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The Holistic Wisdom Journal  

August 6, 2004
Articles In This Issue...

~ Fun Sex Positions For An Adventure
   Kama Sutra & Tantric Inspired Positions

~ Masturbation- Tips For Women
   
What All Women Should Do & How

~ Movie Reviews
   
Get Our Inside Scoop


~ The Holistic Wisdom Reader's Forum
   
Comments From Our Readers


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The Sexual Wisdom™ Section    
   
Sex In The News

Amy Fisher Publishing Autobiography

Home Depot Girls Pose In Playboy

Teens Teaching Sex Ed

Priest & Nun Convicted After 'Sex Act' in Car

California Woman Wins One Million Dollars In Fertility Mix-Up

Study Links Cholesterol To Breast Cancer

Free Home STD Test Kits Studied

Sex Shop Claims Job Applicant Stole Toy

Surgeon Goes Insane And Cut Off Patient's Penis

 

 

 

Fun Sex Positions For An Adventure
Kama Sutra & Tantric Inspired Positions For A New Twist

Lisa S. Lawless, Ph.D., C.E.O.
Holistic Wisdom Founder

Side Stride:
For A Man & Woman, Woman & Woman, Man & Man

Have one partner lie on their side, keeping their bottom leg straight and top leg bent at the knee. Have kneeling partner position themselves between your legs, and lift your top leg while resting it on their chest or hooks your ankle over their shoulder.

For Man & Woman couples this can be done vaginally and anally. For Man & Man couples this can be done anally, and for Woman & Woman couples this can be done vaginally or anally with a strap on, finger or fist.

The wide-open view of the genitals allows for a great sexually arousing view as well as a wonderfully exposed feel for the partner laying down. It's also easy for either partner to stimulate themselves with their own hand, your hand or a vibrator.

 

Love Me, Squeeze Me:
For A Man & Woman, Woman & Woman, Man & Man

Have one partner lie back with one leg outstretched and the other bent, so their knee is pointing upward. Facing sideways, lower yourself onto their penis, hand or dildo and hold on to their bent knee for leverage. As you rock back and forth, lean far enough forward so your genitals rub against their inner thigh.

For the lover on top-

With their leg right there to balance you, you're free to really let go and grind in wild motions. You can also reach down and play with your lover's genitals with your hand or a sex toy.

For the lover on bottom-

A great way to double stimulate your partner when using a pillow under your head to prop you up. Also you can mutually masturbate from this position.

For Man & Woman couples this can be done vaginally and anally. For Man & Man couples this can be done anally, and for Woman & Woman couples this can be done vaginally or anally with a strap on, finger or fist.

 

The Diamond:
For A Man & Woman, Woman & Woman

Erotic instructions: The man lies on his back with a pillow propped under his head. Facing him, the woman lowers herself onto his penis and puts her hands and knees on either side of his torso. Once he's deep inside, gently move in the diagonal shape of a diamond: to the left, then down, right, and up.

The man's penis glides against every part of the vaginal walls including the G-spot. These motions won't wear you out the way fast, up-and-down thrusts do, and the two of you can enjoy a longer sex session of intense face-to-face intimacy.

For Woman & Woman couple this can be done vaginally or anally with a strap on.

 

Over Easy:
For A Man & Woman, Woman & Woman, Man & Man

Lie on your stomach, legs straight and spread slightly. Your partner lies over you, positioning his legs on either side of yours. As they enter you, close your legs and cross them at the ankles. With your legs clenched and ankles crossed, you can feel the entire length of your partner's penis or dildo and grip it tight. Your partner can also reach under you and play with your nipples or brush their lips against your ears, cheek and neck. Though this move offers high sensation, there isn't a lot of motion, so it's a good position for ejaculation control or for couples who want to savor the feel of each other's bodies.

For Man & Woman couples this can be done vaginally and anally. For Man & Man couples this can be done anally, and for Woman & Woman couples this can be done vaginally or anally with a strap on, finger or fist.

