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Absolutely love the newsletter
actually getting a great education!
Thank
you for your insightful newsletter. How I wish this had
been out 30 years ago. I was a virgin the day I married.
And it wasn't for lack of offers, it was just something
I felt was 'right' at the time. How wrong I was. It wasn't
until I had been married for 27 years, his abuse escalated
from emotional and verbal to physical [this seemed to
coincide with my graduation from college], and I finally
had the nerve to end the marriage that I realized he used
sex as a weapon, something to control me.
There
have only been three men with whom I've been intimate.
[Honestly, I feel rather slow.] I have a wonderful man
in my life now, who is understanding of my foibles, and
doesn't treat me as second class because I lack a penis.
He's also great in bed.
As
far as actresses in pornography go, I work in law offices.
We have represented women in the industry, and who worked
as outcall prostitutes. On the whole, they are nice, normal
women that I wouldn't mind having lunch with. One is just
as apt to run into a stripper at the local PTA meeting
as anyone else. It just happens to be how they earn their
living. I have nothing but the highest respect for them.
And a bit of envy, because they're making a hell of a
lot more money than I ever could, typing up divorce complaints.
Thank
you again for your great letter. It has become the highlight
of my email week.
Helen
Women should have the freedom to make their own decisions
in life as long as they are mature and responsible enough
to choose their path. However, I also feel that they should
be ready to accept any criticism and the consequences.
A
woman should have the right be be in porn if she chooses.
I do not agree with rape in any form. Sex should be between
two (or more if that is what you are into) consenting
adults. My wife was molested at an early age and she is
not damaged goods. A women's past has nothing to do with
her present or future in most cases. I realize that there
are many women (more men) that never grow up and seem
to want extra marital sex which hurts their spouse in
the long run.
Due
to her bad experience my wife was sexually active at an
early age but never enjoyed sex, and she can't explain
why she had sex since she hated it. A bad experience can
affect a person emotionally and mentally, but if the man
can be supportive and loving and be there for her while
showing that sex can be loving, enjoyable and fun.
I
think my wife is the most beautiful woman I have ever
met, inside and out. We have a perfect sex life and she
cannot keep her hands off of me. I am very proud of her!
She tells me that it was me who did it for her, but I
tell her that she did it and allowed me to be there for
her.
As
far as sex before marriage, I say if it feels good, do
it. It is the men who are insecure about themselves that
are the damaged goods. They may break a woman down, or
push them away. In any relationship there has to be trust
and above all...RESPECT. If these elements are not there,
do not get married. These are my opinions, and I am one
opinionated S.O.B!!!
Hi there Lisa,
firstly
I hope you are doing well in the latest newsletter we
had some interesting topics and before even reading your
articles I already agreed with you (I am not finished
yet, haven't read the women in porn one yet, but that's
for after this email) that's not to say I was going to
be on your side no matter what you said I mean I already
held the views you were sharing so on to the point of
my email today
I
found this issue of the news letter very hard to read
why? I hear you ask because these topics make me so angry
I don't believe in words like "slut" being applied to
women it aggravates me SO MUCH when I hear people talking
about a certain .. anyone saying oh that *Insert female
name here* is such a slut , she was out with guy1 just
last night and now she is up to guy3, and its only been
four days or even when a guy breaks up with a chick, after
the normal period of sadness usually comes the period
of anger where anytime the name of their previous partner
leaves their mouth its normally followed by "is such a
slut" and I FUCKING HATE IT !!!
I'm
sorry for having to express my self in such a manner but
there is no other way, I myself don't use words like "used"
or "damaged goods" for a woman and I try so very very
hard not to use words like "slut" in the traditional sense
in regard to a woman I have tried to reinvent the word,
and I now use the word against a GUY who has just beaten
me at something , like a multi player computer game for
example cause its a nice harsh word, but with its new
context, doesn't have any full on hostility attached my
reasoning is this in the language of men the traditional
usage of the word "slut" is a woman who will fuck anything
that moves and has a phallic object, this means a woman
who will have sex with a guy if he just asks nicely, or
courts her for a little while.
