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Quick Sex Tips

Penis Feel Thicker

To make your penis feel thicker, you don't have to resort to dangerous penis enlargement pills, techniques or surgery. Try a penis sleeve for extending the size and for added pleasure!


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Orgasms Come To Quick For Women

For women who feel that their orgasms end too quickly, you may not be 'riding the wave.' A woman's orgasm comes in a wave of pleasure. If you discontinue stimulation to quickly, you may only feel the first part of the wave. If the stimulation is too intense to continue, simply use your fingers or move your vibrator to a less intense position to continue through the entire orgasm.

Also, take a deep breath just as you feel the orgasm to stay relaxed. Often we tense up and stay tense through the climax. Try taking deep, cleansing breathes before, during and after. It will help you to ride the climax through to the end. Enjoy!


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The Art of Female Ejaculation

 

Farting In Bed

When you make an embarrassing mistake during sex, like farting, suggesting something that your partner gets offended by, blurting out dirty talk that your partner dislikes or even another person's name... react positively and with a sense of humor, that way your partner will be laughing with you.


Better Sex DVDS For Foreplay

 

Considering Swinging?

If you are considering sex with more than one person or exploring a swinger lifestyle, you may want to learn more about it through articles, books, interviews with those who have done it and even DVDs. Better to be well informed about what you are getting yourself into than jump in and regret it. Swinger Instruction DVDs

Guide To Alternative Sex

 

Best Sex Toy For Female Ejaculation

For a sex toy that helps make female ejaculation possible see our-
Hitachi Magic Wand With Gspotter Attachment

Hitachi Magic Wand

Flavored Lube Review

Don't just blindly buy flavored lubricants off the Internet because of the label. Some of them taste synthetic and even have a bad aftertaste. Make sure to get real feedback from people who have tried them to ensure you are getting what you really desire!
Flavored Lubricant Reviews


Massage Candles

To give a really sensual and hot massage, use scented soy oil candles that allow you to drip the warmed oils on your lover's skin and massage in. This eliminates that cold feeling from regular oils and offers candle light during the massage! Suntouched Candles




 

Anal Play

Make anal play more pleasureful with a beaded sex toy designed to stimulate anal nerve endings!

 

Learn Strip Tease

If you are looking for a new level of arousal, have fun stripping for one another by doing strip teases! Also makes a fun exercise routine for yourself, your partner or even with a friend!

 

When First Using Anal Sex Toys

For first time users of anal sex toys, it is important to remember that using any kind of flexible jelly type toys may be hard to insert as you may be tensing and inadvertently keeping your sphincter muscle tight and closed, not allowing the toy to enter.

You may also want to avoid using a toy that is overly hard as you need to get used to what this feels like and because of inexperience you may cause damage.

Therefore using something like the Silicone Dildo to the right is a good toy to start with as it is soft, yet firm enough for entry. It also has a great handle for easy maneuvering.

Cock Rings For Clitoral & Anal Stimulation

With the advancement of cock rings you can give her clitoral and anal stimulation as you thrust your penis or dildo inside her leaving her begging for more!

Blow Job Tip

Blow Job TipsThis tip is for when your mouth is tired and you want to take a break without stopping-

Lubricate the penis with a flavored lubricant. Hold his penis firmly by the base of the penis with your thumb and pointer finger in a tight circle to force the blood to the head. Take your other hand and use your thumb and pointer finger to lightly slide up and down in a twisting motion. Then lightly run the tip of your tongue over the opening of his penis. Look at him lustfully as you lick the tasty lubricant off him. You will have him at your mercy!

New Underwear

Treat yourself to some new underwear if you have stains, holes or they are ill fitting. How we take care of ourselves speaks to how we will take care of our lover as well. Don't forget to invest in some comfortable as well as sensual underwear to remind you all day of the sexy lover you have underneath your clothes!

Improve Orgasms Through Breathing

Take deep breaths while you're masturbating or sexually active and it will allow for a greater release during orgasm.

Vary Penis Thrusting During Sex

Men, don't mindlessly pump away like a jackhammer from start to finish... mix it up a bit; go fast at times, then slowly. Go all the way in at times, and other times let only the tip of your head in. Tease and satisfy her longing for you!

