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Prostate
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How
To Do It & Why It Is Good For You
There's
more to the male genitalia than the head and shaft of the
penis... if you press your fingers against your perineum
(area between your testicles and anus) you can feel this
root, or bulb of your penis.
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Lisa
S. Lawless, Ph.D., C.E.O.
HolisticWisdom.com Founder
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The root of
the penis is sensitive and can be stimulated through the perineum
or the rectum and is just one reason that anal penetration feels
pleasurable to many men. Now I know there is a lot of homophobia
that goes on for men around the talk of anal play... so let me
just address that before I go any further.
Getting
The Homosexual Concerns Out Of The Way-
We
of course respect anyone's sexual preference when it comes to
being heterosexual or homosexual. We see beauty in both and we
support either preference. For those men who are heterosexual
and fear that anal play may lead to homosexual feelings or that
someone will think they are... think again.
Some
people think the anus is dirty. But there is nothing shameful
about the body, which must be cared for. The only thing that might
be considered dirty is disease; and these practices are intended
to prevent and cure disease through regular care for the entire
body, including the anus and prostate.
Many
men are troubled by these massages because they think there is
something "homosexual" about it, especially if it is pleasurable.
They might feel differently if they knew the extent to which neglect
ultimately results in prostate dysfunction, malfunction, and disease.
Inserting anything into the anus never turned anyone into a homosexual.
Many
straight men enjoy prostate massage with their female partners
and don't miss out on the health benefits or intense pleasure
that it brings because they are confident in their masculinity
and are able to work through any fear that they have regarding
it. If you are worried about the homosexual piece of this, then
I suggest that you talk about these feelings with a trusted friend,
partner or professional to try and work through your fears because
you will be missing out on a wonderful sexual release if you let
your fears keep you from trying it.
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The
Benefits of Prostate Massage
Traditionally,
doctors would massage their patients' prostates regularly to cure
or prevent disease. Now, however, most doctors only check the
prostate, and if they find a problem prefer to cut it out or prescribe
medication. But a doctor is not necessarily required for prostate
massage.
You
can do it yourself or have your partner do it for you. Try this
practice and discover its health benefits. When you do it yourself,
you can be very gentle and make the treatment pleasurable as well
as efficacious.
 The
prostate is analogous to the G spot in women which is shown to
the left. The prostate can be massaged by inserting a finger (toy,
dildo etc.) a minimum of three inches into your anus and stroking
toward the front of your body through the walls of your rectum.
The
technique of prostate massage actually involves two (three) organs
of the male reproductive system: the prostate gland, the seminal
vesicles, and the ampulla, which is the reservoir which actually
holds the male sperm just prior to ejaculation.
The
prostate gland when engorged can be felt by pressing a finger
into the middle of the perineum (in back of the scrotum). It is
a rounded lump about the size of a large marble. It can also be
accessed via the rectum, where it can again be felt as a rounded
lump toward the front of the body and just about an index finger's
length inside the rectum.
The
prostate gland is responsible for producing a large percentage
of a man's ejaculate, and it is healthy and desirable to fully
drain this fluid regularly. Prostate massage is the most effective
means of doing so, as no other method directly stimulates the
prostate gland.
 A
better way to find it from the rectum is to insert the middle
finger, and slide it from just inside the rectum (on the front
side) up and in until you feel it move over a lump. That will
be the prostate.
Just
in back of (up from) the prostate is a smaller and roughly triangular
wedge shaped nodule that is the bottom portion of the somewhat
larger seminal vesicles, which is where most of the fluid of the
ejaculate is produced and accumulated. Underneath the seminal
vesicles are the ampulla.
During
sexual arousal, sperm and ejaculatory fluid accumulate in these
glands backing up behind valves in the ejaculatory ducts. When
fluid pressure reaches a high enough threshold, the valves open
and the urethral bulb fills, triggering the ejaculatory reflex
and muscular contractions of orgasm, which empties the glands.
You can massage your prostate by simply inserting your finger
or toy into the anus and reaching back and up towards the navel
until you feel the prostate gland. Use natural-content personal
lubricant of the type specific to this purpose to facilitate insertion
of the finger, and gently rub back and forth on the prostate using
as much pressure as you can without causing pain.
This
massage can be made even more pleasurable if your partner is willing
to do the massage for you. You need not concern yourself about
bacterial transmission if the hands are clean. Use of any toy
using the instruction above will do the trick.
Sexual
intensity is enhanced by massaging the penis at the same time!
Some men have passed out from the sheer pleasure so be prepared
for an amazing sexual experience!
Medical
Bonus
It
is important that men examine themselves often by checking the
condition of their prostates. You can determine the condition
of the prostate by feeling for changes in size and resilience.
Check
this as often as possible, at least every few months, and you
will be able to establish a standard for yourself. By doing so,
you will be able to detect any changes in the size and flexibility
of your prostate. A very hard, enlarged, or painful prostate is
an indication of a disorder that could lead to cancer or some
other major problem.
Prostate disorders do not develop overnight, and regular massage
can prevent and reverse problems. Medical science accepts that
it is normal for men over the age of fifty to experience problems
with their prostates. Although prostate problems may be common,
they are not normal. They are abnormal. There is no need for any
man to have prostate problems.
Prostate
massage is sometimes carried out as a medical procedure for the
treatment of chronic prostatitis and benign prostatic hyperplasia
(BPH), although it is highly inadvisable for patients with acute
prostatitis, for whom the infection can spread elsewhere in the
body if massage is performed.
Too
vigorous a massage in some cases may be cause health problems.
Very gentle external anal massage, which relaxes the sphincter
muscles, has been shown to relieve hemorrhoids and fissures.
Don't
Over Do It
Too
much pressure can result in tearing or other damage, therefore
it is important to be sure to relax completely your abdomen during
prostate massage. Don't thrust things in a harsh manner and avoid
sharp fingernails.
Extremely
hard massages can cause bacteria or cancer to leave the prostate
and spread through the body, although gentle massaging is generally
seen as safe.
How
Often
For
a swollen prostate, many men indicate that they see improvement
within 3 drainages, but it will depend on your own prostate and
your own skill. For a normal functioning prostate, some men say
that once a month for about 10 to 20 minutes is enough.
Ejaculating
beyond the ability of the prostate to empty and fill may cause
discomfort just as not ejaculating enough will cause pain as well.
Finding what is right for you may take some practice.
Reduction
of Sexual Tension As Well
The
prostate is responsible for producing male ejaculate, thus, massaging
it can also release these fluids and relieve sexual tension, thereby
decreasing sex drive for a period of up to several days.
Without
Orgasm
Prostate
massage can also have the effect of producing ejaculation without
having an orgasm. The orgasm is often described as not being as
satisfactory as a normal sexual orgasm. Some doctors will often
numb the genitals with ice before performing a prostate massage
to keep the patient from associating the massage with sexual stimulation.
Letter
From Customer
Dear
Lisa,
We got our Pandora vibrator
and it is great. My wife gave me a prostate massage and it
took me 5 minutes to get off the bed when I was done. It felt
unbelievable. I shook like a leaf and when my wife stroked
me, I ejaculated so hard I sprayed myself in the face. If
a man has not had this done to him he does not know what he
is missing. I cannot wait to do it again.
Thank you for your help.
- Brian & Julie |
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