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Poop During Sex
Lisa,
The
only way I would ever ask this question is not to mention my
name as it is kinda embarrassing. However, I have always enjoyed
your direct and friendly way of addressing issues, so I thought
you would be the best person to ask. I recently had a fantastic
sexual experience, and I was cumming so hard and pushing so
hard that I actually passed gas and a little bit of poop came
out. I was so embarrassed, but my husband just laughed and said
that it was clearly "good for me." I kinda smiled
when he said that as I knew he was being a good sport about
it, but was still wondering if that was normal?
Embarrassed
Hi,
I
think that you will be pleased to hear that it is more common
than most people think. Much like a woman who passes gas or defecates
during child birth, you can have those potentially embarrassing
moments during sex. Men, too! Typically this occurs more frequently
with age or illness (also through physical disabilities, such
as spinal cord injuries, spina bifida, etc.), but intense sexual
activity can also contribute.
You
have a great husband for having a sense of humor about it. Honestly,
that is the best way to handle such situations. Of course if you
are feeling vulnerable about it, let your hubby know that you
need reassurance and if he is the loving person he sounds like,
he will offer it.
If
you find it reoccurring, check with your doctor about health issues
and take time to talk about ways to handle a bowel or bladder
accident during sex in the future with your hubby. Empty your
bladder and bowels prior to sexual activity, keep towels, bedpans
and wipes nearby if you need to. Also, you can always get a waterproof
thow as these make a great way to have comfort and be
prepared.
Finally,
remember that good sex can get messy from salvia, sweat, cum and
certainly urine and feces. The most important thing to remember
is that we are all human and this is just one of the many things
we need to accept about ourselves when it happens. So lay back,
relax and smile knowing that it sometimes happens and when it
does... it can be downright funny.
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