Lose Your Senses

When we hear of loss of vision, we often think of someone who has a better sense of smell, taste, touch and hearing because they are no longer depending on that part of the brain to interpret things. Thus, the other sense become increased. Use a blindfold to increase the other senses and make sexual play more interesting!

Make Semen Taste Sweeter

Plums, Spearmint, Oranges, Grapefruit, Lemons, Limes, Green tea, Beer, Pineapple, Mangoes, Cilantro, Chamomile tea.

Reduce The Following To Avoid Bitter Semen-

Brussels Sprouts, Coffee, Chocolate, Cigarettes, Asparagus, Chemically processed liquor, Onions, Garlic, Dairy Products, Red meat.

Finger Her Like A Bowling Ball

Try inserting your first two fingers into her vagina, then arch your thumb back 'hitch-hiker' style and thrust in until your thumb rests against her clitoris. Now wriggle, twist, thrust, and vibrate your hand to drive her wild. You can also go for double penetration with one of your fingers in her anus!

Share Fantasies & Dreams

Share naughty fantasies and dreams. Ask your partner to say out loud a sentence of their sexual fantasy and then you say the next sentence. Move the story on one sentence at a time - and as you get to the physical bits, act out what you're describing.

Sex With Vibes

Don't just go solo with your vibrator. Only 25% of women climax through penetrative sex alone, so use a vibrator while being penetrated for mind blowing orgasms!

Use Lube When Performing Oral Sex

Lubricant is a must with condoms, gloves, and dams, and toys but tasty lubes can make oral sex even tastier for the giver and many claim the extra lube makes it even more sensitive and arousing!


Male Masturbation

For men, to make masturbation more stimulating... use Vibrafem to enhance the sensation while using your hand or even a masturbation sleeve like a Fleshlight!

Fellatio Gagging

Some people have a hard time with controlling their gag reflex when giving head. It happens to even the skilled fellatio giver from time to time, so there is nothing to be embarrassed about. Some people use Chloraseptic Throat Spray or children's teething gel to numb the back of their throat and allow for easier deep throating and swallowing. Although psychologically letting go of the fear of gagging is really the best approach. Think about how sword swallowers get that blade down their throat... it certainly isn't by tensing their throat muscles!

Deeper Penetration

Penetrate your partner deeper by having their pelvis lifted. The wedge and the ramp are my favorites, but they also work well with the other shapes- the cube and stage.


Quick Clean Up

Before or after sexual activity a great quick way to clean up is by using baby wipes, in fact, a strippers technique, many people use them instead of toilet paper for clean up after any bowel movement.

Sexual Muscle Workout

Contractions of the PC (pubococcygeus) muscle are associated with increased sexual pleasure for both men. PC muscle contractions ("Kegels") are easy to learn and can assist in providing better control for men to extend their orgasm and for women to intensify orgasms.

Cool It

Most people know that mints can make oral sex even better and Altoids- The Curiously Strong Mints are your best choice. They contain peppermint oil, which has a higher content of menthol than spearmint, making them zingier in your mouth and on your private parts.

Use Sex Toys During Sex

Don't forget that doing things like using your vibrator while being penetrated by fingers or a penis is a great way to have one orgasm after another!

Also, use sex toys during oral sex as well.
Nothing like a vibrator on you while you give oral sex, or double their pleasure with an anal toy while you give them oral sex. The possibilities are limitless!

 

Don't Use Nonoxynol 9

Nonoxynol 9 is a common ingredient in spermicides and lubricant, previously thought to help reduce the risk of HIV infection. Not only have recent studies proven this untrue, they've also discovered that Nonoxynol 9 actually leads to infections, which can help transmit the disease.

 

Solo Bath Tub Fun

Put your legs up while laying flat on your back in your bath tub. Let very warm water run over your genitals (vaginal lips, clit / balls or shaft) while you masturbate. For women, you may want to use a waterproof vibe like the Waterdancer for more intense clitoral stimulation, while men can use a waterproof lubricant or massage oil for added hand action!

 

Very Warm Washcloth

When getting ready for sex, you can create an erotic mood by taking a hot, wet wash cloth and wiping down your lover's genitals. This is a practical move as it cleans your lover before sex while warming their genitals and increasing blood flow to that area. It makes for a very nice sensation and is a wonderful way to warm them up for more!

