Lisa
S. Lawless, Ph.D., C.E.O.
Holistic Wisdom Founder
Some are
calling it Erotica for Women, and others call it Porn
for Women. Whatever one chooses to call it, pornography
for women has steadily grown on the Internet as well as sex
toys and other sexually focused trends.
Only a few
years ago, women looking for photos of a naked straight man
would have been disappointed. Some women have even said that
they used to end up going to gay sites just to get the visual
stimulation they were seeking.
Now the
adult industry has finally realized that women like sex too,
and is beginning to cater to women's sexual tastes. While women
enjoy sappy, romantic pics, they also enjoy hard-core sex photos.
I personally
think that more porn for women is a good thing as it is generally
more tasteful and not as derogatory as many porn for men has
become. Demeaning statements like "sloppy holes to fuck"
is why a lot of porn gets a bad rap and is considered demeaning
in my opinion.
We might
start to see more realistic, honest, or sensual depictions of
sex in the current climate of conservatism and censorship. Anti-porn
crusaders and extreme feminists insist that ALL porn must be
banned because it is degrading to women. While SOME porn may
fit this bill, it's difficult to argue that women's erotica
does. In fact, it does quite the opposite by empowering women
to explore their sexuality, and creating a more level playing
field.
Full frontal
male nudity on film and television is rare, while female nudity
is commonplace, but thankfully the Internet has made the balance
is slightly more even. In
years past, it was assumed that only men liked porn and masturbation,
it was something that women "just didn't do." Kinsey's report
in the 50's seemed to confirm this, despite the fact that the
women in the sample had never been exposed to porn, nor had
been brought up to believe they could like it.
Fifty years
later, these misconceptions are slowly being broken down. Women
DO like porn. The difference is that when marketing to women
many companies respect that they should provide mental and emotional
stimulation along with the sex. Personally, I think that this
is discrimination toward men because I feel that men need mental
and emotional stimulation too, but perhaps porn for women will
be a step further into some companies understanding that.
As more
and more women use the Internet, the adult industry for women
will continue to grow and thrive and hopefully society will
start to see more orgasmic, and happier women in the future
as a result! There is still a long way to go when it comes to
addressing women's sexuality, but I am confident that we shall
overcome the obstacles that lay ahead.
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Need You! Supporting
Our Purpose & A Question For You
Lisa
S. Lawless, Ph.D., C.E.O.
Holistic Wisdom Founder
We
are a growing company on the web, and are trying to reach as
many people as possible to provide empowering sexual health
information. Unlike many sites that require memberships, or
paid newsletters, we provide all of our information for free
because we really care about helping people through sexual health
empowerment.
Often
people will tell us that they love what we do, and that makes
us feel great! We also get asked how can they help us continue
what we are doing, and after thinking about it, there are some
things you can do to support us.
Link
To Us-
One
of the most powerful measures of a good web site in terms of
search engines is how many web sites are linking to it. If you
have a web site, or even are visiting a online bulletin board
or blog, take a minute to share a link to our web site. Whether
you link to a certain page in our web site, such as an article
you want to share with others, or even just our home page, every
link to us helps us come up in our rankings on the search engines
and in turn allows more people to see our web site.
Some
of our most satisfied web site visitors heard about us on chat
rooms, bulletin boards, and one page web sites... so linking
to us really helps!
For
those of you who are not very computer savvy, our home page
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You
can copy our link by highlighting any of our web pages URL and
hitting the Crtl and "c" button at the
same time. This copies the text. Then to paste it hit the Crtl
and "v" button at the same time and voila...
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For
those with web sites, should you desire banners, pictures or
other text to promote our site, feel free to contact us at any
time and we will be more than happy to provide it.
Event
Marketing-
We
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to promote us. If you have a business, trade show booth or even
a home party and you would like display materials for your business
to market our products, let us know.
Word
of Mouth-
Of
course the best way to help get the word out is to tell people
about our site. If you would like free business cards to hand
out to people, simply let us know how many you would like and
we will of course send them to you for free. Just make sure
you use them only for adults and appropriate situations.
Also,
if you think of appropriate places such as a local adult store
to hang a flyer we can provide those as well! In addition, if
you know of an adult store, a person that does home parties
or other adult gathering, retreat, or situation that does not
have our video The Art of Female Ejaculation or other products,
let us know and we will contact them to see if they would like
to carry it.
Your
Feedback -
We
are always looking for comments and suggestions for our company.
One of the best types of suggestions we get are for toys and
videos that our customers want to see us offer. We have access
to many companies and can provide most anything you desire.
If you think our customers would enjoy a particular product
let us know so that we can explore carrying it or at least let
people know about it. We really want to help you fulfill your
desires.
A
Question For You-
Speaking
of which, we are currently at a crossroads. We are trying to
determine whether we should allow for any more adult entertainment
videos (porn) on our site. We certainly can carry most any selection,
but we have hesitated to do so because we felt that we should
focus primarily on sexual education. Yet, it has occurred to
us that perhaps our customers would like to be able to purchase
pornographic videos through our company and we would appreciate
your feedback to help us know what we should focus on to make
you happy.
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importantly, make sure to visit our web site for updated articles,
products and features as we are always offering fresh content
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Men's
Fear Of Sex Toys Will
She Like It Better Than Me?
Lisa
S. Lawless, Ph.D., C.E.O.
Holistic Wisdom Founder
Lisa
S. Lawless, Ph.D., CEO
Member
of American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors,
and Therapists
( AASECT )
If
you have been contemplating getting a dildo for your female
lover, but you are hesitant that she will like it more than
you... then you can rest assured that you are among many men
who worry about the same thing!
