The
Holistic Wisdom Journal
June
25, 2004
Articles In This Issue...
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Web
Virus No Longer A Threat
What
You Need To Know
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Yeast
Infections
What
Women & Men Should Know
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Sex
In Water
The
Exaggerated Appeal?
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Movie
Reviews -
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The
Holistic Wisdom Reader's Forum
Comments
From Our Readers
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Sexual Wisdom™ Section
Sex
In The News
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Measuring
Time Left On A Woman's Biological Clock
Backstreet
Boy Focuses on Colon Cancer Education
Barbie
Clothes For Grown Women
Priest
Publishes Book Of His Sex Exploits
Low
DHEA, Not Testosterone May Contribute To Low Libido In
Women
Senate
To Vote On Gay Marriage Ban In Early July
IRS
Says Married Gays May Not File Jointly
Oklahoma
Judge Masturbating With A Penis Pump During Court?
Jack
Ryan Ready To Abandon Senate Bid After Sex Club Allegations
Paris
Hilton's Video "1 Night In Paris" Projected
High Sales Right On The $
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Web
Virus No Longer A Threat
What
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Lisa
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Holistic Wisdom Founder
We care
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is why we will address issues that may affect you as a consumer.
Lisa
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our highly protected server and our web site is completely
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An Internet
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and was aimed at stealing credit card and other valuable information.
It was targeted at PC's who use Internet Explorer, but may affect
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Teeth Guards
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Perineum Love
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Fatigue Warning
Health Concerns
STD Prevention
Hygiene
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Yeast
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What
Women & Men Should Know About Them
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Lisa
S. Lawless, Ph.D., C.E.O.
Holistic Wisdom Founder
Many women
get yeast infections and recently we received a reader who wanted
to know if female
ejaculation is linked to a yeast infection. My response
to this is no, there has been no correlation to yeast infections
when a woman ejaculates. The only thing that I could think that
would in any way contribute is if a woman wore damp panties
soaked in female ejaculate for prolonged periods of time...
but that is more an issue of hygiene as opposed to female ejaculation.
Despite
there not being a correlation, I thought this a good opportunity
to review some basic information on yeast infections so that
our readers may know more about them, their causes and treatment.
What
Is A Vaginal Yeast Infection?
Yeast infections
are a common cause of irritation of the vagina and vulva (area
around the opening to the vagina). About 75 percent of women
have a vaginal yeast infection during their lives. A kind of
fungus called Candida causes vaginal yeast infections. It is
normal to have some yeast in your vagina. Usually yeast is in
balance with other organisms. But sometimes the balance is lost,
and yeast overgrowth occurs. Hormonal changes can affect the
acidity of the vagina and lead to yeast overgrowth. Another
common cause of yeast infections is taking antibiotics.
Can Men
Get Yeast Infections?
Yes, men
can get yeast infection of the penis. Yeast organisms are a
common cause of infection of the tip of the penis, a condition
called balanitis.
You're
more likely to get balanitis if you:
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Are uncircumcised
~ Have diabetes
Signs
and symptoms of balanitis due to yeast infection include:
Itching
or burning of the tip of the penis or the foreskin
A red rash
on the affected areas If you're uncircumcised, you can help
prevent balanitis by practicing good hygiene.
Each day,
gently pull back (retract) the foreskin on your penis and clean
the skin with soap and water. Then dry the skin carefully. You
may also apply an antifungal cream periodically to prevent recurrence.
Treatment
of balanitis includes:
Cleaning
under the foreskin of the penis Applying antifungal creams at
least twice a day Men with recurrent balanitis who are uncircumcised
or can't retract the foreskin of their penis to clean or treat
the area may consider circumcision.
What
Are The Symptoms Of Vaginal Yeast Infections?
Symptoms
of vaginal yeast infections in women may be mild or painful.
Symptoms may include: Itching, burning, and irritation of the
vagina Itching, redness and irritation of the vulva Painful
urination and/or intercourse Abnormal vaginal discharge, usually
described as looking like cottage cheese. But discharge may
vary in amount and appearance. It typically does not have a
bad odor. Symptoms of yeast infections can be similar to symptoms
of other kinds of vaginal infections.
What
Causes Vaginal Yeast Infections?
Conditions
that may make yeast infections more likely include: Pregnancy
and other causes of hormone changes. Use of oral contraceptives
(birth control pills). Diabetes that isn't well controlled.
High blood sugar can help yeast to multiply. A weakened immune
system. Use of steroid drugs. Use of antibiotics. Antibiotic
drugs kill bacteria in the body including the vagina, allowing
yeast to multiply and cause an infection.
Other
Possible Causes-
Some
women get mild yeast infections towards the end of their menstrual
periods, possibly in response to the body's hormonal changes.
These mild infections sometimes go away without treatment as
the menstrual cycle progresses. Pregnant women are also more
prone to develop yeast infections. Sometimes hot, humid weather
can make it easier for yeast infections to develop. And wearing
layers of clothing in the winter that make you too warm indoors
can also increase the likelihood of infection.