Now
fine, I can see why society would want a word to associate
this attribute to a person but this next part is where
I come unglued and lose all understanding with my fellow
man if a woman of this nature is a "slut" because she
knows what she wants sexually and is NOT afraid to go
out and get what she wants, when she wants it. Then why
is not every man on this planet called a slut instead
of man????? 'Cause only those who are already getting
it from a loved one, would turn down a attractive woman
if she approached them (in any place u choose) and asked
them for sex they would be back at her place as fast as
the taxi would get them there wouldn't they so why the
hell do they get away with calling a woman who enjoys
her sexuality a "slut" arg, it makes me so angry
I
just want to break these fucking idiots in half. I have
a lady friend who has had some bad experience with guys,
and she was telling me her story one night, during a very
intimate phone call, of these experiences that she felt
she was somehow unclean or dirty or something, and was
afraid I wouldn't be her friend any more her relating
her story to me caused her much pain, she was in tears
for half the time when she said "I will understand if
you don't want to talk to me anymore because I'm a slut"
I
was so hurt, my friend is such a fantastic woman, I would
of asked her out my self if she wants already involved
with some one else. She is such a great person, but society
make her believe she is unworthy because of things she
has done needless to say we both cried enough during that
phone call I'm glad I had already told her a few weeks
before that how much I hate the word slut and why but
that didn't give me anything to really say to her how
does one guy undo the imprint of society upon even a single
wounded female I cant do it , it has taken me a very long
time for her to believe that I actually do think she is
very attractive. I'm afraid deep down she is still ashamed
of her self because of words like "slut" that exist in
our society and I hate it.
Women's
views are good but better when the spouse is reading with
you, the last week issue of when and attitude for when
why and how much should a woman give her man a "blowjob"
was very important and he said he agreed and loves the
sex act but he always hoped for more and now together
that has help from your letter.
I
never let go with my orgasms and feared peeing and never
understood the female ejaculation, but now soak the bed
in pools of fluid. He loves when I cum and asks for me
to play with myself just to watch and now love to give
him a wet show many times all over him with as far as
2 1/2 - 3 ft shots with my powerful orgasms.
I
no longer hold back , I now cum to the point of total
body collapse and lay there in recovery and he eats me
out and I go again.
Sex
needs to released from woman's minds that it is dirty
and learn what their body will really do if let go to
max orgasm in sex with your partner, man or woman, or
solo just to let go and orgasm to relax after a long day.
How much is the flesh light I have not seen a price and
would like to buy for him to watch him masturbate for
me with it?
Thanks,
Debbie
I
personally don't believe that it is wrong, but in a religious
perspective it is! but if you are practicing that moral,
you would have to appreciate that finding some one who
shares the same moral is very rare, you could be waiting
a long time, also not many women/guys will stay with a
partner now days if they refuse to make love to them!
a woman in "USED" in my opinion when she is for example
promised or lead to believe she will get a little more
than a one night stand or sex but gets nothing/is lied
to. She is used when she has been lied to in order for
the guy to get what he wants.
Damaged
goods? well every guy prefers a virgin, it can be an "ego"
thing or just the fact that they like to have something
no one else has had, however this too is very rare, so
in general standards a woman is "Damaged Goods" when she
has slept around a lot and is known for it, or when she
has slept with someone you know or are closely acquainted
with.(As he cannot approach her because someone has already
been there, its a territory thing, no one likes to have
something that everyone's got or had).
I
hope this is some help to you, take care and enjoy your
weekend!
Lisa's
Reply-
Hi,
Thank
you for your reply to the newsletter. I understand why
people think that women deserve these titles through rationalizing,
but it seems rather sexist to not apply them to men if
you are going to go in that direction. Furthermore, I
agree with you... it is an "ego thing." Coming from one's
ego we have a tendency to be judgmental and critical of
others.
You
mention that coming from a religious perspective it is
wrong to be sexual before marriage. It seems to me that
the true message of most religions is to not be judgmental.
Doesn't Christianity say-
Matthew
7:1 Judge not, that ye be not judged.
Ecclesiastes
7:20 For there is not a just man upon earth, that
doeth good, and sinneth not.
Wasn't
it Jesus, Christianity's big guy that said “He that
is without sin among you, let him cast the first stone
at her.”
So
the point of the article is to say that we have a right
to jealousy, insecurity and other human emotions, but
to cast judgment on a person man or woman is something
I feel to be wrong. Calling someone "used" is making them
out to be less of a person than the person saying it.
I don't believe someone who is evolved, has a strong sense
of self esteem and integrity would say that about someone
regardless of their sex.
Thanks
again for your comments. I believe that open debate is
a great way to learn about ourselves and others.
Best,
Lisa
Ramone's
Reply To Lisa-
Yes,
but first please don't get me wrong, I just want to say
that I was giving you the viewpoint of the general "male"
perspective.
