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is something that all women can experience and for those that find difficulty
in doing it, I can tell you that I have spent quite a bit of time researching
how to overcome those obstacles and my hope is that my work will help
you to enjoy this beautiful sexual experience.
Some people erroneously think that not all women can ejaculate because they have tried and it has not worked for them. However, all healthy and normally developed women have the same equipment, so it can just be a matter of finding the right technique and overcoming psychological issues that may inhibit a woman sexually.
For skeptics, it is important to note that there are cases where some women may have "equipment" that is not functioning correctly or underdeveloped. For example, in 2002, Emanuele Jannini of L'Aquila University in Italy found that the Skenes glands in women have a vast variety of sizes and number of Skenes glands. He indicated that in some extreme cases they appeared to not be present. However, the number of women and the details of this has not been made clear to the public. It is also not examined if those women had other sexual deviations physically or not. We do know that sexual development can impact whether or not a woman develops normally and in extreme cases you can even see things such as hermaphroditism (having both testicular and ovarian tissue). There are always exceptions, however, in the case of female ejaculation, and for the sake of addressing the norm for this article, we will be discussing the majority of healthy, normally developed females and will not be focusing on the rare exception.
The biggest myth out there is that it is urine and this is not true. However, as it can mix with urine, there is a lot of back and forth by people who are confused as to exactly what it is and is not. In studies where it has been tested, it has been determined that it contains glucose, and an enzyme which is also known as prostate acid phosphatase. This enzyme is a major component in semen as it comes from the prostate. Again, the gspot in a woman is essentially the same as a man's prostate.
In addition the glucose and the enzyme it was also discovered that it contained some elements of urine (urea and creatine). There was typically trace amounts which suggests that either it simply was lining the urethra or a little came out with the ejaculate.
Those who have experience female ejaculation know that it is a sweet smelling, watery type of fluid and is not the typical fluid that one sees when a woman is wet from sexual arousal or having had an orgasm.
Female ejaculate is fairly consistent in the taste, smell, color and consistency. However, leukorrhea on the other hand varies in these factors and it seems to be influenced by diet and time frame of the menstrual cycle.
Female ejaculation is not difficult; women typically don't know about the elusive reasons they are not doing it. They are usually sabotaging their chances for gushing female ejaculate when they are having an orgasm without even knowing it. One of the main reasons that women do not know they can do it is because women will often feel like they need to urinate when they are ready to expel the ejaculate and because they think that urine will come out, they hold back. The ejaculation techniques that I have been training thousands of women and their partners on have been quite effective and not only allow for amazing ejaculations but will also intensify any type (women are capable of eight) of orgasm to mind blowing levels.
Prevention of female ejaculation is a simple clenching down of the Kegel muscles to stop the fluid from coming out. When a woman cannot relax, bare down and push to expel the ejaculate, it comes down to a matter of inhibitions. Often times women are taught not to be messy or sexually assertive. Pushing out ejaculate for a woman can feel like a major sexual breakthrough as it allows her to feel a level of freedom and uninhibited sensuality that she may not have ever felt before.
Sometimes even the most confident of women have a difficult time ejaculating, so it is nothing to be embarrassed about and is certainly not an indicator that something is wrong if she cannot.
A common mistake that many make is to think that that female ejaculation is a result of a gspot orgasm. This is not true. As mentioned earlier, female ejaculation can occur without an orgasm occurring at all. Rather it is just the fluid that has built up in her gspot that gets pushed out. Pressure on the gspot can help that fluid to come out, so that is why it is easy to make the mistake of thinking that it is a gspot orgasm.
Women who ejaculate have been known to ejaculate in large amounts. There is a great deal of debate that still goes around even between the most well versed sexual health professionals. Some say that it is the ejaculate and urine mixed together. While some say that it is retrograde ejaculation which means that the fluid has gone out the gspot and up into an empty bladder or filled the urethra and then comes out. Others say that it is a building up of fluid that fills the Skenes glands (gspot) and then like salvia in your mouth, keeps filling back up and does so at a very quick rate.
