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The Holistic Wisdom Journal  

July 30, 2004
Articles In This Issue...

~ Seven Sexy Sex Tips
   Some Basics

~ Tips For A Strong Marriage
   
What Can Help You Go The Distance

~ Movie Reviews
   
Get Our Inside Scoop


~ The Holistic Wisdom Reader's Forum
   
Comments From Our Readers


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The Sexual Wisdom™ Section    
   
Sex In The News

Kiefer Sutherland Strips

Housework and Sex

Americans Fear AIDS For Kids

Sperm Donor To Pay Child Support

Olympic Athletes Get Free Condoms

MRIs Better For Detecting Breast Cancer

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Seven Sexy Sex Tips
Some Basics

Lisa S. Lawless, Ph.D., C.E.O.
Holistic Wisdom Founder

 

Lisa S. Lawless, Ph.D., CEO

Member of American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors, and Therapists
( AASECT )

 

1. Do It In Different Places In
Different Positions-

Spice up your sex life by doing it in the kitchen or somewhere new. Novelty is an intense aphrodisiac, and any unusual settings with strange sensations, smells and sounds will make sex feel new and up the excitement. The Washing Machine on the rinse cycle is a great place to get started!

 

2) Use Sex Toys During Sex-

Don't forget that doing things like using your vibrator while being penetrated by fingers or a penis is a great way to have one orgasm after another!

Also, use sex toys during oral sex as well.
Nothing like a vibrator on you while you give oral sex, or double their pleasure with an anal toy while you give them oral sex. The possibilities are limitless!

 

3) Make Your Man Get Deeper-

Place your legs over his shoulders when having sex in the missionary position. Doing this shortens your vaginal canal, so he'll get deeper!

 

4) Cool It-

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5) Masturbate In Front Of One Another-

You'll both be turned on and will get to see how your lover enjoys being stimulated!

 

6) Watch Sexy Adult Films

A recent poll undertaken by The Mirror newspaper found that women are just as aroused by watching erotic films as men. So get cozy on the sofa or bed and put on a video. If you want soft porn we recommend starting with a film like 9 1/2 Weeks.

 

7) For The Woman On Top-

Instead of moving up and down, do a figure eight swivel with your hips. It really makes for a fun and arousing new twist. Another great position is to sit on top of him with your feet tucked in tight either side of his bum. Now lean back as though you were riding a bucking bronco and enjoy the extra stimulation on the front wall of your vagina; an incredibly sensitive spot.

 

If you have some great sex tips that you enjoy and would like to share, please contact us so we can share them with our readers... it's always amazing at how creative and pleasureful a new sex tip can be to try!


 

 

 

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Positions
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On Your Knees
On The Side

Visual Importance
Stage Fright
The Exhibitionist

Deep Throat
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Using Teeth
Kisses & Tongue
Do The Twist
Shirley Temple Licks
Head, Shaft & Scrotum
Grabbing His Behind
Making Him Tight
Hand Job Combo
Vacuum
Double Penetration
Teeth Guards
Thigh Highs
Hummers
The Harmonica
The Drum
Hot & Cold
Women's Lubricant
Hands On Your Head
Adore The Cock


Penis Anatomy
Messes
Orgasms
Perineum Love
Anal Love
Nipple Love
Mouth Love
Fatigue Warning
Health Concerns
STD Prevention
Hygiene
Tips For Receiver
Clean Up
Post Etiquette
Toys & Products
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Tips For A Strong Marriage
What Can Help You Go The Distance

Lisa S. Lawless, Ph.D., C.E.O.
Holistic Wisdom Founder

 

Monitor Yourself-

When we are tired, stressed, hurt or angry all of us are capable of saying hurtful things to another person. When we do they are often things we really wish we had not said. Couples who avoid saying every angry thought when discussing sensitive topics are consistently the happiest. Soften your approach and remember that the more careless you are in your comments the more conflict there can be. Critical or contemptuous remarks in a confrontational tone will never get you what you ultimately want.

