Urine Or Female Ejaculation?

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Is it normal for a woman having had five [children] to feel such an increase in pressure and the first two ejaculations be small and some what of a scented smell but not urine (pee) smelling and able on third to flow up like a water fountain and absolutely no smell at all just so warm and somewhat slippery?

Is it possible that the small gushes are actually a small amount of unscented or faintly scented urine?

If you have time to respond that would be great cause I would like so much to share my experience of my first fountain running female ejaculation with you ....my partner who forwarded your site to me and his sexy little encouragement of saying I know you can do it...

Thanks for your question. I think a lot of people are confused about this issue and so I am glad you asked for clarification.

There are two types of female sexual response fluids (cum) which are termed as urethral and vaginal ejaculation fluids. The one most commonly seen in our culture is vaginal ejaculate, which lubricates the vaginal walls and oozes out during sexual arousal. Called, leukorrhea, it contains vaginal secretions from walls of the vagina. It's the vagina's natural way of cleaning itself. It is slightly acidic to keep infections away.

Urethral ejaculate is what we are referring to when describing female ejaculation and is less common, not because women are not capable, but rather due to lack of understanding of women's sexual health issues in this culture. This ejaculate comes from the Skenes glands (the glands that make up the g-spot) and is similar to prostate fluid in men. This is because the female g-spot is essentially the equivalent to the prostate in males.

Female ejaculation is not going to smell of urine, so if what comes out is yellowish in color or smells strongly of urine it most likely is urine. However, sometimes women have excreted small amounts of urine when they are ejaculating. This is because, unlike men, women can actually urinate during sex. While it takes a bit of effort to do it, women can urinate while sexually aroused so it often leaves women confused about what is coming out of them. It is even more confusing for women when they "gush" large amounts (2 cups) of female ejaculate because most women would assume that in those large amounts it is urine.

Because female ejaculate is coming from the Skenes/Paraurethral glands that make up the G-spot and is similar to prostate fluid in men, we know that it is not urine. However, because the Skenes/Paraurethral glands connect to the Urethra as does the bladder it is possible for both female ejaculate and urine to come out at the same time and is a big part of why people are convinced that it is urine when it occurs.

This is a big reason as to why I highly recommend urinating before sexual activity as it will alleviate concerns that it is urine or partly urine when a woman is trying to orgasm and possibly ejaculate. Sometimes, if the sexual activity is occurring over a long period of time, it might be a good idea to break and try and urinate again to make sure your bladder is empty. That way you are doing what you can to keep from urinating during sexual activity.

In regard to the way you are ejaculating... increasing in fluid amounts with the number of times you are doing it. This is not as common as the opposite (decreasing the amount of fluid with the number of times a woman ejaculates) but it does have a logical explanation.

Often, the amount of fluid is based on hydration and the level and length of sexual arousal in a woman. The more aroused a woman is the more her body will make of the ejaculate. It may simply be a case of you producing more fluid during later ejaculations because you are building sexual arousal.

For most women, it takes them a little bit of time to get worked up enough that they even feel the need to ejaculate and by that time they have built up a large amount of fluid. Once it is expelled, the body makes more, however the more they expel the fluid, there is often a decrease in the amounts just because the body is having to work harder to create the fluid by drawing water out of the body and building to a sexual release again.

For more information, demonstrations and step-by-step guidance I would recommend getting the eBook, hardcopy book or video (DVD, VHS, VOD) of The Art of Female Ejaculation, as there is a lot more to female ejaculation is the reason why I wrote a 150 page book and 1.5 hour video on it... as it is too much to go into through a brief reply in our newsletter.

I hope that the information I provided you with the answer you were hoping for, and that this finds you well.