 

Yeehaa:
For A Man & Woman, Woman & Woman

As your partner lies on their back, face them and lower yourself onto their penis (or hand, finger, dildo) in a kneeling position. Keeping your knees on the bed, hook your feet over the inside of their legs at their knees. Grab the bed sheets on either side of their head, squeeze your butt, tilt your pelvis upward and move in small, tight motions. Yeehaa!

By gripping the bed sheets and using their legs as stirrups, this configuration offers lots of leverage, so you maintain a steady rhythm without losing momentum before reaching orgasm. Since your body is higher than it is in typical missionary, your clitoris can rub against their pubic bone.

For Man & Woman couples this can be done vaginally and anally. For Woman & Woman couples this can be done vaginally or anally with a strap on, finger or fist.

 

Bend Over Rover:
For A Man & Woman, Woman & Woman, Man & Man

Bend forward with your legs slightly spread and your arms either hanging loose in front of you or resting on a low chair for balance. Let your partner enter you from behind, pulling themselves as close to you as possible while holding your torso for support.

This spin on doggy-style is perfect for I-need-you-now quickies. Being bent over gives the standing partner maximum depth and control and the angle allows access to your G-spot/Prostate.

Bonus- Have the standing partner stand still while you grind your behind in circles.

For Man & Woman couples this can be done vaginally and anally. For Man & Man couples this can be done anally, and for Woman & Woman couples this can be done vaginally or anally with a strap on, finger or fist.

 

 

Over The Shoulder Smolder:
For A Man & Woman, Woman & Woman, Man & Man

Lie on your back with a pillow under your head and your legs in the air as straight and high as possible. While kneeling, your partner pushes your legs slightly to one side, not allowing them to flop all the way over, then enters you while keeping their hands on the bed or floor on either side of you for support.

Having your legs up high and together creates a tight fit, which means intense sensations for both partners. By bending your knees a bit, clamping your PC muscles (or Sphincter muscles for anal sex), or opening your legs slightly, you'll experience a whole different grip and feel. Also, with your hands free, you can stroke your own genitals button while your partner pumps away or just lie back and luxuriate in how good your body feels.

For Man & Woman couples this can be done vaginally and anally. For Man & Man couples this can be done anally, and for Woman & Woman couples this can be done vaginally or anally with a strap on, finger or fist.

 

Shower Power :
For A Man & Woman, Woman & Woman, Man & Man

Facing the faucet, kneel in a tub that's half-filled with warm water. Lean forward and hold the walls or sides of the tub for balance; your partner can climb in and penetrate you from behind. As you grind, use your hand to guide the water stream from the faucet between your legs or use a detachable shower head

This sex style is great for those (especially women) who don't always orgasm easily: Your partner has prime G-spot access, while the super sensual water spray electrifies your clitoris. And with your bodies meshed tightly in the tub, your partner can play with your nipples and stroke you all over.

For Man & Woman couples this can be done vaginally and anally. For Man & Man couples this can be done anally, and for Woman & Woman couples this can be done vaginally or anally with a strap on, finger or fist.

 

End Of The Line:
For A Man & Woman, Woman & Woman, Man & Man

Bend over the side of the bed so your stomach and breasts are pressed against the mattress and your feet are on the floor, legs spread comfortably. As your partner penetrates you from behind, they lift your legs from just above the knees, hold them apart and thrust.

With your body angled slightly downward and your legs apart, they get deep penetration.

For Man & Woman couples this can be done vaginally and anally. For Man & Man couples this can be done anally, and for Woman & Woman couples this can be done vaginally or anally with a strap on, finger or fist (more easily with the assistance of a chair if using finger or fist).

 

The Y :
For A Man & Woman, Woman & Woman, Man & Man

Lie face down across the bed, then scoot your body forward so your head and torso hang off the side and put your palms on the floor to support your weight. Your partner enters you from behind, with their legs positioned inside yours and their hands holding your torso for balance so they can keep his head and shoulders high.

Because of the tricky positioning, this isn't something you can do all night but it adds a lot of intensity to a run-of-the-mill position and can easily be made more simple if the partner on the bottom opens their legs and allows the partner on top a kneeling position inside to get deeper thrusts.

