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Passionate
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Ways
To Seduce Your Spirit
Imagine
a candle lit room, with sensuous fabrics draping the walls.
There is exotic music playing, the atmosphere is enticing
and there you are wearing sweats, dry skin, hair a mess,
stressed out and ready to sit in front of the television
to escape into a vegetative state.
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Lisa
S. Lawless, Ph.D., C.E.O.
HolisticWisdom.com Founder |
Yes,
it's true many of us neglect ourselves. I too am guilty of looking
and feeling a mess from time to time. With so much to do and so
little time it seems that taking those extra moments to put on
perfume or wear make up can seem extravagant.
I
can also say that I really don't feel my best when I am not doing
things over time to pamper myself. Simple things really... like
taking a hot bubble bath or slathering myself up in my favorite
vanilla scented body lotion. These little things have a strong
psychological affect on us believe it or not.
Studies
have actually shown that using a favorite perfume in the middle
of the day actually made workers perform better. Why? Probably
because it refreshed them and gave them a sense of renewed vitality
by having a fresh scent to stimulate them. Not to mention the
whole area of study of aromatherapy.
If any of you have ever watched a makeover show, isn't it amazing
to watch the person not only change physically (new clothes, a
haircut, make-up) but also on an emotional and mental level as
well? I believe it is when we have the intention of wanting to
live a life where our "higher self" is who we are in
touch with, then we will naturally want to do things for ourselves
that provide us with that extra spark of creativity and vitality.
I
have always been interested in how people nurture themselves through
exercise, good diet, meditation, and even hygiene and pampering.
These are important components and when we neglect them we ultimately
do ourselves a disservice. That is why I am always looking for
ways to bring products and services to our web site that encourage
those things as I feel it is important for people to have these
resources.
When
we do things like relax over a cup of herb tea, get a manicure,
enjoy facials or massage, take hot bubble baths, stretch and massage
our feet, hands, etc. we often feel a sense of connecting with
ourselves through nurturing. Self love is more important than
most people realize... in fact it is my opinion that it is often
lack of self love that keeps us from fully realizing how capable
we truly are.
I
am not referring to narcissistic and egocentric ways of being,
I am talking about doing things for ourselves that deepen our
sense of appreciation for the world and all the pleasure it has
to offer. Often times we get overwhelmed by stress, and we forget
to appreciate how wonderful it feels to simply enjoy our body,
while pleasuring and relaxing our mind and spirit.
When
we do these things we not only feel good about ourselves, thus
affecting our mental and emotional state, but we also exude that
energy to others. People will see you as more attractive, confident
and sensual when you put energy into yourself.
That
is why one of my favorite gifts to give people on holidays and
special occasions are things that pamper them such as a visit
to a spa, or bath and body products to pamper them. I love sharing
all the wonderful things I have found to rejuvenate and relax
with.
That
is why I also want to share some of those things with you, so
I have put together some of my favorite products that I use to
pamper and nurture myself below. If you have any suggestions that
you would like to make for our other web site visitors, simply
contact me so that I can add
your comments to our site or even carry products that you love!
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