Spanish Sex Play Investigated

New Dress Code Draws Barmaid Protest

Judge Accused Of Masturbating Resigns

Bullets Not Boobs

Stripping Banned In Limousines

On-Duty Policemen Take Part In Porn

Lesbians Immune From Child Support?

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General Comments~

Greetings Lisa,

I am addressing this to you since you are the author of most of the information that I have referenced. A little background about what led me to your website.

I am a 64 years young male that has always had a healthy, active sex life. For me making sure my partner is as satisfied as I know how has been of paramount importance in my own satisfaction. As you may surmise by my age I've had to overcome much false or repressed information about what activity is considered normal and healthy over the years.

Suffice it to say that I have had reservations about using sexual aids or toys as part of our sexual activity until somewhat recently. After several unsuccessful long term relationships and/or marriages and many shorter ones, eight years ago I met and married the love of my life(she is also 64). From the very beginning I knew I had a very "special" lady in my life. Believe it or not, she was the first woman that I was ever aware of that ejaculated to a noticeable degree. I have been so stimulated and turned-on by this, but I still have considered it a phenomenon.

A few weeks ago I decided to pursue information to educate myself about this subject (the Internet is truly our friend). Your Holistic Wisdom website was one of several sites that I visited and I obtained helpful information from several of them, but Holistic Wisdom was, for me, the most helpful.

I am impressed by the professional, well written information, and the general high class format. Now, the first thing I learned was that I had a very erroneous concept of what and where the "G" spot actually is. After educating myself, I discussed this with my wife and she was as excited as I am about putting to task our newfound education (she also was not informed properly as to the G spot).

All I can say is WOW!!! Our experience has been taken to a whole new level that we could have never imagined. She always had very powerful climaxes but nothing in comparison to now. I am glad that I took the information about protecting the bed to heart because we experienced the most powerful climax, accompanied by a very profuse ejaculation of fluid. We are both very comfortable with this, and excited about our new (to us) discoveries. So, thank you for being part of educating us to a very rewarding sex-life. And keep the newsletters coming.

Thank you

To whom it may concern,

I am 22 years old and I visited your site, I found it quite interesting. I would like to ask you a personal question about female ejaculation. I tried it with my boyfriend for the first time and I think I finally succeeded in doing it and I'm glad about it. The clear liquid could not stop coming out. On the sheet it was a clear liquid and there was quite a big round wet area on the sheet. What I would like to know is whether this fluid, since it comes out from the urethra, if it smells like urine the same, because in the morning when I took off the sheets to wash them, the sheet was still wet but clear transparent liquid not yellowish like urine, though it was smelling like urine, and a bit stinking in the morning, so that's why I had this doubt whether I imagined it was the fluid and maybe it was urine. What maybe covers my belief is that my boyfriend told me I was spraying the liquid out and it was a clear thin liquid. So what do u think it might be ? I'm curios to know.

Regards,
Elizabeth

Lisa's Reply-

Hi Elizabeth,

One of the things that can often confuse women about female ejaculation is that they can also urinate during sex and so the question is posed is it urine or is it female ejaculation that is coming out?

The answer is typically that if it is urine it will most likely have a slight yellowish tint to it and will smell like urine. If it is ejaculate then it will look as clear as water and will smell slightly sweet, or like nothing at all.

The thing to note is that because it is possible (although challenging) for women to urinate while sexually aroused, it can be pushed out at the same time the ejaculate is, thus mixing in with it. You can also just urinate during sex without ejaculating and vice versa. They are both coming out of the urethra (pee tube) however the ejaculate is coming out of the Skenes glands and the urine is coming from the bladder.

That is why I highly recommend urinating before sexual play to eliminate the chances of urinating during sex. I also go into more detail about this in my book and video The Art of Female Ejaculation in regard to techniques and sensation.

I hope this reply assists you, and finds you well.

Best, Lisa

Hi Lisa -

I love your newsletter, and I've received the Art of Female Ejaculation video in the mail - THANK YOU VERY MUCH!!!

I do have a question about accommodating penis size. I've met this wonderful man, and we've been talking for a few months now, we've really gotten to know one another in that time (almost a year) , and we're in the talks of getting together (we haven't officially met yet - we met online, and he lives overseas), We've made love many times web cam and on the phone - that alone is just mind blowing.