For Man & Woman couples this can be done vaginally and anally. For Man & Man couples this can be done anally, and for Woman & Woman couples this can be done vaginally or anally with a strap on.

 

 

 

 

Advanced Fellatio Instruction

 

Read and see much more through The Art of Fellatio Manual available online or in a soft cover binder with
8 minutes of video available as a download or on CDROM.

See what is covered in the
manual and video below-

 

Positions
Techniques
Instruction
Media
Basic & Best
68 1/2
69
Face Fucking
On Your Knees
On The Side

Visual Importance
Stage Fright
The Exhibitionist

Deep Throat
Gagging Remedy

Using Teeth
Kisses & Tongue
Do The Twist
Shirley Temple Licks
Head, Shaft & Scrotum
Grabbing His Behind
Making Him Tight
Hand Job Combo
Vacuum
Double Penetration
Teeth Guards
Thigh Highs
Hummers
The Harmonica
The Drum
Hot & Cold
Women's Lubricant
Hands On Your Head
Adore The Cock


Penis Anatomy
Messes
Orgasms
Perineum Love
Anal Love
Nipple Love
Mouth Love
Fatigue Warning
Health Concerns
STD Prevention
Hygiene
Tips For Receiver
Clean Up
Post Etiquette
Toys & Products
Fellatio In Water

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Masturbation Tips For Women
What All Women Should Do & How

Lisa S. Lawless, Ph.D., C.E.O.
Holistic Wisdom Founder

 

Lisa S. Lawless, Ph.D., CEO

Member of American Association
of Sex Educators, Counselors,
and Therapists
( AASECT )

 

All women should masturbate whether they are single or in a relationship in my opinion. Not just because it is healthy, and fun... but there is truly no better way to embrace the sexual beauty within yourself like masturbating. It allows you to better know yourself, your body, your sexual desires, your sexual preferences and provides you with the opportunity for a rich and fertile imagination through your sexual fantasies.

There is no right or wrong way to masturbate; as long as it feels good and you aren’t going to harm yourself, it’s great. Remember that pleasure is the goal and however you get there is perfect.

Preparation-

The first thing to do is to set up a comfortable environment for yourself. If you’re going to use toys, get them and your lube out and near the play area. Read an erotic book or watch an erotic movie. Think of a past sexual encounter that really gets you hot, or fantasize about one you’d like to have one with. If you female ejaculate you may want to use the bath tub as a playground or simply get a waterproof liner to protect your sheets.

Pleasure Points-

Clitoral Stimulation-

You can use your hands, fingers, knuckles, a shower head, running water, vibrators, rubbing up against an object, anything that will stimulate the clitoris. The clitoris is the one organ on our bodies that is purely for sexual pleasure. Women are very excited by stimulation of the gspot, but some women are unable to orgasm unless they receive some sort of clitoral stimulation.

By using your fingers or hand, you can rub, stroke or pinch the clitoris. You can also rub the area around the clitoris and you may find that one side is preferred over another.

The shower massager head can be wonderful too. The shower head where you can adjust the stream of water, a steady, gentle stream and then a more powerful jet spray can be quite exciting.

I love vibrators, my favorite being the
Hitachi Magic Wand
(Powerful and fairly quiet) and the Water Dancer (Small, waterproof and very quiet). I have several different ones for different situations and different moods.

Holding a vibrator up against your clit is the way to feel the maximum amount of intense stimulation most quickly. I have found it so easy with the vibrators I use that I often have my first orgasm in the first 30 seconds of constant stimulation!

Since clits can be extremely sensitive you can also hold the vibrator around the general area if the vibrations are too strong.

 

 

G-Spot Stimulation

There are many toys out there that are specifically made to locate and stimulate the g-spot, like the Rabbit Habit. By using some type of dildo, you will also get that added feeling of fullness in your vagina, which kind of completes the whole experience.

