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Anal Play Make anal play more pleasureful with a beaded sex toy designed to stimulate anal nerve endings!
If you are looking for a new level of arousal, have fun stripping for one another by doing strip teases! Also makes a fun exercise routine for yourself, your partner or even with a friend!
When First Using Anal Sex Toys For first time users of anal sex toys, it is important to remember that using any kind of flexible jelly type toys may be hard to insert as you may be tensing and inadvertently keeping your sphincter muscle tight and closed, not allowing the toy to enter. You may also want to avoid using a toy that is overly hard as you need to get used to what this feels like and because of inexperience you may cause damage. Therefore using something like the Silicone Dildo to the right is a good toy to start with as it is soft, yet firm enough for entry. It also has a great handle for easy maneuvering.
With the advancement of cock rings you can give her clitoral and anal stimulation as you thrust your penis or dildo inside her leaving her begging for more! Blow Job Tip
Lubricate the penis with a flavored lubricant. Hold his penis firmly by the base of the penis with your thumb and pointer finger in a tight circle to force the blood to the head. Take your other hand and use your thumb and pointer finger to lightly slide up and down in a twisting motion. Then lightly run the tip of your tongue over the opening of his penis. Look at him lustfully as you lick the tasty lubricant off him. You will have him at your mercy! New Underwear Treat yourself to some new underwear if you have stains, holes or they are ill fitting. How we take care of ourselves speaks to how we will take care of our lover as well. Don't forget to invest in some comfortable as well as sensual underwear to remind you all day of the sexy lover you have underneath your clothes! Improve Orgasms Through Breathing Take deep breaths while you're masturbating or sexually active and it will allow for a greater release during orgasm. Vary Penis Thrusting During Sex Men, don't mindlessly pump away like a jackhammer from start to finish... mix it up a bit; go fast at times, then slowly. Go all the way in at times, and other times let only the tip of your head in. Tease and satisfy her longing for you! Lose Your Senses When we hear of loss of vision, we often think of someone who has a better sense of smell, taste, touch and hearing because they are no longer depending on that part of the brain to interpret things. Thus, the other sense become increased. Use a blindfold to increase the other senses and make sexual play more interesting! Make Semen Taste Sweeter Plums, Spearmint, Oranges, Grapefruit, Lemons, Limes, Green tea, Beer, Pineapple, Mangoes, Cilantro, Chamomile tea. Reduce The Following To Avoid Bitter Semen- Brussels Sprouts, Coffee, Chocolate, Cigarettes, Asparagus, Chemically processed liquor, Onions, Garlic, Dairy Products, Red meat. Finger Her Like A Bowling Ball Try inserting your first two fingers into her vagina, then arch your thumb back 'hitch-hiker' style and thrust in until your thumb rests against her clitoris. Now wriggle, twist, thrust, and vibrate your hand to drive her wild. You can also go for double penetration with one of your fingers in her anus! Share Fantasies & Dreams Share naughty fantasies and dreams. Ask your partner to say out loud a sentence of their sexual fantasy and then you say the next sentence. Move the story on one sentence at a time - and as you get to the physical bits, act out what you're describing. Sex With Vibes Don't just go solo with your vibrator. Only 25% of women climax through penetrative sex alone, so use a vibrator while being penetrated for mind blowing orgasms! Use Lube When Performing Oral Sex Lubricant is a must with condoms, gloves, and dams, and toys but tasty lubes can make oral sex even tastier for the giver and many claim the extra lube makes it even more sensitive and arousing!
For men, to make masturbation more stimulating... use Vibrafem to enhance the sensation while using your hand or even a masturbation sleeve like a Fleshlight! Fellatio
Gagging Some people have a hard time with controlling their gag reflex when giving head. It happens to even the skilled fellatio giver from time to time, so there is nothing to be embarrassed about. Some people use Chloraseptic Throat Spray or children's teething gel to numb the back of their throat and allow for easier deep throating and swallowing. Although psychologically letting go of the fear of gagging is really the best approach. Think about how sword swallowers get that blade down their throat... it certainly isn't by tensing their throat muscles! Deeper Penetration
Penetrate your partner deeper by having their pelvis lifted. The wedge and the ramp are my favorites, but they also work well with the other shapes- the cube and stage.
Before or after sexual activity a great quick way to clean up is by using baby wipes, in fact, a strippers technique, many people use them instead of toilet paper for clean up after any bowel movement. Sexual Muscle Workout Contractions of the PC (pubococcygeus) muscle are associated with increased sexual pleasure for both men. PC muscle contractions ("Kegels") are easy to learn and can assist in providing better control for men to extend their orgasm and for women to intensify orgasms. Cool It Most people know that mints can make oral sex even better and Altoids- The Curiously Strong Mints are your best choice. They contain peppermint oil, which has a higher content of menthol than spearmint, making them zingier in your mouth and on your private parts. Use Sex Toys During Sex Don't forget that doing things like using your vibrator while being penetrated by fingers or a penis is a great way to have one orgasm after another! Also,
use sex toys during oral sex as well.
