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Finding A Good Sex Toy

Common concerns about purchasing a sex toy are- "I bought the wrong sex toy in the past and now I don't know what to get." "I want a particular sex toy, but is it worth the cost?" "What will my partner think of me for wanting a sex toy?"

Lisa S. Lawless, Ph.D., C.E.O. HolisticWisdom.com Founder

If these thoughts sound familiar, you are not alone. There's nothing like expecting a night of fireworks from a new sex toy and then finding it to be a disappointment. Sure there are sex toys that are more hype than help, but as often as not, the consumer hasn't done enough of his or her own homework when selecting the sex toy.

Looking At Recommendations

You wouldn't buy a movie on DVD without knowing anything about it, and since you can't test-drive a sex toy, you really want to think about some of this stuff before buying! Here are some basic pointers for looking at sex toys:

If you are just starting out with your first or second sex toy, then you will want to check out our featured sex toys. I post them there as they are what many people (including myself) enjoy. Also, note our reviews by staff, customers and our star ratings.

Many sex toy makers who want us to sell their sex toys, assure us that their toy is fantastic. Yet, it is important to me that they actually live up to their reputation and deliver what people are expecting them to be, so we certainly don't rush to have every sex toy offered on our site. Rather we focus on what is good and take our time in adding new products to make sure we are providing high quality. That is what you should be looking for where ever you purchase a sex toy.

Potential Financial Disappointment

If you're hesitant to experiment with sex toys because of the money or the unknown factor, here's a little perspective: think of a disappointing sex toy experience as somewhat akin to a disappointing meal out. You might pay $60 at a fancy restaurant for a meal that didn't thrill you, but it wouldn't stop you from trying another new restaurant.

When you do stumble upon a great restaurant, you've just improved the quality of your life. Accept the fact that not all sex toy experiences will be mind blowing ones, but that the more you explore, the more likely you are to end up with the orgasmic equivalent of culinary delight.

Sex Toys & Partners

If you're buying a toy for partner play, it helps to keep this adage in mind: "you can't please all the people all the time". What works for you might not work for your partner, so if you're expecting the toy to deliver amazing simultaneous mutual orgasms, there's a good chance you'll be disappointed.

Finally, make sure your partner is a willing participant, otherwise you run the risk of making them feel inadequate or insecure if you whip out a new toy in the heat of passion. Also, make sure to keep a sense of humor, which comes in handy when you're strapping on a purple dildo or a cock ring that looks like a bunny. Whether or not the toys can live up to your expectations, sharing sex toys with partners is a great way to communicate about your sexual needs and to explore new erotic adventures.