Sexually
Transmitted?
Yeast infections seem to be only rarely passed from one person
to another through sexual contact. A male partner of a woman
with a yeast infection usually will have no symptoms, but some
men may get an itchy rash on the penis.
The biggest
cause of Candida infections is lowered immunity. This can happen
when you get run down from doing too much and not getting enough
rest. Or it can happen as a result of illness. Though not usual,
repeated yeast infections, especially if they don't clear up
with proper treatment, may sometimes be the first sign that
a woman is infected with HIV, the virus that causes AIDS.
The FDA
requires that over-the-counter (OTC) products to treat yeast
infections carry the following warning: "If you experience vaginal
yeast infections frequently (they recur within a two-month period)
or if you have vaginal yeast infections that do not clear up
easily with proper treatment, you should see your doctor promptly
to determine the cause and receive proper medical care." Repeated
yeast infections can also be caused by other, less serious,
illnesses or physical and mental stress.
How
Is A Yeast Infection Diagnosed?
Your health
care provider will examine you and use a swab to take a sample
from the affected area. A lab test of the sample will show if
yeast is the cause of your symptoms. How is a yeast infection
treated? Yeast infections are treated with antifungal drugs,
such as clotrimazole or miconazole. There are creams and tablets
used in the vagina, skin ointments, and pills.
Antifungal
drugs usually work well to treat a vaginal yeast infection.
But infections that do not respond to treatment are becoming
more common. Taking antifungal drugs when they are not needed
can help make yeast resistant to the drugs. For this reason,
you should not use antifungal drugs unless you are sure that
you have a yeast infection.
The Over
The Counter (OTC) products for vaginal yeast infections have
one of four active ingredients: butoconazole nitrate (Femstat
3), clotrimazole (Gyne-Lotrimin and others), miconazole (Monistat
7 and others), and tioconazole (Vagistat). These drugs are in
the same anti-fungal family and work in similar ways to break
down the cell wall of the Candida organism until it dissolves.
They
should not be used by men or for yeast infections in other areas
of the body, such as the mouth or under the fingernails.
If you
are sure that you have a yeast infection, you can buy over-the-counter
products to treat the infection. Be sure to follow the directions
for using the product. If you are not sure whether you have
a yeast infection or another type of infection or problem, you
should see your health care provider. You should also see your
health care provider if you have recurring yeast infections.
Alternative
Treatments To Yeast Infections-
Acupuncture
Yeast-Infection.org
How
Can You Prevent Yeast Infections?
Yeast (candida)
multiplies rapidly in dark and moist environments. As a result,
clothing which allows for good body ventilation is recommended.
All clothing worn next to the skin should be removed and washed
after each wearing. Bathing suits should be changed as soon
as possible after swimming.
The genital
area should be kept clean and showers are preferable over bathing
in bathtubs. Plain unscented soaps should be used for bathing.
Frequent douching is to be avoided.
The amount
of sugar and milk products consumed should be limited, as well
as the amounts of products containing artificial sweeteners.
Most sugar and artificial sweeteners encourage the growth of
yeast cultures.
Antibiotics
should be avoided if yeast infections are a problem. Antibiotics
act to destroy various harmful bacteria but also destroy helpful
bacteria within the vagina and intestinal tract. A doctor should
always be made aware of any problem with yeast infections before
writing a prescription for any antibiotic.
While treatment
for a yeast infection is underway, sexual intercourse should
be avoided. Any other activity which might result in excessive
exertion or sweating should be avoided as well, until the condition
is relieved.
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Sex
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Holistic Wisdom Founder
Water is
a highly sensual playground. From tubs to Jacuzzis, pools and
more there is a great deal of sexual pleasure that can be achieved
in the water. However, sexual intercourse that occurs when your
genitals are under water is an overrated experience, in my opinion.
It is often portrayed as a very sexy fantasy, but the reality
is often awkward.
Water
Strips Away Natural Lubricants-
Because
water washes away a woman's lubrication with any insertion into
and withdrawal from her vagina (fingers, penis, toy, etc.).
The same applies to the anus and rectum.
Problems
With Lubricants-
If you have
sex in a shower and choose to use a lubricant, the water based
versions are going to easily wash away and the oil based ones
can damage condoms and make maneuvering rather slippery. It
can also clog Jacuzzi jets and make for a undesirable mess.
Water
& Condoms-
If a man
maintains his erection the whole time he is wearing a condom,
it's unlikely that water would go inside of it. However, if
he happens to lax for a moment or two (which is quite common
for men), then there is a chance that water could enter it.
Other
Sexual Play?
The downside
to sexual intercourse is clear, but certainly can be of some
fun just to try it. Just don't get it in your mind that it will
be the ultimate sex as it usually turns into an awkward attempt.
That is
not to discourage other forms of sexual play which include rubbing,
kissing, fondling, nipple, clitoral and anus stimulation. Of
course men can enjoy a nice hand job and if you are feeling
adventurous even an interesting blow job (however that has some
technical problems that may occur as well... such as breathing!)
