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What
Is Female Ejaculation
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What It Is And How To Do It
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Female
ejaculation is prostate like fluid that
is pushed out of the urethra (pee tube) which originates
from the kidneys and the Paraurethral / Skenes glands (female
prostate- located under the g-spot area) during sexual arousal.
Fluid comes from the kidneys passing through the bladder
to mix with the fluid coming from the female prostate.
It
is usually done during an orgasm, but not always. We review
this in great detail in our female ejaculation movie and
book. Just like a man can ejaculate and urinate out of
his urethra (pee tube) so can a woman!
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Lisa S. Lawless, Ph.D., C.E.O.
HolisticWisdom.com Founder
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Two
Female Sexual Response Fluids
The
two types of female sexual response fluids (cum) are clinically
termed as female prostate and vaginal ejaculation fluids. The
one most commonly seen in our culture is vaginal ejaculate, which
lubricates the vaginal walls and oozes out during sexual arousal.
Called, leukorrhea, it contains vaginal secretions from walls
of the vagina. It's the vagina's natural way of cleaning itself.
It is slightly acidic to keep infections away.
This
ejaculate comes from the Skenes glands (the glands that make up
the g-spot) and bladder and is similar to prostate fluid in men.
This is because the female g-spot is essentially the equivalent
to the prostate in males.
Female
prostate / bladder ejaculate is what we are referring to when
describing female ejaculate fluid and is less commonly seen in
large amounts. This is not because women are not capable; rather
it is due to lack of understanding of women's sexual health issues
in this culture.
What
Is In The Female Ejaculation Fluid?
Let
me get the biggest myth out of the way- IT IS NOT URINE. Upon
testing the liquid, scientists have found that it contains levels
of glucose (sugar), and an enzyme (prostate acid phosphatase),
which is characteristic of a major component in semen. It is similar
to the prostate fluid within male ejaculation but without the
sperm. There are also two other substances contained in the fluid,
commonly found in urine (urea and creatinine), which are found
in trace amounts. It is a unique substance, and unlike the heavier
and thicker fluid that you would typically see when a woman is
"wet" or has had an orgasm.
The
fluid released during female ejaculation and urination are not
the same however, they may share some of the same composition.
Women who ejaculate have reported that the color, smell, consistency,
and even taste can slightly vary from one time to the next. Diet,
menstrual cycle and other such factors will influence the fluid.
However,
one should note that unlike men, women can ejaculate and urinate
at the same time so women should try urinating before sex play
if they want to avoid getting the fluids confused.
The
Importance of Getting Past Inhibitions
Before
a woman can enjoy ejaculating, she must overcome any inhibitions
she has about doing it. While men often pride themselves for how
far and how much they ejaculate, women are often taught to repress
that part of their sexuality.
Female
ejaculation is a normal and natural part of women's sexuality.
Just like men, women must be able to relax in order to become
sexually aroused, and certainly must be willing to let go to expel
ejaculate which is easily held back by clenching the Kegel muscles.
It is important that a woman give herself permission to relax,
let go and enjoy her sexuality, not just to female ejaculate,
but to enjoy sex to the fullest.
A
G-spot orgasm is NOT the sole contributor to female ejaculation!
| All women
have the same equipment, it is simply learning the best way
to use it through techniques and working through any inhibitions
that hold us back with awareness and empowerment. - Lisa
S. Lawless, Ph.D., CEO |
The
Facts About Female Ejaculation
And Why Most Women Know About It
All women can
learn to ejaculate as much as two cups of fluid and spray and squirt
female ejaculation across the length of a room and our movie shows
it! Oh sure, there are a lot of myths out there regarding this exquisite
female sexual response. Some claim the whole premise of female ejaculation
is untrue, others claim only "special" women are capable and still
others try and tell you ridiculous techniques based on myths such
as suggesting that women should tighten their Kegel (vaginal wall)
muscles to make it happen. Then there are the skeptics that try
and claim that it is pee (urine)!
These types
of statements are simply untrue and something we review in great
detail in our female ejaculation movie and book. While women have
differences in their genitalia from other women (just as men do
from one another) all women have the same equipment and are capable
of squirting these lovely orgasmic, ejaculate juices with the
right techniques. It is no different than all men being capable
of ejaculating no matter the size or shape of their penis.