Don't Use Nonoxynol 9 Nonoxynol 9 is a common ingredient in spermicides and lubricant, previously thought to help reduce the risk of HIV infection. Not only have recent studies proven this untrue, they've also discovered that Nonoxynol 9 actually leads to infections, which can help transmit the disease.
Solo Bath Tub Fun Put your legs up while laying flat on your back in your bath tub. Let very warm water run over your genitals (vaginal lips, clit / balls or shaft) while you masturbate. For women, you may want to use a waterproof vibe like the Waterdancer for more intense clitoral stimulation, while men can use a waterproof lubricant or massage oil for added hand action!
Very Warm Washcloth When getting ready for sex, you can create an erotic mood by taking a hot, wet wash cloth and wiping down your lover's genitals. This is a practical move as it cleans your lover before sex while warming their genitals and increasing blood flow to that area. It makes for a very nice sensation and is a wonderful way to warm them up for more! Once your lover is ready, add the slickness back into your play with a sweet tasting lubricant or get her juices flowing by running a vibrator up and down her vaginal lips or over her clitoris to get things really hot!
Doggy Territory Stance When your partner assumes the doggy position, simply lift their leg and either keep it against your hip or hold it up by the thigh. This way, you can penetrate them even deeper and your balls will gently tap against their genitals. You can also do a reach around if your balance allows it.
Enhancing Sex - Vibrating Cock Rings Use a vibrating erection ring for added pleasure provides increased stamina and pleasure for both partners. Also use with your favorite vibrator or dildo for solo play!
Oral With Vibes When you perform oral sex use a small vibrator to simultaneously stimulate her clitoris or his testicles, perineum or anus. The vibrating sensation along with your oral stimulation is a sure winner with most people!
Washing With Style Have your man sit on top of the washing machine while you have sex (you on top, with your legs wrapped around him). Can also work with a woman with a dildo and her partner wrapping around her. The vibrations carry through his penis, turning him into a wonderful vibrator. For the best results, select the cotton cycle. It's a warm wash so his butt won't get cold, plus it has the longest, fastest spin. Good clean fun.
Play With Your Lovers Hair When you want to begin a sexual experience, a great way to relax your lover is to simply play with their hair. From brushing it, to braiding it stimulating the scalp through hair play is a great way to stimulate the nerve endings and quite the mind. It allows for a soft, sweet beginning to getting physical and allows your lover to feel pampered!
6 Things Most Women Enjoy In Bed 1. Sensuality. For most women being touched all over their body, including being passionately kissed is a great turn on. 2. Massage Oils, Lubricants and Warming oils. Women often enjoy the feeling of being pampered and the increased sensation that lubricants and massage oils bring. 3. Legs Over Your Shoulders. This position allows a woman to have her g-spot better accessed and is quite pleasureful. Throw in a Liberator wedge or ramp for an added lift and pleasure. 4. Warning Her You Are Going To Orgasm. Women want to know when you are about to orgasm, it allows them to prepare mentally and physically as well as make any requests they would like to make before you do. 5. Eye Contact. Just like men enjoy having a woman look at him while giving him pleasure, women enjoy that in return. Looking in her eyes lets her know you are connecting with her, and is a great way to create intimacy. 5. Sex Toys More and more women are enjoying the thrills of using clitoral vibrators while you stimulate them vaginally, anally or even on their nipples. Doubling up stimulation or watching one another play with toys is a way to not only pleasure but stay creative and highly stimulated!
Play With Him Soft When you go down on a man begin while he is still soft and without an erection. It really turns men on to think that you can make him hard with a few flicks and twists of your tongue and it feels great for him to get hard in your mouth.
Ten Things Not To Do To A Man In Bed 1. When Giving Oral Sex To A Man Don't Use Your Teeth Too Much! 2. Don't Pull On His Balls Too Hard During Sex Play. 3. Don't Put Your Finger Up His Butt Unless He Tells You It Is All Right 4. Don't Lick His Penis Like An Lollipop. Learn To Give A Good Blow Job. 5. Don't Keep Sucking Hard On His Penis After He Orgasms... Too Sensitive! 6. Don't Stop Doing Something When He Is Moaning In Ecstasy! 7. Don't Pinch His Nipples Unless He likes It. And Then Find Out How Much. 8. Talk Naughty, Not Nasty. Learn How To Entice Not Repel. 9. Don't Be Too Shy. The Thrill Of The Chase Only Goes So Far. 10. Don't Be Afraid To Try New Techniques.
Swim In The Shallow End Masters and Johnson found that the outer third of the vagina is the most sensitive, so deep thrusting isn't essential. Use the tip of his penis or sex toy in your vagina and move in an out staying shallow (3-4 inches in).
Vibrators For Men Vibrators are not just for women. Men can use many vibrators from Masturbation Sleeves to standard vibrators like the Hitachi Magic Wand or Waterdancer. Men can use them to enhance masturbation as well as sexual play to stimulate their nipples, anus, prostate and various parts of the penis.
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