My main concern is accommodating him - You see, my sweetie is quite shall we say- ample - in length as well as girth, and I haven't had a great deal of experience in this area, and am afraid that I won't be able to take him all in. Are there any stretches I can do to lengthen my canal? I really care for this man, and I want to be able to satisfy him (we've been doing pretty good on the cam) when we finally get together. So far, your tips have been indispensable, so I'm confident, you can do me a solid on this one.

Thanks so much

Lisa's Reply-

Hi,

I can relate as my hubby is also well endowed. Contrary to popular belief, that "bigger is better," oral sex, anal sex, or vaginal intercourse with a well-endowed man can be challenging. For some, the "gag reflex" makes it difficult to have the entire shaft of the penis in one's mouth. For others, penetration causes pain. Here are some ideas that may help-

1) Mentally prepare.
One of the keys in having sex with a man who has a large penis is mental readiness. If you are tightening in fear or anticipation of being hurt, no object will be able to slide in easily. Instead, try to envision the two of you fitting together; that will bring added closeness to your relationship, along with pleasurable sensations for you both.

Breathing can also help, especially if you try to breathe together - in and out to match his thrusting. Breathe gently at first and then try to keep your breathing pattern slow and deep to help his penetration.

2) Physically prepare.
Use sex toys before hand that will help you to adjust to his girth and length. Allow your vaginal walls to stretch as you use a dildo or g-spot toy and perhaps get a medium size and a large size so that you can graduate to a larger size when you are ready. One of our dildos called Doc Johnson's Ultra Skin Dildo is a large dildo and would certainly get you prepared.

3) Take it slow.
Have him lavish attention on all your hot spots, with plenty of genital touching and tongue teasing. And, make sure you apply lots of water-based lube to your vagina or his shaft right before he enters you.

4) Stick with positions that keep his thrusts shallow.
The woman-on-top pose is a good one to try because it lets you control the depth of penetration. Have him lie flat on his back and hover over him on your hands and knees while sliding him inside you. Move your hips in circular motions as you glide up and down, only going as deep as you can handle. Or, have him sit on a chair with no arms. Then simply straddle his lap, either facing toward him or away from him, and use your feet and thigh muscles to pump away.

You can also try the missionary, but remember that the more your pelvis is tilted, the deeper the penetration, so none of that feet-over-his-shoulders, pillows under your butt stuff. Also, the further apart your legs are, the further he can thrust, so keep your thighs together. Not only will it prevent him from plunging in too far, it can also make for some out-of-this-world clitoral/penile friction. And don't forget, lubrication can come and go. So, be sure to keep adding the slick stuff as needed.

Things To Keep In Mind-

1. Don't do anything you feel uncomfortable with.
Having sex with someone should be a mutually enjoyable experience. Prior to engaging in sex, set up some boundaries so that he knows what to expect and not to expect. This will help to reduce anxiety and enhance the experience.

2. Anal or vaginal sex should be taken slowly.
Wanting to please your mate is certainly understandable, however trying to do too much too quickly can result in injury. He ready to pull out as soon as you say "STOP".

3. Consider other means of pleasure.
If you feel that your man is "too big" then don't try and force it right away. Try to discover mutually accepted forms of stimulation, such as masturbation, sex toys, etc. The point here is to not let yourself get boxed into situations that make you experience physical pain or anxiety.

Dear Lisa,
I look forward to each article that you publish. I think you do a great job getting the message out and I admire your causes. Thank you for your presence.

Sincerely,
MP

Spanish Sex Play Investigated
German police are investigating a Spanish theater troupe under obscenity laws after displays of graphic sex and bestiality in a controversial play called "XXX." An outraged woman in the audience alerted police after witnessing scenes of urination, simulated rape and oral sex, as well as a video showing scenes of bestiality at the play's opening night in the northern city of Hamburg.

"We respect the right to freedom of artistic expression. But where the law may have been broken we have to investigate," Hamburg police spokesman Ralf Kunz said. "We will decide whether the play should be banned."

The piece by Catalan group "La Fura dels Baus" is billed as a modern theatrical response to the porn industry, and based on a 1795 text by infamous French playwright the Marquis de Sade. The show's producers have said the piece is designed to expose society's hypocritical attitudes to sex.

New Dress Code Draws Barmaid Protest
Over 10,000 barmaids crowded into a huge park in India's financial capital, Bombay to protest new government rules that impose dress rules and a code of conduct in night clubs.

Hundreds of women, many with their faces veiled, poured out of buses and trucks and waded through slush and rainwater to make their way to the park in the heart of the city. "Down with rules, down with rules, let us also live," the protesters shouted, as bar owners slammed the government for what they called its "stepmotherly treatment" of their industry.