Although, if you can locate your g-spot and can manipulate it and stimulate it with your fingers to your pleasure, then all that too can be great. Many women do find it easier to use some kind of toy. Sometimes using pillows, a bed headboard or even a bath tub to push yourself into a position with your legs open and provide easier access to reach up inside you is a good way to go.

 

Vaginal Stimulation

There’s always just pure penetration for the feeling of penetration. There are thousands of dildo’s and vibrating dildos on the market. I love the Dildo with Suction Cup because you can easily use it in the shower. And if your fingers or hands feel good too, than go for it!

 

Anal Stimulation

The anus is a very sensitive area of the body. When given a little bit of tender loving care, it can bring you to a wonderful place. You can explore the area with your fingers, just rubbing or tickling the area, or small insert anal toys. There are many to choose from. Just make sure that whenever you insert a toy, finger, etc. into your anus that you have plenty of lubrication and to wash your hands well if you decide to go to your vagina to prevent a Urinary Tract Infection!

 

Breasts

Let’s not forget about them. Touching, rubbing, fondling and even attaching nipple clamps the can be very exciting. If you’re breasts are large enough, try licking your nipples yourself. This can be extremely pleasurable.

The breasts are a wonderful erogenous zone that should not be ignored during any type of sex play. There is no right way to do it. You don’t even have to get naked

 

 

 

Just relax and explore your body and see what feels good. Anyway you do it is your choice, just have fun. That’s the point of sex and sexual play, having fun doing it. For more tips on masturbation as well as how to achieve female ejaculation make sure to check out The Art of Female Ejaculation on video and as a book / eBook.

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Movie Reviews
Holistic Wisdom's Inside Scoop

In Theatres Now
Our Rating
Out Of Four Stars-

The Village

This is yet another cool flick to see this summer. Unlike the film Open Water, which for me was terrifying, this film is less scary but has an interesting concept that makes you think quite a bit at the end.

If you enjoyed both the "Sixth Sense" and "Signs" you may be a bit disappointed with this film, however if you try not to compare them with the others, then it's a better movie.

The Village is directed by the brilliant M. Night Shyamalan who knows how to serve up a good scary movie. "The Village" is about a group of people in 1897, that live in a village that are surrounded by woods that isolate them from the rest of society. Not only are they isolated from society, creatures live in the woods and as long as the villagers stay within their limits, the creatures won't harm them. One of the village's elder's son get hurt and he needs medication which can only be received by going into one of the other towns, which means going into the dreaded woods. Overall it is a good movie, just not the fearsome scary movie it is marketed as.

 


In Theatres Now
Our Rating
Out Of Four Stars-

Collateral

"Collateral," a terrific thriller starring Tom Cruise and Jamie Foxx is well worth seeing with more than the usual twists and turns, although I do have to say the ending may be hotly debated by viewers - good or bad?

Tom Cruise departs from his usual "good guy saves the world" persona, playing a hit man who encounters an unwitting cabdriver and makes him part of his game plan. An interesting plot and suspenseful moments.

 


 

 

 

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Holistic Wisdom
Readers Forum

This section allows our readers to provide feedback regarding articles and topics on our web site. All correspondence from our readers is with their permission. Opinions expressed through our forum are not necessarily our own, but we believe in the freedom of speech and allow for those who wish to be heard an opportunity to express themselves.

To submit your opinions such as the one's shown below eMail us for consideration of publishing it in our next newsletter.

General Comments~


Dear Lisa,

Keep up the good work . You have help make me a conossuer of women , things that all men should know . God Blessed everyone with a gift , you rightfully know yours .

Thanks,

R.

 


Hi Lisa,

I have been subscribing to your newsletter for some time and I enjoy the topics and bought a few items. I am a male who is a great fan of real female masturbation and ejaculation (as opposed to the fake ones you see in many adult movies and I cannot wait to buy the video and also show the woman I would marry one day.

You usually ask for my comment and feedback but I do not know where to click for feedback and I also would want to make sure its anonymous. I guess that should already be understood, knowing that your website is confidential, so even if you are to edit this letter for public feedback my real name would be used, (initials OK).

