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Lisa,
The only way I would ever ask this question is not to
mention my name as it is kinda embarrassing. However,
I have always enjoyed your direct and friendly way of
addressing issues, so I thought you would be the best
person to ask. I recently had a fantastic sexual experience,
and I was cumming so hard and pushing so hard that I actually
passed gas and a little bit of poop came out. I was so
embarrassed, but my husband just laughed and said that
it was clearly "good for me." I kinda smiled
when he said that as I knew he was being a good sport
about it, but was still wondering if that was normal?
Embarrassed
Hi,
I
think that you will be pleased to hear that it is more
common than most people think. Much like a woman who passes
gas or defecates during child birth, you can have those
potentially embarrassing moments during sex. Men, too!
Typically this occurs more frequently with age or illness
(also through physical disabilities, such as spinal cord
injuries, spina bifida, etc.), but intense sexual activity
can also contribute.
You
have a great husband for having a sense of humor about
it. Honestly, that is the best way to handle such situations.
Of course if you are feeling vulnerable about it, let
your hubby know that you need reassurance and if he is
the loving person he sounds like, he will offer it.
If
you find it reoccurring, check with your doctor about
health issues and take time to talk about ways to handle
a bowel or bladder accident during sex in the future with
your hubby. Empty your bladder and bowels prior to sexual
activity, keep towels, bedpans and wipes nearby if you
need to. Also, stay tuned for Lawless
Linens as they are great for such issues.
Finally,
remember that good sex can get messy from salvia, sweat,
cum and certainly urine and feces. The most important
thing to remember is that we are all human and this is
just one of the many things we need to accept about ourselves
when it happens. So lay back, relax and smile knowing
that it sometimes happens and when it does... it can be
downright funny.
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