Once your lover is ready, add the slickness back into your play with a sweet tasting lubricant or get her juices flowing by running a vibrator up and down her vaginal lips or over her clitoris to get things really hot!

 

Doggy Territory Stance

When your partner assumes the doggy position, simply lift their leg and either keep it against your hip or hold it up by the thigh. This way, you can penetrate them even deeper and your balls will gently tap against their genitals. You can also do a reach around if your balance allows it.

 

Enhancing Sex - Vibrating Cock Rings

Use a vibrating erection ring for added pleasure provides increased stamina and pleasure for both partners.

Also use with your favorite vibrator or dildo for solo play!

 

Oral With Vibes

When you perform oral sex use a small vibrator to simultaneously stimulate her clitoris or his testicles, perineum or anus. The vibrating sensation along with your oral stimulation is a sure winner with most people!

 

Washing With Style

Have your man sit on top of the washing machine while you have sex (you on top, with your legs wrapped around him). Can also work with a woman with a dildo and her partner wrapping around her.

The vibrations carry through his penis, turning him into a wonderful vibrator. For the best results, select the cotton cycle. It's a warm wash so his butt won't get cold, plus it has the longest, fastest spin. Good clean fun.

 

Play With Your Lovers Hair

When you want to begin a sexual experience, a great way to relax your lover is to simply play with their hair. From brushing it, to braiding it stimulating the scalp through hair play is a great way to stimulate the nerve endings and quite the mind. It allows for a soft, sweet beginning to getting physical and allows your lover to feel pampered!

 

6 Things Most Women Enjoy In Bed

1. Sensuality.

For most women being touched all over their body, including being passionately kissed is a great turn on.

2. Massage Oils, Lubricants and Warming oils.

Women often enjoy the feeling of being pampered and the increased sensation that lubricants and massage oils bring.

3. Legs Over Your Shoulders.

This position allows a woman to have her g-spot better accessed and is quite pleasureful. Throw in a Liberator wedge or ramp for an added lift and pleasure.

4. Warning Her You Are Going To Orgasm.

Women want to know when you are about to orgasm, it allows them to prepare mentally and physically as well as make any requests they would like to make before you do.

5. Eye Contact.

Just like men enjoy having a woman look at him while giving him pleasure, women enjoy that in return. Looking in her eyes lets her know you are connecting with her, and is a great way to create intimacy.

5. Sex Toys

More and more women are enjoying the thrills of using clitoral vibrators while you stimulate them vaginally, anally or even on their nipples. Doubling up stimulation or watching one another play with toys is a way to not only pleasure but stay creative and highly stimulated!

 

Play With Him Soft

When you go down on a man begin while he is still soft and without an erection. It really turns men on to think that you can make him hard with a few flicks and twists of your tongue and it feels great for him to get hard in your mouth.

 

Ten Things Not To Do To A Man In Bed

1.  When Giving Oral Sex To A Man Don't Use Your Teeth Too Much!

2.  Don't Pull On His Balls Too Hard During Sex Play.

3.  Don't Put Your Finger Up His Butt Unless He Tells You It Is All Right

4.  Don't Lick His Penis Like An Lollipop. Learn To Give A Good Blow Job.

5.  Don't Keep Sucking Hard On His Penis After He Orgasms... Too Sensitive!

6.  Don't Stop Doing Something When He Is Moaning In Ecstasy!

7.  Don't Pinch His Nipples Unless He likes It. And Then Find Out How Much.

8.  Talk Naughty, Not Nasty. Learn How To Entice Not Repel.

9.  Don't Be Too Shy. The Thrill Of The Chase Only Goes So Far.

10. Don't Be Afraid To Try New Techniques.

 

Swim In The Shallow End

Masters and Johnson found that the outer third of the vagina is the most sensitive, so deep thrusting isn't essential. Use the tip of his penis or sex toy in your vagina and move in an out staying shallow (3-4 inches in).

 

Vibrators For Men

Vibrators are not just for women. Men can use many vibrators from Masturbation Sleeves to standard vibrators like the Hitachi Magic Wand or Waterdancer. Men can use them to enhance masturbation as well as sexual play to stimulate their nipples, anus, prostate and various parts of the penis.

 

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