Some people erroneously think that not all women can ejaculate because they have tried and it has not worked for them. However, all healthy and normally developed women have the same equipment, so it can just be a matter of finding the right technique and overcoming psychological issues that may inhibit a woman sexually.
For skeptics, it is important to note that there are cases where some women may have "equipment" that is not functioning correctly or underdeveloped. For example, in 2002, Emanuele Jannini of L'Aquila University in Italy found that the Skenes glands in women have a vast variety of sizes and number of Skenes glands. He indicated that in some extreme cases they appeared to not be present. However, the number of women and the details of this has not been made clear to the public. It is also not examined if those women had other sexual deviations physically or not. We do know that sexual development can impact whether or not a woman develops normally and in extreme cases you can even see things such as hermaphroditism (having both testicular and ovarian tissue). There are always exceptions, however, in the case of female ejaculation, and for the sake of addressing the norm for this article, we will be discussing the majority of healthy, normally developed females and will not be focusing on the rare exception.
The biggest myth out there is that it is urine and this is not true. However, as it can mix with urine, there is a lot of back and forth by people who are confused as to exactly what it is and is not. In studies where it has been tested, it has been determined that the female ejaculate known as prostatic-specific antigen (PSA) contains glucose, and an enzyme which is also known as prostate acid phosphatase. This enzyme is a major component in semen as it comes from the prostate in males. Again, the gspot in a woman is essentially the same as a man's prostate and that is why the fluid is similar.
In addition, when the prostatic-specific antigen (PSA) was discovered it contained some elements of urine (urea and creatine). There were typically at least trace amounts which suggests that either it simply was lining the urethra or a little came out with the ejaculate. Those who have experience female ejaculation via squirting know that it is a sweet smelling, watery type of fluid and is not the typical fluid that one sees when a woman is wet from sexual arousal or having had an orgasm which is why there is such a strong focus on the concept of retrograde ejaculation which we will cover later in this article.
Female ejaculate is fairly consistent in the taste, smell, color and consistency. However, leukorrhea on the other hand varies in these factors and like other fluids in the body it seems to be influenced by diet and time frame of the menstrual cycle.
Female ejaculation is not difficult; women typically don't know about the elusive reasons they are not doing it. They are usually sabotaging their chances for gushing female ejaculate when they are having an orgasm without even knowing it. One of the main reasons that women do not know they can do it is because women will often feel like they need to urinate when they are ready to expel the ejaculate and because they think that urine will come out, they hold back. The ejaculation techniques that I have been training thousands of women and their partners on have been quite effective and not only allow for amazing ejaculations but will also intensify any type (women are capable of eight) of orgasm to mind blowing levels.
Prevention of female ejaculation is a simple clenching down of the Kegel muscles to stop the fluid from coming out. When a woman cannot relax, bare down and push to expel the ejaculate, it comes down to a matter of inhibitions. Often times women are taught not to be messy or sexually assertive. Pushing out ejaculate for a woman can feel like a major sexual breakthrough as it allows her to feel a level of freedom and uninhibited sensuality that she may not have ever felt before. Sometimes even the most confident of women have a difficult time ejaculating, so it is nothing to be embarrassed about and is certainly not an indicator that something is wrong if she cannot.
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Part of the reason that the gspot and its functioning was ignored was because it does not impact reproduction and therefore it was deemed unimportant. However, as a woman speaking for my sex, I can say that it is truly a great failure on the part of physicians that they have seen only reproductive functioning as important. After all, it has been determined that prostate massage in men actually reduces the risk of prostate cancer. Could it not be just as important for women to know if draining the gspot could also provide health benefits? When the female prostate (gspot) has become enlarged or caused discomfort it is called female urethral diverticulum or female prostatitis. Many urinary tract infections (UTIs) have been incorrectly diagnosed and treated due to this disregard for the female prostate.
Even beyond the health aspects of female sexuality, women's sexual pleasure is important solely for the sake of itself. As more sexual health professionals are pushing for research in this area we are beginning to see increased education about this which is finally giving women the knowledge they need to be rightfully sexually empowered.