The only reason that most people do not know about or understand
how to achieve female ejaculation is from the sheer lack of understanding
women’s sexuality.
Because
most people (including the women that do it) do not know the elusive
way female ejaculation works it has remained a mystery to many.
Women often easily and unconsciously sabotage their chances for
gushing female ejaculate. I teach all women and their partners
to learn how to do it not just for the extreme pleasure it brings
or the erotic visual demonstrations, but also because it is healthy
and actually can aid in preventing disease! That is why this information
is so incredible, and needed by the public!
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I
simplify and teach, not only effective techniques in my
female ejaculation movie and book, but what the inhibitors
are in preventing it from happening. The solutions and techniques
that I provide not only reveal why most women don't experience
female ejaculation, but why they don't have the best orgasms
they can!
In
the past, I have been frustrated when I have purchased sexual
health books and videos that promise specifics and then
disappoint when they give vague and/or inaccurate information
that is not practical or useful. That is why I wrote the
book and produced the video "The Art of Female Ejaculation,"
so that I could offer you specifics, accurate information
and practical, step-by-step female ejaculation techniques
to not only achieve female ejaculation (and learn why it
is beneficial to a woman's health) but how to provide any
woman with mind shattering orgasms! You can be confident
that I provide the highest quality and quantity in my female
ejaculation movie and book!
Most
women don't have very fulfilling sex lives, and some don't
even know what an orgasm feels like let alone female ejaculation.
This is because women's sexuality has long been neglected,
thus female ejaculation has not been discussed when it should
have been in such settings as sex education classes.
When
I first heard about female ejaculation I was in my late
twenties. Being a sexually knowledgeable and adventurous
woman as well as a psychotherapist specializing in sexual
issues, I was shocked that I had never heard about it, let
alone done it.
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Congratulations
on your Female Ejaculation DVD Lisa. It's of beautiful quality
and the content is, as I'm sure you are aware, a unique
blend of edification and honest, smoldering sensuality.
Michael
Williams
MD, OBGYN
Evansville, IN
"Thanks
so much for your help. I am a gynecologist with a specialty
interest in female sexual medicine and find the information
in your female ejaculation movie and book useful in my practice.
I will be recommending your
book "The Art of Female Ejaculation" to my patients on a
regular basis. It is an excellent resource and very well
done."
Scott
T. Miles
MD, OBGYN
Indianapolis, IN
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I
personally discovered female ejaculation after having a very open
and enlightening discussion with a girlfriend, whom told me that
she did the "wildest thing" when she had an orgasm (and sometimes
just when she was sexually aroused). I of course was very intrigued
about this, and ended up asking her a lot of questions about how
it happened for her. I then went to the Internet to find out more,
and was met with a great deal of inaccurate, conflicting information
about female ejaculation. What was a chick to do? I wanted to
know more about it, and most importantly at the time, I wanted
to know if I could do it too. I began a mission of researching
through medical journals, interviews with physicians, sex therapists
and my clients who came to me for psychotherapy.
After
all my research, and developing a few theories of my own, I decided
that I simply had to try to see if I could do it. I am happy to
say that I did it during my first attempt through masturbating.
It was so simple! There were a few things that I learned and did
in preparation that made it possible and there are a lot of things
I learned along the way which turned into a 150 page book and
90 minute video! For the sake of keeping this article and not
a book, let me give you a quick overview of how female ejaculation
occurs so that you get a general idea of how all of this works.
First let’s get the myths out of the way and review what is true
and untrue about it.
The
Myths & Truth About Female Ejaculation-
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The
Myths-
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The
Truth-
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1)
Female ejaculation does not exist.
2) Only rare women can achieve female
ejaculation (or squirt).
3) Kegel exercise is the key to
achieving female ejaculation.
4) Only women with prominent G-Spots
can achieve female ejaculation.
5) Female ejaculation can only be
achieved through G-Spot orgasms.
6) Gynecologists are educated about
this issue and provide women with
correct information.
7) Women can only excrete a drop or
two of female ejaculate, and if it is
more (especially in the amounts that
some women claim 1-2 cups) then it
would be urine.
8) Female ejaculation is or becomes
urinary incontinence (peeing).
9) Women who have given birth are the
only women capable of female
ejaculation.
10) There is only one way to achieve
female ejaculation.
