Hi Lisa,

I was wondering if it is okay to ejaculate (female ejaculate) while pregnant?

-Anonymous

Hi,

I hate to start of with "it depends," but it does. First, you really have to talk with your OBGYN about such matters as each pregnancy can be different and come with different risks. For women who require bed rest or decreased activity during their pregnancy due to health risks, you will of course want to decrease the intensity of your sex life as well.

For some women, in order to expel the ejaculate, they need to bear down and push. Of course some women have it dribble out, others may have to exert themselves and that is when there may be possible problems that may arise... especially if the pregnancy is high risk, or if you are about to give birth.

Now, when I was pregnant I was able to have sexual activity stay just as pleasureful and intense throughout my pregnancy... with creative positioning.

However, as all women are different and all pregnancies are different, it is best to speak with your doctor about your specific situation and whether or not they feel that your body and the baby can handle sexual activity and to what level of intensity.