Two questions I have-

The first is what is the purpose of the ejaculatory fluid in women?

The second is I know for men semen and urine come through the same canal, the urethra in the penis but the feeling is obviously different. You say the ejaculatory fluid in women comes through the same canal as urine and I am guessing that, even though some women thought they peed when they actually ejaculated (maybe out of not knowing what it was) that the feeling is obviously different?

I have not bought the video yet. Maybe the video answers those two questions.

Thanks.

A.

 

Lisa's Reply-

Hi,

Thank you very much for your positive feedback, I truly appreciate your thoughtful eMail. I am putting your questions in our newsletter only using the initial A. to protect your anonymity. I of course am very careful about doing that for any of our customers and web site visitors as I feel it is their right to be able to be a part of our sexual health community online without worrying about potential embarrassment or harassment from other less evolved people.

In your first question you ask what is the purpose of female ejaculation fluid-

It's widely believed that there is a female counterpart to the male prostate; technically known as “Skene’s” glands. Just as the male prostate, the ducts from these glands empty into the urethral canal. The liquid produced by the Skene’s glands is not urine, but a thin clear fluid containing glucose and prostatic acid. This chemical makeup is much more similar to semen (without sperm), than it is to urine.

This fluid "release" is entirely unrelated to “vaginal” secretions, which there the primary is the lubrication of the vagina. Apart from the clotting and dissolving enzymes the fluid contains, amongst other things, calcium, citrate, and phosphate. Citrate is one of the major constituents and the it has the highest concentration of any tissue in the human body. But we don’t really know why this is, or what it does. Zinc is also found in the prostate at high concentrations. Again its role remains mysterious but scientists think it has some role in fighting bacterial infection.

Because we are all conceived as female with an X chromosome and then a Y or X is added to determine what direction the body evolves into regarding the sex: male or female... my guess is that female ejaculate is simply for sexual release and cleansing.

In your second question you asked if the feeling is different when a woman urinates vs. expelling female ejaculates-

When a woman is sexually aroused and is about to ejaculate she often will feel a similar feeling to when she is about to urinate, however if she pushes out she will note that it is different than urinating in sensation as there is a different feeling of release.

It is rather difficult to explain, but for me personally there is usually a feeling of urgency and release while I am urinating, while when I am ejaculating there is a feeling of release and sexual pleasure... with no feeling or urgency or pressure release from the bladder.

I hope that answers your questions and that you have a great weekend!

Best,

Lisa

 


Hi Lisa,

I just wanted to say that after visiting your site I think the products are great. Just one little problem....you don't seem to be marketing to women and their needs. In fact, I believe that the copy describing the products is geared toward a male shopper exclusively. It just seems unrealistic to think that only men are shopping for items like this. Fortunately, in Time Out New York you reach all audiences - otherwise I'd never have known about the Liberator! That's all....

 

Lisa's Reply-

Hi,

Thank you for your feedback. I always value hearing what people think of our site and I thought I would offer some of my thoughts on your comments. I think that as the web master for our web sites the site certainly does get a "flavor" to it. Everything gets filtered through me and I have been known to have "masculine views" on sex so I appreciate the reminder to soften things up from time to time, using a more feminine approach.

Also, what I have found is that while it is getting less and less challenging there is still a small selection of sex products that are geared toward women and I can appreciate that some of what we carry is highly targeted toward men. We are going to carry more female oriented products and services in the future and I hope you will enjoy them.

On the other hand, I have received complaints from men that our site does not service them enough through information and toys, and thus, it is always a challenge to meet everyone's needs. I think we need to expand in both directions more as both sexes need empowering sexual information and products and my vision is to provide it.

I also want to expand more upon our homosexual and bisexual focus as I feel that it is challenging to find sites that address both heterosexual needs as well as others. I wanted to publish your letter (which you will see in our next newsletter) because I felt it a wonderful opportunity to let our readers know that we are open to suggestions and really appreciate them!

Thanks again for your comments. I hope this eMail finds you well and that you continue to visit our web site.

Best,
Lisa