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What
Is The
GSpot
It's
History, Finding It, Stimulating It, Female Ejaculation, &
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The
term "G-Spot" was referred to in the 1950's through an article
in the International Journal of Sexology in
which Dr. Ernest Gräfenberg wrote about sexual sensitivity
along the anterior vaginal wall. It later became more widely
know through a book, The G-Spot and Other Recent Discoveries
About Human Sexuality.
The
Chinese concept of the G-spot may have been the first documentation,
referring to it as the Palace of Yin. Though
the term is often used simply as meaning "womb," it specifically
refers to the location in the body where there is an orgasmic
secretion called moon flower medicine.
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Lisa
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Ancient's
insight into female ejaculation and the female prostatic glands
or G-spot as it is now referred to, were certainly overlooked
for many years in Western medicine's neglect of women's sexuality.
No
further serious research was done until Perry and Whipple's 1978
documentation and extensive study which confirmed the article
of Dr. Grafenberg. While
many people have read or heard about Gräfenberg, as we refer to
the area he described as the Gräfenberg spot or G-spot, he actually
did not refer to it so much as a spot but more of an area.
In
fact Gräfenberg tried to point out that sexual arousal in a woman
can be achieved through many places on her body, not just the
clitoris and what we now refer to as the G-spot. His observation
was merely to note that pleasure could be derived from the area
in a woman. This
makes sense as it is the equivalent to the male
prostate which we know induces pleasure and secretes a
similar fluid as the g-spot.
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What
Is The G-spot?
The
G-spot is the area on the upper wall of the vagina, through
which the urethral or "Skene's" glands (shown magnified
below) can be felt. It is usually located about 2-3 inches
inside and most often provides a deep, rich sexual pleasure
in women.
While
some women enjoy g-spot stimulation from direct pressure
up into it, others enjoy wide penetration that stretches
the vaginal walls while providing a deep rubbing sensation
against the g-spot.
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It
is important to note that some women are not as sensitive to sensation
in their g-spot area as others and may prefer more clitoral stimulation
as a means to achieve sexual stimulation.
The
female urethra (pee tube) runs along the front/top side of the
vagina, between it and the pubic bone. With
stimulation such as finger, sex toy, penis stroking or even just
sexual stimulation, the area will begin to swell and the sensations
may become increasingly pleasurable. Continuing may produce an
intense orgasm. Like the prostate, the g-spot can produce ejaculate
which may be released on orgasm and may "squirt" or gush
out.
Do
Only Some Women Have A G-spot?
While
ALL women have a G-spot, it was often overlooked by physicians
because it's on the anterior (front) wall of the vagina, which
is an area that's often not contacted with physical stimulation.
A woman must be sexually aroused for it to become engorged (and
made puffy) and most often women are not sexually aroused when
visiting their doctors nor do their doctors stimulate it. But
when gynecologists do palpate it they have found that all women
indeed have one!
Study
That Says Only Some Women Have A G-spot
One scientist has come to the conclusion that the much-talked-about
area believed to be the point of origin for the female "vaginal"
orgasm does exist but only in some women, according to a small
study published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine.
Emmanuele
Jannini of the University of L'Aquila in Italy used an ultrasound
to scan the area of the vagina where the G-spot, also called the
Gräfenberg spot after Ernest Gräfenberg, the man who discovered
it, is located. Jannini determined that the tissue on the front
vaginal wall located behind the urethra was noticeably thicker
in the women who reported having vaginal orgasms.
The
thicker tissue, the study concluded, demonstrates the presence
of a G-spot. "For the first time, it is possible to determine
by a simple, rapid and inexpensive method if a woman has a G-spot
or not," Jannini said. "Women without any visible evidence of
a G-spot cannot have a vaginal orgasm.''
However,
one has to examine if that is what we are really referring to
when we are identifying the g-spot. Are we saying that it is tissue
or are we saying that it is the Skenes glands under the tissue.
If we agree that it is the Skenes glands (which most would agree
upon) that make up the g-spot, and because all women have Skenes
glands, then it is only fair to say that all women have a g-spot.
However,
some women have thicker tissue in front of the Skenes glands which
means that it makes it's presence more pronounced and easier to
find. It also allows for more pressure to be placed on it when
a penis, finger or sex toy is pressing against it. Therefore,
it would logically make sense that those women that have more
tissue in front of the Skenes glands would be more prone to vaginal
orgasm than those with not as much tissue.
