Take Pride In The Appearance Of Your Most Sacred Grotto
If you begin to take personal pride in the appearance of your most sacred grotto, things will shift. You'll have to accept yourself as a sexual being. You see, a little activity like pubic shaving can bring up all sorts of resistance. Questions about identity and personal values naturally surface. Then you have to look at and decide what's true for you.
For example, some people think that only porn stars groom their pubes. Not so. A recent web poll asked readers about pubic hair grooming. Here's how they responded...
Taking care of your pubic hair isn't preparation for a sojourn at a nudist camp or declaring you want to be promiscuous. It's revering your most sacred of spaces for your own pride. And the pleasure of those you invite in.
Pubic grooming can be practical for active lovers. Tantrikas (Tantric adepts) love the incredible slipperiness of loveplay when completely smooth vagina, lips, penis, and testicles meet. So will you if you haven't tried it!
Somraj's vajra (Tantric for penis) doesn't like the bristle of a growing bush, both on the giving and receiving side. He trims around vajra's base every couple weeks or so to keep the wildest hairs at bay and out of the way when open access is desired. He even keeps the bush around his balls shorter, but not stubby. That's what works for him. What works best for you?
Joys And Challenges Of Your Own Personal Yoni-Do
Women, do you have a yoni-do? Yoni is the ancient Tantric word for vagina. Have you ever shaved down there? We don't urge one form over another, but we do suggest you consider your preferences.
Some women care for their pubic hairdo just as they do their head hair. Some like a tidy crotch, some create a heart or other design over their mound, some shave completely naked down to yoni's opening . What's your pleasure? We honor all manifestations of the Goddess.
If you've worked at keeping your hair trimmed so it doesn't grow bushily outside your bikini bottom, you understand some of the challenges involved with regular pubic shaving. In a recent Cosmo web poll, 32% of women reported that they've had a horrendous bikini line hair removal experience. Harsh chemicals, razor burns, ingrown hairs all can have disastrous effects on some of your most cherished and sensitive tissues. In fact, here's what Joanna, aged 19, shared...
"One fall, I was an aquatics director and had a crush on this cute lifeguard who was visiting from Australia. He was a good-natured guy and was always grinning, so when I found out I'd be teaching swimming lessons with him, I was psyched. The morning of my first lesson I remembered I hadn't shaved my bikini line, so I tried this new hair-removal cream. I had it on for five minutes when my skin began to sting like crazy. I washed it off and saw I had this disgusting wet-like rash all along my bikini line. It was obvious, but I had to go teach the lesson anyway. At the pool, I reluctantly peeled off my shorts and prayed no one would notice, but as soon as the kids saw me in my suit, they started pointing at the bumps near my crotch and asking if they were bug bites. One boy even asked the hunky Australian if he knew what they were. When he glanced over at my scary bikini line, he stopped smiling and shuddered."
What's The Best Way To Shave Down There?
In our humble Tantric opinion, the best way is give your intimate partner the job. Yes, you've got to be out-there and proud of every part of yourself to do this. Which is a big reason why we suggest making your beloved your pubic hair stylist. Another is because of the powerful impact on your intimacy.
Besides, your lover has a personal stake in the look and feel of your jewels. We know many couples who bestow the responsibility for jewel hairdos on their partner. It takes a lot of trust in your partner and yourself to allow another to take razor or trimmer to such a delicate place. Of course, investing a few dollars in a good shaver makes it much safer. To start with, answer some questions...
Once you've got a idea, it's time to experiment by putting on your pubic hair identity.
Try This At Home Tonight
Discuss with your partner some of the options you've considered. Find out what she or he might like. Discuss the possibility of your partner shaving you. Just talking about it can be quite a turn on. You can be trimmed while laying down with your legs spread. Or you can sit on the edge of chair or bathtub with your personal stylist at your feet. For better access, put one leg on your shaver's shoulder. Have a hand mirror within reach so you can consult with the unfolding jewel-do. And then be proud of your divine landscape. Declare out loud, "Go ahead, enjoy shaving my precious jewels! I'm going to watch and love it myself."
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