The
Holistic Wisdom Journal
March
1 , 2003 ~ Articles In This Issue...
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The
Prostate & Male Ejaculation
Through
Prostate Stimulation You Can Increase
Your Ejaculation To Amazing Proportions While
Enhancing Pleasure!
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Men
& Sex
The
Key To Being A Good Lover-"All
About "Getting" It
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The Prostate & Male Ejaculation
Through
Prostate Stimulation You Can Increase
Your Ejaculation To Amazing Proportions While
Enhancing Pleasure!
By Lisa S. Lawless, C.E.O.
Holistic Wisdom Founder
Portions
of this article directly obtained from-
http://www.mrcain.com/html/prostate.htm
There's
more to the male genitalia than the head and shaft of the penis...
if you press your fingers against your perineum (area between
your testicles and anus) you can feel this root, or bulb of your
penis. The root of the penis is sensitive and can be stimulated
through the perineum or the rectum and is just one reason that
anal penetration feels pleasurable to many men. Now I know there
is a lot of homophobia that goes on for men around the talk of
anal play... so let me just address that before I go any further.
We
of course respect anyone's sexual preference when it comes to
being heterosexual or homosexual. We see beauty in both and we
support either preference. For those men who are heterosexual
and fear that anal play may lead to
homosexual feelings or that someone will think they are...
think again.
Some
people think the anus is dirty. But there is nothing dirty
about the body, which must be cared for. The only thing that might
be considered dirty is disease; and these practices are intended
to prevent and cure disease through regular care for the entire
body, including the anus and prostate.
Many
men are troubled by these massages because they think there is
something "homosexual" about it, especially if it is pleasurable.
They might feel differently if they knew the extent to which neglect
ultimately results in prostate dysfunction, malfunction, and disease.
Inserting anything into the anus never turned anyone into a homosexual.
Many
straight men enjoy prostate massage with their female partners
and don't miss out on the health benefits or intense pleasure
that it brings because they are confident in their masculinity
and are able to work through any fear that they have regarding
it. If you are worried about the homosexual piece of this, then
I suggest that you talk about these feelings with a trusted friend,
partner or professional to try and work through your fears because
you will be missing out on a wonderful sexual release if you let
your fears keep you from trying it.
Okay... back to the joys & benefits of prostate
massage...
Traditionally,
doctors would massage their patients' prostates regularly to cure
or prevent disease. Now, however, most doctors only check the
prostate, and if they find a problem prefer to cut it out or prescribe
medication. But a doctor is not necessarily required for prostate
massage.
You
can do it yourself or have your partner do it for you. Try this
practice and discover its health benefits. When you do it yourself,
you can be very gentle and make the treatment pleasurable as well
as efficacious.
The
prostate is analogous to the G spot in women which is shown to
the left. The prostate can be massaged by inserting a finger (toy,
dildo etc.) a minimum of three inches into your anus and stroking
toward the front of your body through the walls of your rectum.
The
technique of prostate massage actually involves two (three) organs
of the male reproductive system: the prostate gland, the seminal
vesicle, and the ampulla, which is the reservoir which actually
holds the male sperm just prior to ejaculation.
The
prostate gland when engorged can be felt by pressing a finger
into the middle of the perineum (in back of the scrotum). It is
a rounded lump about the size of a large marble. It can also be
accessed via the rectum, where it can again be felt as a rounded
lump toward the front of the body and just about an index finger's
length inside the rectum.
A
better way to find it from the rectum is to insert the middle
finger, and slide it from just inside the rectum (on the front
side) up and in until you feel it move over a lump. That will
be the prostate.
Just
in back of (up from) the prostate is a smaller and roughly triangular
wedge shaped nodule that is the bottom portion of the somewhat
larger seminal vesicle, which is where most of the fluid of the
ejaculate is produced and accumulated. Underneath the seminal
vesicle are the ampulla.
During
sexual arousal, sperm and ejaculatory fluid accumulate in these
glands backing up behind valves in the ejaculatory ducts. When
fluid pressure reaches a high enough threshold, the valves open
and the urethral bulb fills, triggering the ejaculatory reflex
and muscular contractions of orgasm, which empties the glands.
You can massage your prostate by simply inserting your finger
or toy into the anus and reaching back and up towards the navel
until you feel the prostate gland. Use natural-content personal
lubricant of the type specific to this purpose to facilitate insertion
of the finger, and gently rub back and forth on the prostate using
as much pressure as you can without causing pain.
This
massage can be made even more pleasurable if your partner is willing
to do the massage for you. You need not concern yourself about
bacterial transmission if the hands are clean. Use of any toy
using the instruction above will do the trick.