As
a woman whom has many Dildos and has interviewed many women
who have them, let me assure you that there is little to worry
about. While some dildos allow women to experience a bit larger
girth or length, they are never able to replace the sheer excitement
of having a penis inside you.
Shoe
On The Other Foot-
We
sell male masturbation sleeves called Fleshlights
and I can tell you that even though they are very real feeling
to the touch, the warmth,
scent, and experience of being in a pussy will never come close.
There is something that only another human being can provide
when it comes to sexual excitement from visual stimulation,
pheromones, scent, taste, and skin to skin sensation... a toy
will never fully be able to match the excitement of a real life
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I
know my husband and I spoke many times about this. Believe it
or not we too had our insecurities about using sex toys. We
admitted to one another that we could not compete with them
and that we would not be as "good" as the toy. After
using them, we laughed at how we let ourselves get caught up
in our insecurities as the sex toys, while really fun, could
never compare to one another.
This
fear is normal for men and women, especially because we all
have tender egos that need to feel important to our lover, and
honestly feel that we provide them with the most sexual pleasure
they have ever had.
Penis
Size Issues-
I
have written a great deal about penis
size, and to sum it all up... it is not as big of a
deal as most men make it. We pass babies through our vaginas
so what in the world would make anyone think that our pleasure
was contingent on size? Trust me, while sometimes women enjoy
the extra girth or angle that some dildos provide... we need,
want and desire your penis!
The
bottom line is that toys only enhance variety and pleasure if
you and your lover already have a good sexual connection. Even
if you separate out physical sensation with emotional and mental
sexual turn ons... the physical sensation of another person
and you getting off with each other is hotter than anything
else.
My
vibrator stimulates my clitoris faster than my husband ever
could, but the feeling of his finger rubbing it gets me off
for a few reasons. Not only does his finger rub me the right
way, it is warm and I get off knowing he is touching me. Most
women do!
Women
love to feel desired just as men do. Having an erect penis inside
us lets us know we are desired, and knowing our wet pussy is
getting you off as well far exceeds what any sex toy could ever
do!
Letting
Go Of Fear-
The
best thing you can do in life is face your fears. You can have
a good sex life without the use of sex toys, but you can also
enhance it by using them. Your lover is most likely going to
appreciate your efforts to bring them pleasure whether it is
through your body or a sex toy. Simply being a giving lover
in bed with a willingness to be vulnerable, creative and caring
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We
could not let this holiday pass with out mentioning Oliver
Stone's movie Born on the Forth of July.
Based
on the memoir of combat veteran Ron Kovic, the film stars
Tom Cruise as Kovic, whose gunshot wound in Vietnam left
him paralyzed from the chest down. He is deeply embittered
by neglect in a veteran's hospital and by the shattering
of his patriotic idealism because of the horror and futility
of the Vietnam conflict.
While
painfully and awkwardly adjusting to his disability and
a changing definition of masculinity, Kovic joins the
burgeoning movement of antiwar protest, culminating in
a climactic appearance at the 1976 Democratic national
convention. A powerfully intimate portrait that unfolds
on an epic scale, Born on the Fourth of July is arguably
Stone's best film (if you can forgive its often strident
tone), and Cruise's Oscar-nominated role is uncompromising
in its depiction of one man's personal anguish and political
awakening.
Drew
Barrymore's character Lucy loses her short-term memory
every night when she goes to sleep from a car accident,
and Adam Sandler - who has fallen in love with her - must
win Lucy's heart anew every day. This situation makes
for some funny moments, but it also makes for some sensitive
moments and some very bittersweet ones. How can they live
happily ever after when she has to start over every day?
Romantic comedies usually have happy endings, but how
can the writers end this one? By giving Lucy a miracle
cure? Or do they foresake the expected happy ending? The
result may well surprise you and is why we recommend this
in addition to the truly funny and tenderhearted movie
that it is.
Help
Support Sexual Health Educators Donate
To Our Holistic Wisdom Legal Aid Support Fund
Lisa
S. Lawless, Ph.D., C.E.O.
After
learning of the Joanne
Web case we decided to start a charity department that will
provide adult businesses and individuals like Joanne that need
funds to pay for all of the legal costs that come with such
ridiculous and unconstitutional legal battles.
ALL
proceeds will go to legal assistance to aid individuals that
need it and who are involved in the adult businesses that meet
our standards.
The Holistic Wisdom Legal Aid Charity Donation
Our
New Additions In Adult Movies Better
Sex & Select Entertainment
We
have added many new
choices to our better sex video selection as well as
videos for entertainment purposes only. Enjoy!
"The
video has already pre-sold over 200,000 copies in it's
initial first weeks of orders," said Redlight District
president David Joseph. "We are looking very much forward
to the reorders, now that it's finally hit store shelves.
"We knew this would be big, but we had no idea how big
-- by the end of the 1st week we should be at 300,000."
The
DVD contains four special bonus scenes as well as a bonus
disc.
Was
This Made Against
Paris Hilton's Consent?
For
those of you questioning if Paris Hilton wanted the
video made or even released it seems she did. Court
documents in the case with her boyfriend and his friend
who initially released the tape (Marvad) say that Hilton
could be seen and heard giving instructions while the
tape was being made.
The
filing said, "the video also depicts Ms. Hilton participating
fully in the creation of the video. Ms. Hilton offered
directorial comments and physically controlled and directed
the camera." The filing also said that Paris could even
be seen moving Salomon out of a frame so he would not
block a shot. In
the video Paris is secure, teasing the camera, hamming
it up—a bad little rich girl gone wild.
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