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1)
Female ejaculation comes from the
Skenes/Paraurethral glands (also
known as the G-Spot).
2) Women do not realize that they can
ejaculate because they are
missing the cues of when they can
do it.
3) There are specific techniques that can
be taught to a woman to teach her
how to do it and how to hold it if she
does not wish to ejaculate.
4) Women can ejaculate without having a
G-Spot orgasm and for that matter
without having an orgasm at all!
5) Women can increase the amount of
fluid they ejaculate by following
specific steps.
6) Women can ejaculate multiple times
within a short period.
7) Female ejaculation is not urine, is
much like the consistency of water, is
clear in color, and usually smells like
nothing or has a slight sweet scent.
8) OBGYNs and other physicians often
misunderstand or even misdiagnose
female ejaculation. |
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You
may be wondering "If all women are capable of female ejaculation,
then why is it that many women have never done it?" This is a
very good question, and is easily explained. Let’s begin with
reviewing some basic information about the female anatomy to better
understand how this works.
Where
Does Female Ejaculation Come From?
Female
ejaculation is a fluid that is pushed out of the urethra (pee
tube/hole- just like urine) however, unlike urine it comes from
the Paraurethral glands (located under and making up the G-Spot
and often termed as the female prostate) and bladder during sexual
arousal.
There
has been debate about whether women have a prostate or not even
though in 1672 Reinier De Graaf described it as a collection of
functional glands and ducts surrounding the female urethra. He
said the glands and ducts produced transparent juice to lubricate
the vaginal area.
Western
medicine has been a bit more stubborn in it's acknowledgment,
but finally came around in 2001 when the Federative Committee
on Anatomical Terminology agreed to use the term “female prostate”
in their Histology Terminology.
The
female prostate had been referred to as either the paraurethral
or Skene’s glands. Most physicians have stayed in the dark about
women's sexuality and particularly about the female prostate.
They felt the female prostate was not a necessary role in reproduction
and it was thus, unimportant. As a woman, I can assure you it
is important and women's sexuality deserves to be valued, studied
and taught.
When
the female prostate has become enlarged or caused discomfort it
was called female urethral diverticulum or female prostatitis.
Many urinary tract infections (UTIs) have been incorrectly diagnosed
and treated due to this disregard for the female prostate.
The
Female Prostate
Urethral
ejaculate comes from the G-spot (Female Prostate) which is the
equivalent of the prostate in males. During early fetal development
both male and female fetuses start out being female. During the
eighth week of gestation the male fetus begins to produce hormones
that begin the process of forming the genitals and affects brain
functioning. This means the tissue that develops into the male
prostate gland, the urogenital sinus, is also present in women
and it where the G-spot is located.
De
Graaf described the "female prostate" in Western medical literature.
He described it as a collection of functional glands and ducts
surrounding the female urethra and said the glands and ducts produced
a "pituitoserous juice;" meaning it produces a thick mucous that
is pale yellow or transparent in color. He described the function
of this fluid as making "women more libidinous with its pungency
and saltiness and lubricates their sexual parts in agreeable fashion
during coitus."
The
Female Prostate Glands vs. The Bladder
The
paraurethral glands are about half an inch in diameter and 1.5
inches in length, so fitting two cups of ejaculate in that area
seems improbable. We believe it to be a combination of fluid that
comes from the kidneys, passes through the bladder and mixes with
the fluid from the female prostate. However, as I will discuss
further, there are a lot of factors still being debated on this
topic.
You
can see a female's bladder get filled during sexual intercourse
in these Magnetic resonance images-
Midsagittal
images of sexual response in a multiparous woman
(left) at rest; (center) pre-orgasmic phase;
(right) 20 minutes after orgasm without expelling the fluid. |
It
is possible for a woman to ejaculate fluid without it being urine
or liquid from the bladder directly from the female prostate.
However, based on this research, we feel strongly that much of
the liquid originates in the bladder or kidneys. What is known,
is that it is not urine.
The
tissue surrounding the urethra is labeled as the "urethral sponge;"
the paraurethal glands are imbedded in this tissue. This, the
bladder and kidneys (pending further research) is where all the
juicy female ejaculation liquid is created when a woman is sexually
aroused. Stimulation of the female prostate (Paraurethral) glands
is done by simply stimulating the g-spot, and there are oh so
many pleasurable ways to do that.
