovemaking rises slowly to a peak, stops to savor the pleasure, pumps fast for a bit, reaches another ecstatic peak, and then repeats over and over. Sound like fun?

I'M CONVINCED, WHERE DO I SIGN UP?

There are many ways for men to interrupt ejaculation just before the point of inevitability. For example, if you press on your prostate gland through the perineum (the soft spot between your testicles and anus), or squeeze the base of your penis, you can prevent the fluid explosion. You can learn this kind of control, but Tantric methods are by far more pleasurable.

To learn multiple Tantric Orgasm, first, learn to relax completely while you're highly aroused. This is the opposite of most guy's programming, which is to tense up when excited. After relaxing, sensitize yourself to sexual energy, you know, that inner vibration like electricity that stimulates your nerves, warms your body, and titillates your erogenous zones. Instead of focusing on the Big O, the next time you make love, try this...

1) Start slowly without a goal or agenda about what's going to happen.

2) At each moment, concentrate on what you're feeling and where.

3) As the energy collects strongly in your genitals, slow down, breathe deeply, and relax.

4) Visualize your sexual fire streaming up your body away from your genitals.

5) When the excitement surges intensely, stop all movement and enjoy it. You might
    feel hot waves of ecstasy all over, or you might ejaculate strongly, or you might
    just orgasm without ejaculating.

Through dedicated practice, which is loads of fun, you can learn to monitor your level of arousal, relax when you're too excited, interrupt ejaculation, and spread sexual energy for full-body orgasms. Fortunately, these exercises, when done regularly, are proven to be 95% effective.

THE BOTTOM LINE

Remember...

~ Orgasm does not have to equal ejaculation.
~ Relax your sexual muscles at the right time.
~ Go higher and higher by conserving energy, not exploding.
~ Circulate sexual energy inside for implosive orgasm after orgasm.

You see, it's not a myth. You can orgasm again and again while you last and last. When your female lover learns to savor this same pace, you can ride the wave of bliss together to unimaginable peaks.

Love and Goddess Speed Your Journey,
Dhyan Jeffre and Dhyan Somraj

By Dhyan Somraj Pokras & Dhyan Jeffre TallTrees
TantraAtTahoe.com

Sexuality Is Such A Fun Playing Field

In this Tantric Sex Tip we're going to give you directions for a fun, and for some a challenging, way to declare your spiritual pride in your sensual and sexual nature. It comes from one of our most explicit eBooks, "Tantric G-Spot Orgasm & Female Ejaculation: Awakening Her Sacred Gate To Supreme Bliss." We're talking about something both men and women, in their own ways, regularly do: shaving.

No, not your beard, your legs, or your armpits. We're talking about your pubic hairdo.

Really really accepting yourself means you have to revere the look -- plus while we're on the subject, the feel, smell, and taste, too -- of your jewels (our Tantric name for genitals). We understand how modestly so many of us are raised. Most parents don't parade around naked and encourage their kids to do the same. As a result, most of us are embarrassed to show our private parts.

Years ago Somraj learned an important lesson when a friend invited him to his first nudist camp. When he exhibited some shyness over revealing his privates, she said "What's the big deal? If someone has seen them before, it won't be anything new. If they haven't, they won't know what they're looking at." Maybe not exactly true, but it shows our cultural conditioning that you're about to change, right?

Do you like the look and feel of trimmed or clean-shaven jewels? Many sex-positive lovers are so proud of their sexual pleasure that they regularly groom their pubic hair. We're talking to both women and men here, by the way.

Take Pride In The Appearance Of
Your Most Sacred Grotto

If you begin to take personal pride in the appearance of your most sacred grotto, things will shift. You'll have to accept yourself as a sexual being. You see, a little activity like pubic shaving can bring up all sorts of resistance. Questions about identity and personal values naturally surface. Then you have to look at and decide what's true for you.

For example, some people think that only porn stars groom their pubes. Not so. A recent web poll by our friends at MyMessyBedroom.com asked readers about pubic hair grooming. Here's what they responded...