Because the Paraurethral / Skenes glands that make up the gspot are only about 1.5 - 2 inches in length it is reasonable to wonder how up to two cups of fluid can come out. However, as mentioned before there is a great deal of debate regarding it even among sexual health professionals. The pictures below suggest that the theory of retrograde ejaculation may be what is really going on inside.
This is where the fluid has gone out the gspot and up into an empty bladder and then comes out. However, it could also be urine mixing with the fluid from the female prostate. However, there are a lot of factors still being debated on this topic so take a look at some internal pictures below.
A female's bladder filled during sexual intercourse in these Magnetic resonance images-
There have been clinical tests where a woman's bladder is drained of urine before sexual stimulation and ejaculation. Even though the women's bladders had been drained, they were found to expel anywhere from 50 ml to 900 ml of fluid into a catheter bag. This has lead researchers to conclude that at least some of the liquid must come from the bladder such as in the study conducted by Samuel Salama and his colleagues at the Parly II private hospital in Le Chesnay, France. However, even in that study it was shown that the majority of post-orgasm urine samples contained prostatic-specific antigen (PSA). It is the PSA that many researchers say is the "true" female ejaculate which is produced mainly by the Skene glands. Other researchers show more urine with smaller amounts of prostatic secretions.
Some researchers, like Dr. Gary Schubach have stated in his research that the majority of the female ejaculation originates in the bladder, but the expelled fluid is not quite normal urine. In his research a woman's bladder was emptied using a catheter prior to orgasm. During orgasm a catheter was in place and connected to a collection bag. Analysis of the fluid expelled during orgasm is the basis for his claim. An oversight to this approach is that the bladder sphincter is normally closed. If it were not, liquid in the bladder would simply come out at any time. By creating an artificial passage and collecting the fluid expelled from the bladder during pelvic muscles contractions is just part of the picture and does not explore if during orgasm this passage normally exists, even if only for a moment.
Some speculate that female ejaculate originates from the kidneys in large volumes which could hold some validity in that magnetic resonance imaging has captured increased fluid in the kidneys when a woman is aroused. Combining this fluid with the fluid that is expelled from the female prostate glands would complement the lab tests on the fluid. Therefore, this is an excellent theory and one that should be delved into more through testing such as ultra sound monitoring.
The bladder theory is just one theory and is assumed to be true because doctors are confused about how the fluid can come from the Skene's glands (the g-spot) as it could not hold as much as 2 cups of fluid. Thus, they reason that it must come from the bladder. However, the theory that I lean toward is that it does indeed come from the kidneys and Skene's glands. It is still a controversy and because there have not been any recent studies that I have seen that give absolute proof... it is still difficult to say which of the theories are correct with 100% accuracy because even the latest studies only measure the fluid and are not comprehensive with a large group of women combined with fluid testing and internal imaging.
Most women can gush as much as .5 - 2 cups of the fluid when ejaculating. However this can be affected by how hydrated a woman is, how much she pushes while ejaculating, and other factors. The more fluid the more chances prostatic-specific antigen (PSA) is being mixed with urine. The female prostate comes in many different shapes and sizes but the majority of women have a prostate that is positioned near the external urethra can expel similar amounts of fluid.
I have spent a lot of time developing techniques for both women and their partners to help a woman achieve female ejaculation. You can gain access to those techniques in my 150 page ebook - The Art of Female Ejaculation eBook
I have been asked what is my personal favorite sex toy for achieving female ejaculation and that would be the Hitachi Magic Wand with the blue Gspotter Attachment. I also recommend other powerful dual action vibrators as they provide simultaneous gspot and clitoral stimulation.
The most simple way of explaining how to do it is to bare down and push when you feel like you are about to have an orgasm rather than clenching tight. There are many other things that can also be done as covered in my book, but that is the biggest piece to the puzzle. Because women can urinate and ejaculate at the same time, it is recommended that women should try to urinate before sexual play if they want to avoid urination during an ejaculatory experience.
Some women experience female ejaculation when they do not want to. The best way to stop it is to simply not push outward during an orgasm. Women can also clench down on the urethra by using their Kegel muscles, much like they would to stop the flow of urine. The more developed the Kegel muscles, the easier it will be to control it.
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