The
urethra fills with blood during sexual arousal, as is the case
in a male. This results in the tissue becoming firm to the touch;
kinda like a female hard-on, but on the inside.
There
have been clinical tests where a woman's bladder is drained of
urine before sexual stimulation and ejaculation. Even though the
women's bladders had been drained, they were found to expel anywhere
from 50 ml to 900 ml of fluid into a catheter bag. This has lead
researchers to conclude that at least some of the liquid must
come from the bladder.
This
can all seem a bit confusing until you think of it this way… men
have urine and cum exit out their urethra and that is similar
to female ejaculation for a woman.
More
Research Is Needed
Some
researchers, like Dr. Gary Schubach have stated in his research
that the majority of the female ejaculation originates in the
bladder, but the expelled fluid is not quite normal urine. In
his research a woman's bladder was emptied using a catheter prior
to orgasm. During orgasm a catheter was in place and connected
to a collection bag. Analysis of the fluid expelled during orgasm
is the basis for his claim.
An
oversight to this approach is that the bladder sphincter is normally
closed. If it were not, liquid in the bladder would simply come
out at any time. By creating an artificial passage and collecting
the fluid expelled from the bladder during pelvic muscles contractions
is just part of the picture and does not explore if during orgasm
this passage normally exists, even if only for a moment.
Some
speculate that female ejaculate originates from the kidneys in
large volumes which could hold some validity in that magnetic
resonance imaging has captured increased fluid in the kidneys
when a woman is aroused. Combining this fluid with the fluid that
is expelled from the female prostate glands would compliment the
lab tests on the fluid.
Therefore,
this is an excellent theory and one that should be delved into
more through testing such as ultra sound monitoring.
The
bladder theory is just one theory and is assumed to be true because
doctors are confused about how the fluid can come from the skenes
glands (the g-spot) as it could not hold as much as 2 cups of
fluid. Thus, they reason that it must come from the bladder.
However,
the theory that I lean toward is that it does indeed come from
the kidneys and Skenes glands. It is still a controversy and because
there have not been any recent studies that I have seen that give
absolute proof... it is difficult to say which of the theories
is correct with 100% accuracy.
How
Much Ejaculate Comes Out?
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women can gush as much as 1.5 - 2 cups of the fluid when ejaculating.
However this can be affected by how hydrated a woman is, how
much she pushes while ejaculating, and other factors. |
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The
female prostate comes in many different shapes and sizes but the
majority of women have a prostate that is positioned near the
external urethra and can expel similar amounts of fluid.
Why
Don't Most Women Know About It Or Do It?
Female
ejaculation is not difficult; as I said earlier, its techniques
are just not known about by many. Because women typically don't
know about the elusive reasons they are not doing it, they are
usually sabotaging their chances for gushing female ejaculate
when they are having an orgasm.
One
of the main reasons that women do not know they can do it is because
women will often feel like they need to urinate when they are
ready to expel the ejaculate and because they think that urine
will come out, which it will not, they hold back. You see the
G-Spot (Skenes Glands) and bladder fill up with the female ejaculate
fluid and this puts pressure on the urethra (pee tube) thus, making
it feel like she has to urinate when in actuality she could ejaculate
if she simply pushed instead of holding back.
There
are sure-fire methods, techniques and ways to achieve it as well
as overcome inhibitors, yet the issue of holding back for fear
of urinating is a big factor for many women. The ejaculation techniques
that I have begun training thousands of women and their partners
have been quite effective and not only allow for amazing ejaculations
but will also intensify any type (women are capable of eight)
of orgasm to mind blowing levels.
Are
There Health Problems?
No,
in fact that is one of the reasons I am so passionate about teaching
women and their partners about female ejaculation because unlike
what many think, there is nothing abnormal or unhealthy about
it.
It
is actually good for you much like the benefits of prostate
massage for men. Because it cleanses the urethra it
can also PREVENT UTI's (Urinary Tract Infections).
Did
you know that thousands of women each year are told that a normal
female sexual response such as female ejaculation is a medical
problem (incontinence, which it is not) or something that they
should be ashamed of as they are thought to be maliciously urinating
on their partner(s)?
It's
simply ridiculous! So many OBGYNs who should know better, are
erroneously telling patients that female ejaculation is not possible...
yet did you ever ask them what education they were provided on
women's sexual responses... go ahead ask... most are not provided
with an education on women's sexual functioning regarding female
ejaculation or other such topics while earning their doctorate.