 

Accept Compromise-

The key is for BOTH partners to offer solutions to meet their spouse's needs. If one partner compromises much more often, you will find trouble down the road. There needs to be a common respect from each partner and a willingness to bend when needed.

 

Have High Standards-

The most successful couples are those who refuse to exhibit or accept hurtful behavior from one another. The lower the level of tolerance for bad behavior in the beginning of a relationship, the happier the couple is down the road.

 

Learn to Successfully Heal & End An Argument-

Successful couples know how to exit an argument and how to repair the situation before an argument gets completely out of control. Successful repair attempts include: changing the topic to something completely unrelated; using humor; stroking your partner with a caring remark ("I understand that this is hard for you"); making it clear you're on common ground ("This is our problem"); backing down (offering signs of appreciation for your partner and his or her feelings along the way ("I really appreciate and want to thank you for...."). If an argument gets too heated, take a 20-minute break, and agree to approach the topic again when you are both calm.

 

Focus On The Positive-

In a happy marriage, couples make at least five times as many positive statements to and about each other and their relationship ("We laugh a lot") as opposed negative ones ("We never have fun"). A good marriage must have a rich climate of positive feelings, statements and beliefs.

 

Seek Help When Needed-

The average couple waits six years before seeking help for marital problems (and keep in mind, half of all marriages that end do so in the first seven years). This means the average couple lives with unhappiness for far too long.

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Movie Reviews
Holistic Wisdom's Inside Scoop

Open Water Pics
Select Theaters Aug 6th
Everywhere Aug. 20th

Our Rating
Out Of Four Stars-


Drama

Open Water

Based On A True Story-

Open Water might be best described as Blair Witch Project meets Jaws, only instead of our central characters being lost in the woods, they're alone in the ocean and instead of the terrorizing force being a supernatural presence, it's a school of hungry sharks.

Based on a true story, the premise of Open Water is quite simple, yet horrifying with a shocking ending. Director Chris Kentis shows the married couple setting off on a Scuba Diving trip with nine other couples. Once at the diving spot, the adventurous actors beautifully played by Susan (Blanchard Ryan) and Daniel (Daniel Travis) are having the time of their lives as they discover breathtaking underwater vistas. Overwhelmed by all there is to see, they lose track of time and are slightly late getting back to the rendevous point. As they swim to the surface, they are horrified to discover that the boat is gone. Open Water spends most of it's running time depicting a terrifying twenty-four hour period of self preservation under the most intense circumstances.

The True Story-

The movie is based on the following true story-


© Lions Gate Films

It has been six and a half years (January 25th, 1998 ) since the two American tourists (From Baton Rouge, Louisiana) disappeared diving on the Great Barrier Reef, Australia. If one thing has become clear in this bizarre case it is that Tom and Eileen Lonergans' story will never fade and haunts many to this day.

Tom (33) and Eileen (29) Lonergan had just finished three years in the Peace Corps in the South Pacific and were on their way to Hawaii to re-enter college to obtain masters degrees. Diving some 40 miles offshore, the Lonergans were experienced divers enjoying a three-week vacation in Austraila before heading off to school. They had met and married at Louisiana State University, where Eileen had taken up scuba diving and persuaded Tom to join in her hobby. For two years they had taught for the Peace Corps in the Pacific island country of Tuvalu, before spending a further year in Fiji.

During a diving expedition near St. Crispin reef off Port Douglas, Tom and Eileen had been the last divers out of the water on the other dives that day, so it was not hard to assume they may have been a little tardy on the final dive.

The Lonergans advised a diving instructor employed on the Outer Edge, Ms. Katherine Traverso, that they would "go off and do their own thing" (quote from Mr. Richard Triggs of Cairns, a diver on the trip. This action by the Lonergans is nothing unusual as most experienced divers would know, but of which some media made adverse comments soon after the incident.

When they did surface after less than an hour underwater, they either saw the boat (Outer Edge) leaving or saw nothing but open seas.