Female Ejaculation Facts
Where Does Female Ejaculation Come From?
Part of the reason that the gspot and it's functioning was ignored was because it does not impact reproduction and therefore it was deemed unimportant. However, as a woman speaking for my sex, I can say that it is truly a great failure on the part of physicians that they have seen only reproductive functioning as important.
After all, it has been determined that prostate massage in men actually reduces the risk of prostate cancer. Could it not be just as important for women to know if draining the gspot could also provide health benefits? When the female prostate (gspot) has become enlarged or caused discomfort it is called female urethral diverticulum or female prostatitis. Many urinary tract infections (UTIs) have been incorrectly diagnosed and treated due to this disregard for the female prostate.
Even beyond the health aspects of female sexuality, women's sexual pleasure is important solely for the sake of itself. As more sexual health professionals are pushing for research in this area we are beginning to see increased education about this which is finally giving women the knowledge they need to be rightfully sexually empowered.
Because the Paraurethral / Skenes glands that make up the gspot are only about 1.5 - 2 inches in length it is reasonable to wonder how up to two cups of fluid can come out. However, as mentioned before there is a great deal of debate regarding it even among sexual health professionals. The pictures below suggest that the theory of retrograde ejaculation may be what is really going on inside.
This is where the fluid has gone out the gspot and up into an empty bladder and then comes out. However, it could also be a fluid that is coming from the kidneys, pass through the bladder and mixing with the fluid from the female prostate. This fluid from the kidneys would most likely be urine. However, there are a lot of factors still being debated on this topic.
You can see a female's bladder get filled during sexual intercourse in these Magnetic resonance images-
There have been clinical tests where a woman's bladder is drained of urine before sexual stimulation and ejaculation. Even though the women's bladders had been drained, they were found to expel anywhere from 50 ml to 900 ml of fluid into a catheter bag. This has lead researchers to conclude that at least some of the liquid must come from the bladder.
Some researchers, like Dr. Gary Schubach have stated in his research that the majority of the female ejaculation originates in the bladder, but the expelled fluid is not quite normal urine. In his research a woman's bladder was emptied using a catheter prior to orgasm. During orgasm a catheter was in place and connected to a collection bag. Analysis of the fluid expelled during orgasm is the basis for his claim.
An oversight to this approach is that the bladder sphincter is normally closed. If it were not, liquid in the bladder would simply come out at any time. By creating an artificial passage and collecting the fluid expelled from the bladder during pelvic muscles contractions is just part of the picture and does not explore if during orgasm this passage normally exists, even if only for a moment.
Some speculate that female ejaculate originates from the kidneys in large volumes which could hold some validity in that magnetic resonance imaging has captured increased fluid in the kidneys when a woman is aroused. Combining this fluid with the fluid that is expelled from the female prostate glands would compliment the lab tests on the fluid.
Therefore, this is an excellent theory and one that should be delved into more through testing such as ultra sound monitoring.
The bladder theory is just one theory and is assumed to be true because doctors are confused about how the fluid can come from the skenes glands (the g-spot) as it could not hold as much as 2 cups of fluid. Thus, they reason that it must come from the bladder.
However, the theory that I lean toward is that it does indeed come from the kidneys and Skenes glands. It is still a controversy and because there have not been any recent studies that I have seen that give absolute proof... it is difficult to say which of the theories is correct with 100% accuracy.
Most women can gush as much as 1.5 - 2 cups of the fluid when ejaculating. However this can be affected by how hydrated a woman is, how much she pushes while ejaculating, and other factors.
The female prostate comes in many different shapes and sizes but the majority of women have a prostate that is positioned near the external urethra and can expel similar amounts of fluid.
Are There Health Problems?
No, in fact that is one of the reasons I am so passionate about teaching women and their partners about female ejaculation because unlike what many think, there is nothing abnormal or unhealthy about it.
It is actually good for you much like the benefits of prostate massage for men. Because it cleanses the urethra it can also PREVENT UTI's (Urinary Tract Infections).