25% trim their pubes.
30% combine trimming with hair removal.
22% are completely hairless "down there."
23% prefer to go au natural.

Taking care of your pubic hair isn't preparation for a sojourn at a nudist camp or declaring you want to be promiscuous. It's revering your most sacred of spaces for your own pride. And the pleasure of those you invite in.

Pubic grooming can be practical for active lovers. Tantrikas (Tantric adepts) love the incredible slipperiness of loveplay when completely smooth vagina, lips, penis, and testicles meet. So will you if you haven't tried it!

Somraj's vajra (Tantric for penis) doesn't like the bristle of a growing bush, both on the giving and receiving side. He trims around vajra's base every couple weeks or so to keep the wildest hairs at bay and out of the way when open access is desired. He even keeps the bush around his balls shorter, but not stubby. That's what works for him. What works best for you?

Joys And Challenges Of Your Own Personal Yoni-Do

Women, do you have a yoni-do? Yoni is the ancient Tantric word for vagina. Have you ever shaved down there? We don't urge one form over another, but we do suggest you consider your preferences.

Some women care for their pubic hairdo just as they do their head hair. Some like a tidy crotch, some create a heart or other design over their mound, some shave completely naked down to yoni's opening . What's your pleasure? We honor all manifestations of the Goddess.

If you've worked at keeping your hair trimmed so it doesn't grow bushily outside your bikini bottom, you understand some of the challenges involved with regular pubic shaving. In a recent Cosmo web poll, 32% of women reported that they've had a horrendous bikini line hair removal experience. Harsh chemicals, razor burns, ingrown hairs all can have disastrous effects on some of your most cherished and sensitive tissues. In fact, here's what Joanna, aged 19, shared...

"One fall, I was an aquatics director and had a crush on this cute lifeguard who was visiting from Australia. He was a good-natured guy and was always grinning, so when I found out I'd be teaching swimming lessons with him, I was psyched. The morning of my first lesson I remembered I hadn't shaved my bikini line, so I tried this new hair-removal cream. I had it on for five minutes when my skin began to sting like crazy. I washed it off and saw I had this disgusting wet-like rash all along my bikini line. It was obvious, but I had to go teach the lesson anyway. At the pool, I reluctantly peeled off my shorts and prayed no one would notice, but as soon as the kids saw me in my suit, they started pointing at the bumps near my crotch and asking if they were bug bites. One boy even asked the hunky Australian if he knew what they were. When he glanced over at my scary bikini line, he stopped smiling and shuddered."

What's The Best Way To Shave Down There?

In our humble Tantric opinion, the best way is give your intimate partner the job. Yes, you've got to be out-there and proud of every part of yourself to do this. Which is a big reason why we suggest making your beloved your pubic hair stylist. Another is because of the powerful impact on your intimacy.

Besides, your lover has a personal stake in the look and feel of your jewels. We know many couples who bestow the responsibility for jewel hairdos on their partner. It takes a lot of trust in your partner and yourself to allow another to take razor or trimmer to such a delicate place. Of course, investing a few dollars in a good shaver makes it much safer.

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To start with, answer some questions...

What would look best to you? - What parts do you want smooth and hairless? - What feels best with tight pants and during sex? - What does your partner prefer? Once you've got a idea, it's time to experiment by putting on your pubic hair identity.

Try This At Home Tonight

Discuss with your partner some of the options you've considered. Find out what she or he might like. Discuss the possibility of your partner shaving you. Just talking about it can be quite a turn on. You can be trimmed while laying down with your legs spread. Or you can sit on the edge of chair or bathtub with your personal stylist at your feet. For better access, put one leg on your shaver's shoulder. Have a hand mirror within reach so you can consult with the unfolding jewel-do. And then be proud of your divine landscape. Declare out loud, "Go ahead, enjoy shaving my precious jewels! I'm going to watch and love it myself." We look forward to hearing of your artistry both in and out of bed...

Love, Somraj & Jeffre