Personally,
I think it is a disgrace that our Universities and Colleges are
neglecting women's sexual health. I challenge them to rethink
their curriculum and start educating their physicians on this
important issue! That is why many OBGYNs have been ordering my
video and book to educate themselves and their patients!
Michael
Williams, MD, OBGYN from Evansville, IN told me that he was thankful
that I was offering accurate information on female ejaculation.
I think that most doctors shy away from this topic in particular
(even when they know how it works) because they fear being associated
with porn, being that is one of the only places you will hear
about it. Dr. Williams and I agreed on all clinical points and
it was frustrating to think that even professionals in the porn
industry could make videos on it but had no clue as to how it
happens!
Take
Seymore Butts for
example. Here is a man who has great success in making porn videos
and made two on female ejaculation... Squirters
I & II. I watched them both as part of my research for
my book and I was so disappointed in the clinical aspects that
I decided to make a video too! His video was completely inaccurate
as to why women ejaculate, despite some of the sexy ejaculation
scenes. He simply hired a woman (Alisha Klass) who already was
able to female ejaculate to show it, but neither had a clue how
she was doing it.
Because
women can gush as much as two cups of ejaculate, many people think
that it must be urine. Often women who do not know what is happening
(and there are many) are embarrassed, confused and find it to
be of great concern. It does not help that most health practitioners
are not informed about it as many women are being told they require
surgery and/or psychotherapy for this normal female sexual response!
If
there is one thing that I can stress, it is that female ejaculation
is not only visually erotic, but it feels incredible to do it.
The kind of sexual release that a woman feels from this powerful
gush coming from her sweet pussy is like no other.
Skeptics
Often
times, when people find our site, they are convinced that female
ejaculation is pee (urine) and that our video clips are just women
peeing. This is NOT the case. Female ejaculation is very real,
scientific studies that are mentioned in my book The Art of Female
Ejaculation and our female ejaculation movie document that it
is not pee, but rather similar to prostate fluid which comes from
the Kidneys and Skenes glands.
My
comment to those skeptics out there is the following-
Considering
we all thought the earth was flat and other such nonsense not
that long ago, I find it quite humorous that people suspect female
ejaculation to be as erroneous as a woman peeing. Considering
the lack of previous study of women's sexuality until recent years,
I find it rather presumptuous of people to think that if it were
true we would all have been educated about it long ago.
You
may recall that once upon a time, we were hanging women for being
a witch just because she expressed an interest in sexuality, so
while the feminist movement did help women's sexual issues become
more acceptable and we have come a long way... we have a lot further
to go.
My
female ejaculation movie and book break through many of the female
ejaculation myths and finally provide the truth about this wonderful
sexual experience!
How
Does It Happen?
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There
are simple and practical techniques that Lisa shares in
The Art Of female Ejaculation so that you
can learn not only more about it but how to do it! Now you
can not only know sure fire techniques to bring a woman
to orgasm, but combine it with female ejaculation techniques
that will intensify any orgasm to mind blowing levels!
Any
woman who reads this eBook ~ Book or views the Video can
become more empowered, and learn to enjoy her sexuality
to levels she never even dreamed of! Stop waiting for your
sex life to get better, and never doing anything to make
it that way! You can make the decision to change your sex
life today and finally merge your fantasies into a reality!
If
you are a sexual partner to a woman and you want to bring
pleasure to her that will absolutely blow her mind... then
seek no further, you have found your ultimate resource in
The Art Of Female Ejaculation!
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"While
there is a lot of useful information on this web site on
how female ejaculation works, there are many techniques
that I review through step-by-step instructions in my book
and video that are NOT on this site. If you have personal
questions about it I am more than happy to answer them via
eMail or through a phone call AFTER you have read the book/eBook
or watched the video, because ultimately that is where you
will get ALL of the information you need on the subject."
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Lisa
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How
To Stop Female Ejaculation If Undesired
Some
women experience female ejaculation when they do not want to.
The best way to stop it, is to simply not push outward during
an orgasm. Women can also clench down on the urethra by using
their Kegel muscles, much like they would to stop the flow of
urine. The more developed the Kegel muscles, the easier it will
be to control it.
Learn
more about Kegel Exercise.
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