For
one scientist to come forward and make such a bold claim after
only examining one aspect of the g-spot is like one not being
able to see the forest through the trees. When you look at a woman
as a whole than you can see her sexual functioning more clearly.
All
women have a g-spot, however, the sensitivity of that g-spot,
the mass of tissue in front of it and the size of those glands
are all variables. A woman will have to determine if she has high
or low sensitivity and work with what she has. Should she not
find much pleasure through g-spot stimulation, then certainly
vaginal stimulation is still an over all pleasurable sensation,
especially when enhanced with clitoral stimulation.
Female
Ejaculation
Stimulation
to the g-spot to achieve
female ejaculation is usually necessary to achieve it,
however, at the moment of ejaculation other stimulation to the
clitoris, breasts, etc. may be what brings a woman to orgasm and
the ability to push it out.
Some
women are able to expel female ejaculate with no stimulation to
their g-spot at all, but are able to fill the g-spot glands through
sexual stimulation to other sexual hot spots causing sexual arousal
and ultimately allowing the it to fill with the prostate-like
fluid and finally releasing it.
Also,
some women can expel female ejaculate without having an orgasm,
through bearing down and pushing it out once her Skenes glands
(g-spot) are filled. However, most women require an orgasm to
release it.
The medical community still neglects women's sexuality by not
further examining female ejaculation. This is most likely due
to the strong association people have to this beautiful female
sexual function as pornographic or as a bogus myth that it is
urine (pee). One would think we are still living in the dark ages
when many scientists, researchers and medical professionals resist
being linked to women's sexual functioning for fear of being thought
of as supporting what the porn industry has been marketing for
years as "squirting, gushing, and spraying ejaculate."
Techniques
For Locating The G-Spot
Lie
back with your knees pressed up to your chest. In this position,
your vaginal depth will shorten and even short fingers should
be able to reach the G-spot. A partner, may do the same thing
by sliding their finger inside you and making a "come here"
motion. You can also lie on your side with one leg drawn up to
your chest as your partner enters you from the rear, or on your
hands and knees (doggy style position) and have your partner use
their finger pressing forward toward your navel to stimulate it.
Of course there are other positions,
these are just a few of many variations. A g-spot
stimulator is great to use as are dildos
in addition to fingers and/or a penis.
The
g-spot is about the size of a quarter, although size varies in
women just as it does in men. It can be anywhere along the 2-3
inch long area between the pubic bone and the cervix. Explore
slowly, and if you are her partner, allow for feedback from her
to help guide you.
G-Spot
Stimulation Through Use of Fingers
The
best way to find it is to first use fingers. The G-spot responds
to pressure rather than to touch. Gentle stroking is not likely
to find it. It's like massaging a marble that is inside a pillow;
one has to compress the flesh to find it. When you reach in from
the front with the woman on her back, the heel of your hand is
over her clitoris while your fingers hook around her pubic bone.
Pull upwards, as if you're trying to lift her off the bed with
a back and forth rhythm of "come here."
As
your fingers may become tired after a while of doing this, we
recommend using a
g-spot stimulator or dildo
in addition to the possibility of penile penetration as a way
of providing continued stimulation to her and relief for your
fingers.
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New
Development For Gspot Stimulation
There
is finally a stimulating gel / cream that makes penetration
better by making gspot stimulation easier. Male partners
will sure be interested in knowing that most stimulating
creams are only for the clitoris... this however, stimulates
the gspot which means sexual intercourse feels even better.
It also works when using a sex toy, so masturbation or sex
play beyond intercourse are enhanced.
Intimate
Organics Discover G-Spot Stimulating Gel contains a blend
of certified organic extracts including Peppermint Oil,
Schizandra Chinensis, and Fo-Ti, blended with L-Arginine.
This unique formula increases the size and sensitivity of
the G-Spot and makes it easy to find and stimulate.
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natural and organic formula increases the size and
sensitivity of the G-Spot and makes it easy to find
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G-Spot
Stimulation Through Intercourse
In intercourse, a woman may or may not be able to achieve orgasm
via her g-spot alone.
It depends on level of arousal, positioning, penis shape &
size, vaginal shape & size and how sensitive she is to g-spot
stimulation. Techniques to assist with this are found in our book
and video The
Art of Female Ejaculation as well as other G-spot &
Female Ejaculation focused books and videos available through
our web site.
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