The bottom
line is that water can be a wonderfully sensual playground,
just stay creative and know the realities ahead of time to keep
things sensual not awkward.
Enjoy!
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We
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for the sheer message that it provides. Providing a real
look inside a twisted world, which unfortunately is very
real.
The
true story reviews the lives of four young Irish
women struggle to maintain their spirits while they endure
dehumanizing abuse as inmates of a Magdalene Sisters Asylum.
Thousands of Irish women per year were in
custody in workhouses like the Magdalene convent, until
these
hellholes were finally closed down in 1996!
Yet
no one from the Catholic Church has ever been prosecuted
or held accountable for these atrocities. Events depicted
in The Magdalene Sisters are completely
true. Many of the survivors are still alive to tell their
stories, and have already done so in the riveting documentary
Love in a Cold Climate, and a special report
on CBS’s 60 Minutes, both of which inspired Mr. Mullan
to make this film.
The
film captures Ireland in the sixties where four women
are given into the custody of the Madgalene sisterhood
asylum to correct their more or less "sinful"
behavior: Crispina and Rose have given birth to a child
out of wedlock, Margaret was raped by her cousin and the
orphan Bernadette had been repeatedly caught flirting
with the boys. All have to work in a laundry under the
strict supervision of the nuns, who break their wills
through sadistic punishments. Some of the girls ironically
were sexually abused by the Catholic Priests that governed
the work house. Some of the inmates develop countermeasures,
while others perish under the treatment.
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Director: Nick Cassavetes
New
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Written by Jeremy Leven and Jan Sardi. Based on the novel
by Nicholas Sparks. Running time: 120 minutes. Rated PG-13
(for some sexuality).
This
is wonderful, romantic, bitter sweet movie but not your
typical sappy fluff. Here we have a beautiful story about
love at its most enduring and indomitable, with some truly
wonderful performances.
A
bonus to the film was that the author of the book based
the inspiration in this novel on his wife's grandparents
love for one another, and so it is even more amazing that
this story carries a true story behind it.
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Regarding Breath Control Article
Dear
Lisa,
I
have really enjoyed all your newsletters, I particularly
enjoyed the Erotic Asphyxiation Breath Control Play: A
Dangerous Way To Get Pleasure. Especially having seen
it nearly go so wrong with so many players over the last
17 years.
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Breast
Implant Graduation Gift Article
Hi
Lisa...
Thanks
again for another informative newsletter. I particularly
enjoy articles such as "weird sex laws" and the interesting
sex facts, like those in your 19 June 04 newsletter. I'd
just like to make a few comments about the breast implant
article from the aforementioned newsletter. Have we as
a country become so vain that we need to give our teenage
daughters implants? Are her young, perky 18 year old breasts
not good enough? If not, WHY IS THAT??
Vanity
aside, I believe this to be a bad idea. Not only because
of the surgical risks you had mentioned, but what about
the emotional risks? Although a person is considered an
adult at age 18, there's still a lot of growing up to
do. It's tough enough to be 18 in an 18 yr old body, never
mind being 18 with the body of a 30 year old. Let's arm
our daughters for college with nice new 36C breasts...
somehow, that seems like it takes the focus off developing
the mind, and more focus on the "extracurricular activities"
that college has to offer.
I've
also heard the excuse of, "well, maybe she'll feel better
about herself if her breasts were just a little bigger".
If the suit doesn't make the man, then why to breasts
make the woman? If you have a daughter who doesn't feel
good about herself, there may be a LITTLE more to it then
her bra size. Just a hunch here... What happened to the
days of Mom and Dad just wanting their daughter to meet
a nice man, who loves their daughter for WHO THEY ARE?
Not just a "killer body", but an astute mind and a warm
personality.
Thanks
again for the wonderful articles. Keep them coming! Thanks,
also, for allowing your readers to express their opinions.
Peace
and love,
Shelley
Springfield, Mass.
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Good
Morning, Lisa!
I
found your site some time ago when I was seeking information
on female ejaculation. I am currently studying to become
qualified as a sex counselor and this has been invaluable.
Thanks
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Joke Submitted By One Of Our Readers
Spiked
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walked up to the bench and sat down. He had spiked hair
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The old man just stared and stared. Every time the young
man looked, the old man was staring. Finally the young
man said sarcastically, "What's the matter old timer.
Never done anything wild in your life?" Without batting
an eye, the old man replied, "Got drunk once and had sex
with a parrot. I thought you might be my son!
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Dear Lisa,
To
begin, let me say that I definitely appreciate the information
that your newsletter makes available. There aren't many
other people who dedicate themselves so thoroughly to
educating people not only about sex, but also about the
physical and emotional health issues that go along with
it. Knowledge, not the suppression of it, is the greatest
tool someone can have when it comes to these matters.
To
the point, I'm leaving my boyfriend behind this August
when I go off to college, but I really wanted to get him
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I'm away at school. When I come back for holidays or if
he comes to visit, we'll definitely be having fun! I want
the best for my boy! Keep up the nice work with the web
site; it's one of my favorites!
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