Outer Edge Dive Co. did not report the couple missing until two days after they were left at sea. When the boat had docked, the crew apparently noticed that there was at least one bag left behind by the passengers but they do not appear to have investigated this further and simply moved the bag to another location on the boat. In fact, there were two bags. One was a plastic bag containing the Lonergans' dry clothes and Mr Lonergans' glasses. In addition, there was a nearly empty dive bag and the boat was missing two tanks and two weight belts!

It was two days later, when Jack Nairn (Skipper of the boat) claimed to have found a bag containing the Lonergans' wallet and passports on the boat, that the alarm was raised. He called the Police, 51 hours after the Lonergans disappeared. On January 28, 1998 a search by 17 aircraft, helicopters and boats, Police, Navy and civilian divers began.

A massive search ensued. Documentation of their fist night was evidenced by what fishermen 100 miles north of the site found: a dive slate which records their thoughts as dawn broke that morning. In a wobbly scrawl faded by months in the water, Tom Lonergans had written: "Monday Jan 26; 1998 08am. To anyone who can help us: We have been abandoned on Agin court Reef by MV Outer Edge 25 Jan 98 3pm. Please help us come to rescue us before we die. Help!!!"

Being experienced divers, the normal procedure would be to inflate the BCD (Buoyancy Control Device for diving) and dump the weight belts.

The day after the incident the Outer Edge brought another tour party to the area, and one diver found six dive weights resting on the bottom. Oblivious to what had happened the previous day, a crew member described the find as a bonus.

When the boat failed to return, the next course of action would be to discard the tanks. Exposure to the water and the heat from the sun rapidly accelerates dehydration.

One of the few criticisms of the movie was that it was hard to believe that the boat just left the couple, however it is true and this is what the official investigation of this incident discovered-

~ No proper head count was performed before the dive vessel left.
~ The Lonergans were not checked back on board by the crew.
~ The Lonergans' dive details were not recorded in the divemaster's log book
    at the end of the dive.
~ No dedicated lookout was on duty at the time of the relevant dive.
~ The boat left at a time when it was reasonable to assume that divers could
    still be under the water.

Former Skipper, Jack Nairn still lives in the area despite losing his business as a result of the publicity and debts surrounding his trial. He initially refused to talk about the case, and would only discuss how the fallout from the case had affected him. "The reality of it is that the thing creates emotional turmoil for all of the people involved," he said.

We will avoid providing more details on the true story at this point so as not to ruin the movie for those who wish to see it.

But What Is Amazing Is That It Happened Again-

After the Lonergans went missing in Queensland in 1998, you'd think it could never happen again. But it seems it has. An 80-year-old American woman went missing after an excursion to the Barrier Reef in 2000. Police in Port Douglas in far north Queensland once again had to search the coastline.

Primal Scream-

The Discovery Channel recently showed a veteran underwater photographer Valerie De La Valdene in the Galapagos Islands as she re-lived her most harrowing adventure in 17 years of diving. She came up to find herself alone in the ocean after having been pulled by underwater currents far from her fellow divers and the diving boat.

What was terrifying was that she had her underwater video camera with her which shows the entire situation as it unfolds. You can see the first shark approach her as her video camera is innocently capturing the scene under the water as she is above it unaware and discovering to her horror that she is drifting out to sea with nothing in sight. You can hear the camera capturing her "primal screams" as she begins to call out for help and as she pushes the first of many sharks away from her with her fins.

Shown during their "shark week" the show Primal Scream shows the mass number of sharks circling her shortly after she surfaces and she finds she is alone in the water, with no land in site, no boat and absolute primal fear setting in.

This video is available on the Discovery Channel via DVD and VHS.

Official "Open Water" Website

 

Our Rating
Out Of Four Stars-


Sci-fi Thriller

Butterfly Effect

Evan Treborn (Ashton Kutcher) as a kid, often blacked out for long periods of time and tried to detail his life in a journal. As a a college-age psychology student, he revisits the journal entries and discovers he can revisit his past and alter traumatic events, hoping to improve their previously unfortunate outcomes.