I'm
never one to judge. Your right in saying that those biblical
scriptures do speak of not judging and the fact that we
will and do sin against god and have no right to judge
others for their sins when we ourselves sin. But most
people judge out of their own insecurities and jealousy
anyway, and the fact is from a religious point of view
the bible states we should not pursue sex before marriage,
I have recently started to look into religion and attempt
to follow it but as I said previously it would be difficult
to find someone who would take that standpoint! also as
humans we set our own standards and alter them after time.
As
for the "used" part it all boils down to the point of
"MAN" being the dominant or superior party in our species,
it is supposed to be our role and to our credit as "alpha
males" and pack leaders to have a great sex life, however
as we set our own standards and times are changing you
can notice that women are almost contributing an equal
role in society so this viewpoint of women being "used"
is lessening as they take their standpoint in society,
also women are a lot more driven and demanding in this
day and it seems they are taking a lot more control now,
it wont be long before we are chasing you to the point
that we feel used!
Debate
is an amazing way to discover the views and perspectives
of others, no one can take their own view as the right
one until they have learnt and heard others, this way
we are inclined to have a greater understanding and a
broader mind on any given subject, I also believe that
it helps you to be a lot more considerate and understanding
of other peoples feelings and views!
Thank
you for your reply!
Ramone
T. Savva
Lisa,
My
name is Kevin. You sent me an email about your Holistic
Wisdom newsletter asking for my opinion. I just wanted
to tell you that I think you are doing a very good thing.
Your newsletter is informative and helpful. It's cool
that you distribute this kind of information for free.
The Internet can be used as a tool to manipulate and rob
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Kevin
Female Ejaculation Color-
Quick
question. When my wife ejaculates, it's not clear, but
a rusty color. Is she ejaculating, or is she peeing? She
says she's ejaculating. She experiences pleasure, but
not sure if she really is. Could you please tell me what
she is experiencing?
THANK
YOU,
D
Lisa's
Reply-
Hi
D,
Thank
you for your inquiry. Female Ejaculate is generally clear.
If it is rusty, she may have blood mixed in (from her
menstrual cycle or a health problem) or it could be urine.
I do not want to alarm you, but because female ejaculation
is typically clear in color, the best thing for her to
do is mention it to her OBGYN, because if it is blood
that is causing the "rust" color coming from
her urethra, there may be a health problem that requires
treatment.
A
quick idea to determine if it is urine (because women
can also urinate during sex, unlike men), have her urinate
before and after sexual activity into a cup and compare
the smell and color. Urine has a distinct smell and it
should be easy to tell.
Again,
I really recommend she check with her doctor to be examined
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safe than sorry. Hope that helps.
Best,
Lisa
Lisa
S. Lawless, Ph.D., CEO
Dear Lisa,
Regarding
Article On Sex Before Marriage-
I
have asked myself and others over the years, what does
it mean to be a "VIRGIN?" If a man or woman has sex with
many partners, but never gives their heart to anyone,
can that person still be considered a virgin? The dictionary
defines "virgin" as being untouched. I think this includes
more than just the physical realm of a person's being.
It also involves the spiritual, mental, and emotional
aspects of a person. I did not have intercourse before
marriage, but had petted and had oral sex and some pretty
terrific makeout sessions while in high school and college.
But as much as my physical body enjoyed the sensations
of the touching (without intercourse), I was unable or
unwilling to let go fully and give my heart and soul to
the sexual moment. And after 25 years of marriage and
giving birth to one child, I still have not given my heart
and soul to my husband. So, am I still a VIRGIN?
Regarding
Article On Women In Porn-
The
first time I ever watched a porn movie, I prayed for the
people in the movie. I felt so sad for them. Of course,
at that time, I was a very religiously intoxicated person
and felt a certain pride and haughtiness about sexual
things. I was "above" that kind of behavior and could
control my base needs. I also was sexually frustrated
and was unable to release myself through masturbation
(which I believed was wrong). I was and still am in a
sexually nonexistent marriage and at one time had asked
my husband to rent a porn movie that we could watch together.
I thought that would help us loosen up, but he was too
ashamed to go into the video store and rent one. Since
then, I have bought many French films and educational
porn films and erotic movies and have watched them by
myself and they are helping me become real. I am grateful
there are people willing to make these kinds of films;
they help so many people learn and enjoy and celebrate
the gift of sexuality.
Sincerely,
Jacine Harpyer (silent "Y")
I read the newsletter and found everything to be in order
in regards to accuracy. I would have written those articles
the same as you. Your opinions are very similar to mine.
As I have said before, this is a good newsletter. I have
even suggested to some of my patients that they should
check you web site out. Bill