Sexual
intensity is enhanced by massaging the penis at the same time!
Some men have passed out from the sheer pleasure so be prepared
for an amazing sexual experience!
Medical
Bonus-
It
is important that men examine themselves often by checking the
condition of their prostates. You can determine the condition
of the prostate by feeling for changes in size and resilience.
Check
this as often as possible, at least every few months, and you
will be able to establish a standard for yourself. By doing so,
you will be able to detect any changes in the size and flexibility
of your prostate. A very hard, enlarged, or painful prostate is
an indication of a disorder that could lead to cancer or some
other major problem.
Prostate
disorders do not develop overnight, and regular massage can prevent
and reverse problems. Medical science accepts that it is normal
for men over the age of fifty to experience problems with their
prostates. Although prostate problems may be common, they are
not normal. They are abnormal. There is no need for any man to
have prostate problems.
For a
web site with more information regarding this topic, check out-
http://www.cleanprostate.com/theprostate.htm
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All About "Getting It"
By Greg Hall
Holistic Wisdom Consultant
After
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I had always thought of myself as a good lover. I had looks, charm,
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and love life.
Like
any paradigm, you have to change the way you look before you can
see. Much like the 3-D hidden pictures in the chaos of another,
you have to change your focus and look beyond what you perceive
to find the hidden picture. However, sharing this in a written
format is somewhat akin to describing over the telephone to a
lifelong vegetarian the aroma of a steak on the barbecue. There
must be a common understanding and experience dictionary for understanding
to occur. But, every man can master this concept and reap the
rewards of greater satisfaction and love. It's not about size,
looks, or even income. The key to your success is about your education
and understanding of the subject.
How
did you learn to make love? Did you study and practice or were
you taught the finer points? Did you learn from your parents,
lovers or close friends? Sadly, few men ever really study and
learn. If men are asked about sports, cars, politics, or making
money, we can talk for hours. If we are asked to name the eight
different kinds of female orgasms or female sexual response, we're
often dumbfounded to even speak. Moreover, for men to talk openly
with other men about female sexual response is often tantamount
to admission we don't know and an unforgivable sin. Why is it
so easy to men to admit we lack understanding of the stock market
or sports, etc., than to admit our lack of knowledge in this regard?
Somehow, it infers we aren't "real" men and "real" men know these
things.
Women
have a bond and a sisterhood that talks about men regularly. Women's
magazines have in-depth stories about men. Women's conversations
cover a much broader area about men than even men discuss. Most
men's magazines focus more on how women look in sports, cars,
politics, business or nothing at all. In recent studies, men are
more likely to focus on a woman's looks where women seem to focus
more on men's attitude. Men tend to be visual and look for sexual
opportunity where women tend towards relational and look for a
reason to have a relationship.
The
simple fact you are reading this editorial searching for answers
says you want to know more and have more control in the bedroom
and your life. Success is most often based on education, understanding
and a willingness to take a risk. The age-old axiom "when the
man with the gold meets the man with the education, the man with
the gold gets an education and the man with the education gets
some gold." holds true today. The only "gold" you have to invest
for this education is your time and a little goes a long way.
Romance
isn't an accident, it's a decision and great sex begins long before
the bedroom. The most powerful four-letter word that ends with
a 'k' and means intercourse is 'talk'. Good conversation and genuine
interest in your partner stimulates desire. The second greatest
fear humans have is public speaking. This isn't for the public
but your partner is an audience and we often trip over our words
as we express our interest and desires. So instead of doing all
the talking and feeling uncomfortable about it learn to ask probing
questions then shut up and listen. If asked nicely, women will
tell you everything…eventually. It does take patience and learning
to steer the conversation appropriately. But women love it when
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The
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it's not about your satisfaction that will gain her desire for
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then roll over and go to sleep. Part of this is caused by the
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the techniques for all eight of her orgasms. Listen to her body
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everything thing else you study. Learn to listen to her and her
body and control her with pure pleasure. Because of physical and
emotional issues, not all women can either reach or discern the
subtle differences of orgasms. Respond to her body and don't be
afraid to ask her.
I
am often amazed how many women can tell a man where every piece
of furniture will go in a new house but won't tell the same man
to move over ¼ of an inch. So be patient and learn to feel her
responses and 'talk' openly.
Once
you have the 'education' and meet the woman with the 'gold' of
a caring heart and spirit, the reward of totally satisfying her
will become immediately evident to you and you'll finally "get
it." It doesn't take the looks, money or size to get there, just
a good education.
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