Did you know that thousands of women each year are told that a normal female sexual response such as female ejaculation is a medical problem (incontinence, which it is not) or something that they should be ashamed of as they are thought to be maliciously urinating on their partner(s)?
It's simply ridiculous! So many OBGYNs who should know better, are erroneously telling patients that female ejaculation is not possible... yet did you ever ask them what education they were provided on women's sexual responses... go ahead ask... most are not provided with an education on women's sexual functioning regarding female ejaculation or other such topics while earning their doctorate.
Personally, I think it is a disgrace that our Universities and Colleges are neglecting women's sexual health. I challenge them to rethink their curriculum and start educating their physicians on this important issue! That is why many OBGYNs have been ordering my video and book to educate themselves and their patients!
Michael Williams, MD, OBGYN from Evansville, IN told me that he was thankful that I was offering accurate information on female ejaculation. I think that most doctors shy away from this topic in particular (even when they know how it works) because they fear being associated with porn, being that is one of the only places you will hear about it. Dr. Williams and I agreed on all clinical points and it was frustrating to think that even professionals in the porn industry could make videos on it but had no clue as to how it happens!
Take Seymore Butts for example. Here is a man who has great success in making porn videos and made two on female ejaculation... Squirters I & II. I watched them both as part of my research for my book and I was so disappointed in the clinical aspects that I decided to make a video too. His video was completely inaccurate as to why women ejaculate, despite some of the sexy ejaculation scenes. He simply hired a woman (Alisha Klass) who already was able to female ejaculate to show it, but neither had a clue how she was doing it.
Because women can gush as much as two cups of ejaculate, many people think that it must be urine. Often women who do not know what is happening (and there are many) are embarrassed, confused and find it to be of great concern. It does not help that most health practitioners are not informed about it as many women are being told they require surgery and/or psychotherapy for this normal female sexual response!
If there is one thing that I can stress, it is that female ejaculation is not only visually erotic, but it feels incredible to do it. The kind of sexual release that a woman feels from this powerful gush coming from her sweet pussy is like no other.
Often times, when people find our site, they are convinced that female ejaculation is pee (urine) and that our video clips are just women peeing. This is NOT the case. Female ejaculation is very real, scientific studies that are mentioned in my book The Art of Female Ejaculation and our female ejaculation movie document that it is not pee, but rather similar to prostate fluid which comes from the Kidneys and Skenes glands.
My comment to those skeptics out there is the following-
Considering we all thought the earth was flat and other such nonsense, I find it quite humorous that people suspect female ejaculation to be as erroneous as a woman peeing. Considering the lack of previous study of women's sexuality until recent years, I find it rather presumptuous of people to think that if it were true we would all have been educated about it long ago.
You may recall that once upon a time, we were hanging women for being a witch just because she expressed an interest in sexuality, so while the feminist movement did help women's sexual issues become more acceptable and we have come a long way... we have a lot further to go.
I have spent a lot of time developing techniques for both women and their partners to help a woman achieve female ejaculation. You can gain access to those techniques in my 150 page ebook - The Art of Female Ejaculation eBook
I have been asked what is my personal favorite sex toy for achieving female ejaculation and that would be the Hitachi Magic Wand with the blue Gspotter Attachment. I also recommend other powerful dual action vibrators as they provide simultaneous gspot and clitoral stimulation.
The most simple way of explaining how to do it is to bare down and push when you feel like you are about to have an orgasm rather than clenching tight. There are many other things that can also be done as covered in my book, but that is the biggest piece to the puzzle.
Because women can urinate and ejaculate at the same time, it is recommended that women should try to urinate before sexual play if they want to avoid urination during an ejaculatory experience.
Some women experience female ejaculation when they do not want to. The best way to stop it, is to simply not push outward during an orgasm. Women can also clench down on the urethra by using their Kegel muscles, much like they would to stop the flow of urine. The more developed the Kegel muscles, the easier it will be to control it.
Learn more about Kegel Exercise.
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