However, he finds out that relatively minor changes can make major problems for the future. The Butterfly Effect also stars Amy Smart as Kayleigh, Elden Henson as Lenny, William Lee Scott as Tommy as well as Eric Stoltz, Ethan Suplee, and Melora Walters.

The title of this film was inspired by the story A Sound of Thunder by Ray Bradbury. Final Destination 2 screenwriters Eric Bress and J. Mackye Gruber make their directorial debut with this sci-fi thriller.

 


 

 

 

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Holistic Wisdom
Readers Forum

This section allows our readers to provide feedback regarding articles and topics on our web site. All correspondence from our readers is with their permission. Opinions expressed through our forum are not necessarily our own, but we believe in the freedom of speech and allow for those who wish to be heard an opportunity to express themselves.

To submit your opinions such as the one's shown below eMail us for consideration of publishing it in our next newsletter.

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Dear Lisa,

Your site is fabulous, I am glad I found it and look forward to your articles. It is very informative and I always learn something new even at my age. Thank you very much & good luck.

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Lisa,

I have been having ejaculatory orgasms since my 20s. I am now 48 years old. I have been married to my husband for 11 years and we have a very active sex life. I have had only a couple of ejaculations with him. I will usually have clitoral orgasms.

I ordered your female ejaculation video and left it out for him which I knew out of curiosity he would watch. We talked about me having orgasms like that and he said he enjoyed watching me come like that since now he visually had proof I was having an awesome orgasm (instead of him thinking I was urinating).

Thanks for making educational videos that open up discussions about completely natural responses in women's bodies. It doesn't have to be an embarrassing thing. Thanks again.

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HI LISA,

I AM WRITING TO YOU BECAUSE I KNOW THAT YOU DO TRY LOTS OF ARTICLES IN YOUR NEWSLETTER. THE THING, I WAS WONDERING IF MAYBE YOU COULD ADD SOME KIND OF ARTICLE TO HELP US WOMEN THROUGH EMOTIONAL ORDEALS. YOU SEE I JUST LOST MY BABY BECAUSE OF AN ECTOPIC PREGNANCY A MONTH AGO. THINGS WITH MY BOYFRIEND WERE GREAT BUT THEN HE GOT FIRED AND ECONOMICALLY ITS BEEN HELL ALSO BECAUSE OF THE HOSPITAL BILLS. SO YOU SEE I AM IN MOURNING FOR MY BABY AND MY BOYFRIEND JUST BROKE UP WITH ME ON TUESDAY UNTIL HE GETS BACK ON HIS FEET. SORRY TO BOTHER YOU BUT I THOUGHT THAT MAYBE AND ARTICLE ON HOW TO COPE WITH THESE KINDS OF THINGS WILL ACTUALLY HELP US FEEL BETTER ABOUT OURSELVES EVEN BOOST OUR SELF ESTEEM AND EVENTUALLY OUR SEXUAL LIVES CONSEQUENTLY.

THANK YOU FOR YOUR TIME.

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Dear Lucines,

Thank you for your candid eMail. There are unfortunately many women whom have experienced this trauma and we will do articles in the future about such issues. I thought it would be nice if any of our readers wanted to their stories about this as a way of letting others like you know that they are not alone and that is why I will be posting it in our newsletter. Hopefully this will allow for others to know that it happens to many women and that they can talk about it as a way to cope with such a tragic event.

All my best to you!

Lisa

 


Hello Lisa-

I write this simply to thank you for making me feel more normal. I have had these episodes since my 20's. I was not fully understanding them and thinking there was something wrong.

Your newsletter is quite informative. I am glad to know that I am NOPh.D.AL...

Oh, it has been a long journey with the embarrassment and horrible feelings.. Yes, indeed.. I am a squirter!! Looking forward to your monthly letters..

Thank you,
Leona

 


Hello Lisa,