Bombay has about 50,000 bar girls, as they are known locally, who dance in beer bars, entertaining clients by serving liquor and dancing to the latest Bollywood film tunes. The women said they were protesting rules that forbid them to reveal bare skin and call for a 3-foot-high wall around dance floors to keep customers from getting too close and showering them with money. The women, who have been the subject of an award-winning Bollywood film, fear the rules could transform the entire beer bar culture, leaving many of them jobless. "At this rate, we will run out of business. Nobody will come to our bars," said Manjit Singh Sethi, president of the Fight for Rights of Bar Owners Association.

Over the past few years, authorities have cracked down on bars in response to complaints of indecent or obscene behavior. A wave of police raids this year forced some bars to close down. "We are being harassed always," said one barmaid, 23-year-old Pooja Patil. "Are we criminals? Why do they raid our bars and then take us into custody? We are decent girls. We support our families and work hard for our living."

Judge Accused Of Masturbating Resigns
An Oklahoma judge facing removal over charges that he masturbated and used a device for enhancing erections under his robes during trials said he would retire from the bench. Creek County District Judge Donald Thompson, wrote to Oklahoma Gov. resigning effective Sept. 1, a move that will allow him to retire with a full pension.

A former state representative and a judge for 22 years, Thompson was accused by state Attorney General Drew Edmondson of using a "penis pump" to enhance erections during trials and exposing himself to a court reporter several times while masturbating on the bench.

The judge has denied the charges and did not refer to them in his letter of resignation. "I have greatly enjoyed my public service and offer my gratitude for the public trust reposed in me during the terms I served," he said.

Bullets Not Boobs
A group supporting natural breasts staged a small street protest in Hollywood on against a U.S. Military policy offering free breast implants to female soldiers. The group, led by porn star and former California gubernatorial candidate Mary Carey, said the military should spend its money on "bullets, not boobs."

"We support our military 100 percent. Part of the reason we're protesting is that we think these tax dollars would be much better spent on essentials (for soldiers)," Kulkis said. "I'm personally opposed to boob jobs, but more so when they use our tax dollars for them," he said. "It's an issue near and dear to my heart."

Stripping Banned In Limousines
British Councilors from Welsh county of Gwynedd said many limousine for hire companies were providing erotic dancers as entertainment for clients, and agreed in-car striptease was "inappropriate."

Their report recommended changes to the licensing of limousines, including a blanket ban on striptease, lap dancing, pole dancing and "any other activity or performance of a like kind."

On-Duty Policemen Take Part In Porn
Two British policemen have been suspended from duty after a newspaper reported they had been filmed enjoying the attentions of porn stars while they were supposed to be on patrol.

The two policemen, aged 30 and 34, had been called to calm down a crowd who spotted a pornographic movie being filmed in a street in London's Soho district. But the officers talked their way into the film crew's van and allowed the two female stars to perform a sex act on them, while the crew secretly rolled the cameras.

"I was just expecting them to want their photo taken with the girls or get an autograph," the film's director, Marino Franchi, said. "It was unbelievable. They just decided to have their very own private porn movie while on the job."

Scotland Yard said two male officers from the Central London Territorial Support Group had been suspended from duty and that a disciplinary investigation had been launched into their conduct while on duty in Soho on July 26. "The Metropolitan police service demands the highest standards from all its staff, and patrolling forms a vital part in keeping London's streets safe," a Scotland Yard spokesman said. "We are disappointed by conduct which, if substantiated, brings the service into disrepute."

Lesbians Immune From Child Support?
Boston's highest court ruled a woman who agreed to have a child with her lesbian partner, but split up with the mother before the baby's birth, cannot be forced to pay child support. The case surrounded a Hampshire County lesbian couple, identified in court documents as ``T.F.'' and ``B.L.,'' who lived together from 1996 to 2000.

B.L. At first resisted T.F.'s wishes to have a child, but later changed her mind. The couple broke up after T.F. Got pregnant by artificial insemination. After the baby was born, T.F. Sued her former partner for child support.

Associate Justice Judith A. Cowin wrote that the informal agreement between the two women to have a child together did not constitute an enforceable contract, and B.L. Can't be forced to pay child support.

Three justices - including Chief Justice Margaret Marshall, who wrote the ruling legalizing same-sex marriage in Massachusetts - disagreed with the majority conclusion, saying that the implied contract between the woman is enforceable. ``The child may have been abandoned by the defendant, but he should not be abandoned by the court,'' Justice John M. Greaney wrote in the dissent.