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Why Use Sex Toys?
What Makes Them Worth Having

Why would anyone want to buy or use a sex toy? The answer is simple... they make sexual efforts easy, while maximizing pleasure & creativity.

Sex toys enhance your sex life with or without a partner. For those times when you are with your partner, sex toys can make foreplay, intercourse, or even post coital moments fantastic. They also make a great substitute partner for periods when one is in between sexual relationships.

There are so many ways that people enjoy using sex toys. Because there are so many available for pleasuring various parts of the body and many creative things one can do with just one of their sex toys.

Lisa Lawless
By Lisa S. Lawless, Ph.D.
Psychotherapist & Sexuality Expert

CEO & Founder of
Holistic Wisdom, Inc. & NAASAS

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Couples that use sex toys alone and together in relationships tend to have a strong level of open communication, trust and unconditional love for their partners. Sex toys allow men and women to tap into creative sex and there is such beauty in allowing ourselves and/or partner to enjoy the pleasures they bring.


Some of the Benefits of Sex Toys-

Sex toys can enhance sexual performance. For example, using a vibrator on a woman's clitoris when a man is performing oral sex can often bring her to heights of ecstasy she has never known. Also, using a vibrator on a man's anus or balls while performing fellatio on him can leave him in a post-coital bliss unlike he's ever known. The variety of the roles sex toys can have in enhancing sexual play are limitless. Even just using a cock ring during intercourse can make a world of difference. The only way to know... is to try.

Sex toys can allow one to perform sexual acts that may be difficult to sustain for long periods of time. There is of course the obvious issue that many men find a challenge in that they may reach orgasm more quickly than their female partner and then are unable to continue with using their erect penis to pleasure her. Sex toys allow him to stimulate her quickly in the beginning to the point of orgasm so that she is already sated before he climaxes, or after he does. This way she will always feel equally satisfied.

There is also the issue of fatigue and cramping... have you ever been doing something to your partner or yourself, but you found your fingers, hands, neck, back, legs or mouth were getting tired and perhaps even cramping? Sex toys allow you to continue pleasuring your partner and give you less work and effort. Using them with sex shapes like Liberator Shapes and pillows can greatly help with sex positions and reducing discomfort.

Sex toys are great for those times when one partner “wants to” and the other partner doesn't or can’t. It allows the partner who feels like sexual pleasure the option of having it while adding the aid of a sex toy to the mix.

Sex toys promote good health, as orgasms release stress and tension, and is a great way to start the day or at night to help one sleep.

Sex toys allow sexual release for those with partners who have disabilities that keep them from normal sexual performance.

Sex toys allow partners to have incredible phone sex with one another when they have a long distance relationship or have to be separated from one another for a while.

We have had many women purchasing Fleshlights for their boyfriend or husband when they have to go to another college, travel for work or even do duty in the military. On the other end, we have many military men and others that buy the Make Your Own Dildo Kit to make a mold of their penis to send to their lover.

 

Basic Sexual Pleasure of Sex Toys-

Clitoral Stimulation

There are many women whom find it difficult to achieve orgasm without clitoral stimulation. It's kind of like asking a man to achieve orgasm without having any stimulation to the head of his penis. While it is possible, it can require more effort. Because most positions for vaginal intercourse do not provide sufficient stimulation to the clitoris, adult toys can provide extra stimulation. Anyone who has used a vibrator will be able to tell you that they often induce some of the most intense orgasms. Most, if not all, new vibrators and powered toys have intensity adjustments to suit personal preferences and sensitivity. A vibrator will often bring a woman to orgasm in as little as a few minutes and is a great way to start off foreplay.

G-spot Stimulation

A vaginal orgasm is very different from a clitoral one. Dildos come in may forms, from glass, Cyberskin, vibrators, make your own dildo kits, dildo "fucking" machines to double ended dildos there is a large variety from which to choose. Imagine having a toy that has the dependability to be able to last long enough to help you achieve all three in one night, or even better, all three at the same time, repeatedly. That is what can be found in toys like the Rabbit Pearl and others like it.

Anal Stimulation

Anal stimulation is great for those who like a little vibration around the anus to full penetration from a dildo. Sex toys also make for great Prostate Massage in men and make the job easier and fun! Here are Anal Toys We Recommend

Penis & Testicle Stimulation

Sexual stimulation to the penis, testicles, and chode can be quite an added bonus during oral sex, breast sex, and even just by itself. Also using cock rings, ball holders, and even masturbation sleeves can enhance a man's sexual pleasure with or without a partner.

Nipple Stimulation

Nipple toys range from anything from clamps, vibrators to suction and/or sucking. They can allow one to enjoy hands free stimulation while engaging in sex with a partner or providing themselves with stimulation through their hand or another sex toy. See the Nipple Toys We Recommend

Multiple Orgasms

Most women who use sex toys have quickly learned that they are a great way to achieve multiple orgasms. Depending on the versatility of the toy, there are many different kinds of orgasms that can be achieved and the ability to have a toy tirelessly vibrate, rotate or thrust can allow for intense multiple orgasms!

Sex Positions

Sex toys allow for couples to not only stimulate one another in otherwise impossible ways, but sex shapes allow couples to get into creative positions that provide deeper thrusting, less muscle strain and fatigue as well as improved performance.

Overweight Sex

For those individuals whom are or have a partner whom is substantially overweight, there can be difficulty in achieving sexual stimulation to one another. When sexual positions that allow for better access to the genitals do not work well, sex toys are an obvious answer to allow overweight couples and individuals to continue having a great sex life.

Kegel Pleasure

While there are Kegel strengthening products that are not as focused on the pleasure aspect, there is another option for women who want to increase their Kegel strength while pleasuring themselves- Dutone balls may be a great way to achieve this.

Sex With Disabilities

We are all at risk for becoming disabled because unfortunately accidents, birth defects and unfortunate side effects from medications and disease do occur. Whether you or your partner are disabled, think about what may be possible by using sex toys. We are happy to report that a man paralyzed from the waist down was able to achieve ejaculation by using the Hitachi Magic Wand for the first time in 7 years! While he was not able to have the same sensations as someone who had feeling there, he was very pleased psychologically as was his girlfriend! Not to mention the fact that it is healthy to do it and still provides endorphins to the body.

 

Types of Sex Toys-

Vibrators
Dildos
Couples Sex Toys
Anal Sex Toys
Nipple Sex Toys & Vibrators
 
 
 
 
Penis Pumps
Tongue Vibrators for Oral Sex
Cock Rings & Penis Sleeves
Electrostimulation Sex Toys
Strap-Ons
 
 
 
 
Bondage Gear
Kegel Exercisers
The Official Fifty Shades Sex Toys
Finger Vibrators
Erectile Dysfunction
 
 
 
 
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Sex Toys Under $25
Masturbation Sleeves
Make Your Own Sex Toy Kits
Penis Extenders
 
 
 
 
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Fascinator Throws- Waterproof Throws
 
 
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