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Strap Ons          A New World of Pleasure Many people have never considered using a strap-on thinking it something only lesbians or porn actresses use. On the contrary, many couples are using them including women on men and men on women.

Lisa S. Lawless, Ph.D., C.E.O. HolisticWisdom.com Founder

Using a strap on can be pleasureful to the one being penetrated and with some strap-ons providing attached toys to pleasure the one wearing it they can be a whole new world of fun and excitement. They certainly add creativity to the bedroom and are visually fun!

Don't Make The Mistake Of Stereotyping

Women who use strap-ons do not often secretly want to be men. Most of the time it is the thrill of trying something new and allowing for more creativity and play. Men who are penetrated by strap-ons are not necessarily gay either.

What Is A Strap On?

A strap-on is a harness that attaches to a dildo of some form. The harness usually has a triangle, rectangle or oval front that sits over a woman or mans genitals. The front piece has a circle opening to allow the special dildo with a flared base to fit in. This allows a woman to have an artificial penis or other shaft like toy while men are able to get strap ons that allow them to double penetrate their partner or simply use it in place of their own penis.

Why Use A Strap On?

• Strap-ons free the hands, allowing to use them for other fun things.
  
  
• Strap-ons allow gender-bending fun allowing women to enjoy thrusting as men do.
  
  
• Strap-ons allow men to play with two erections simultaneously. Some men enjoy using strap-on dildos that are noticeably larger or smaller than their own erections. In addition, having two penises opens the possibility of double penetration, both vaginal and anal at the same time.



• Strap-ons can help compensate for erection problems.
  
  
• Visual Stimulation
  
  
• Strap-ons aid in creativity & intimacy encouraging experimentation & communication.
  
  
  

Thongs & Jocks

Thong-style Harnesses-

One strap circles the waist or hips and the other strap connects to the base of the front piece then runs between the wearer's legs, up through the butt cheeks (like a thong), attaching to the waist/hip strap in back.

Jock-style Harnesses-

One strap encircles the waist or hips and attaches to the front piece. Two other straps attach to the base or sides of the front piece and circle each of the wearer's thighs, attaching to the waist/hip strap in back.

Some things to consider when choosing which style you prefer:

Thong harnesses have fewer straps than jock-style harnesses, which means fewer strap adjustments. But the extra strap of the jock-style harness provides extra support for the dildo. On thongs, the strap that runs between the wearer's legs provides genital and anal stimulation. The strap that runs between the legs on the thong-style makes the anus, clitoris, vulva and vagina somewhat less accessible. With the jock-style, the wearer's anus and genitals are left exposed.

Size Of The Harness-

Harnesses come in "one size fits most" size with elastic straps that need no adjustments, while others have straps that are adjustable with either buckles or backpack-style rings.

To put on a harness, simply slip the dildo into the O-ring, step into the harness and adjust the straps for a comfortable but snug fit. If, after adjusting, there’s a lot of excess strap, you can always trim it down. If it is made with nylon straps, you can carefully singe the ends with a lighted match to prevent fraying.

Getting The Right Dildo(s)-

Harnesses are typically marketed in kits that include dildos designed to fit their front piece opening or O-ring. However, if you buy one without the dildo or if you want to add one or more extra dildos. When you purchase a strap-on dildo it should have a flared base that’s flat on the bottom as it helps hold the dildo snugly.

Tips for Strap-On Pleasure-

At first you may feel awkward using a strap on and like anything new it may take time to get used to the feeling of it. Make sure to use ample lubricant when using strap-ons and if the dildo has been inserted anally, it should be thoroughly washed with soap and water and/or a sex toy cleaner before it enters the recipient's vagina or mouth. Enjoy!

 

See Our Strap Ons Dildo harnesses are great fun whether you use them for vaginal or anal pleasure, you are sure to enjoy the power of thrusting into your partner as they moan and yell for more!