Why would
anyone want to buy or use a sex toy?
The answer is simple... they make sexual efforts easy, while maximizing
pleasure & creativity.
Sex toys enhance
your sex life with or without a partner. For those times when
you are with your partner, sex toys can make foreplay, intercourse,
or even post coital moments fantastic. They
also make a great substitute partner for periods when one is in
between sexual relationships.
Lisa
S. Lawless, Ph.D., C.E.O.
HolisticWisdom.com
Founder
There are so many
ways that people enjoy using sex toys. Because there are so many available
for pleasuring various parts of the body and many creative things one
can do with just one of their sex toys.
Couples that use
sex toys alone and together in relationships tend to have a strong level
of open communication, trust and unconditional love for their partners.
Sex toys allow men and women to tap into creative sex and there is such
beauty in allowing ourselves and/or partner to enjoy the pleasures they
bring.
Some
of the Benefits of Sex Toys-
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Sex toys can
enhance sexual performance. For example, using a vibrator on a
woman's clitoris when a man is performing oral sex can often bring
her to heights of ecstasy she has never known. Also, using a vibrator
on a man's anus or balls while performing fellatio
on him can leave him in a post-coital bliss unlike he's ever known.
The variety of the roles sex toys can have in enhancing sexual
play are limitless. Even just using a cock
ring during intercourse can make a world of difference.
The only way to know... is to try.
Sex toys can
allow one to perform sexual acts
that may be difficult to sustain for long periods of time. There
is of course the obvious issue that many men find a challenge
in that they may reach orgasm more quickly than their female partner
and then are unable to continue with using their erect
penis to pleasure her. Sex toys allow him to stimulate
her quickly in the beginning to the point of orgasm so that she
is already sated before he climaxes, or after he does. This way
she will always feel equally satisfied.
There is also
the issue of fatigue and cramping... have you ever been doing
something to your partner or yourself, but you found your fingers,
hands, neck, back, legs or mouth were getting tired and perhaps
even cramping? Sex toys allow you to continue pleasuring your
partner and give you less work and effort.
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Sex toys are
great for those times when one partner “wants to” and the other
partner doesn't or can’t. It allows the partner who feels like
sexual pleasure the option of having it while adding the aid of
a sex toy to the mix.
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Sex toys promote
good health, as orgasms release stress and tension, and is a great
way to start the day or at night to help one sleep.
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Sex toys allow
sexual release for those with partners who have disabilities that
keep them from normal sexual performance.
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Sex toys allow
partners to have incredible phone sex with one another when they
have a long distance relationship or have to be separated from
one another for a while.
We have had
many women purchasing Fleshlights
for their boyfriend or husband when they have to go to another
college, travel for work or even do duty in the military. On the
other end, we have many military men and others that buy the Make
Your Own Dildo Kit to make
a mold of their penis to send to their lover.
There
are many women whom find it difficult to achieve orgasm without
clitoral
stimulation. It's kind of like asking a man to
achieve orgasm without having any stimulation to the head of his
penis. While it is possible, it can require more effort. Because
most positions for vaginal intercourse do not provide sufficient
stimulation to the clitoris, adult toys can provide extra stimulation.
Anyone
who has used a vibrator will be able to tell you that they often
induce some of the most intense orgasms. Most, if not all, new
vibrators and powered toys have intensity adjustments to suit
personal preferences and sensitivity. A vibrator will often bring
a woman to orgasm in as little as a few minutes and is a great
way to start off foreplay.
Imagine
having a toy that has the dependability to be able to last long
enough to help you achieve all three in one night, or even better,
all three at the same time, repeatedly. That is what can be found
in toys like the Rabbit
Pearl and others like it.
Anal
stimulation is great for those who like a little vibration
around the anus to full penetration from a dildo.
Sex toys also make for great Prostate
Massage in men and make the job easier and fun! Here are
Anal
Toys We Recommend
Penis
& Testicle
Stimulation
Sexual
stimulation to the penis, testicles, and chode can be quite an
added bonus during oral sex, breast sex, and even just by itself.
Also using cock
rings, ball holders, and even masturbation
sleeves can enhance a man's sexual pleasure with
or without a partner.
Nipple
toys range from anything from clamps, vibrators to suction and/or
sucking. They can allow one to enjoy hands free stimulation while
engaging in sex with a partner or providing themselves with stimulation
through their hand or another sex toy. See the Nipple
Toys We Recommend
Multiple
Orgasms
Most women who use sex toys have quickly learned that they are
a great way to achieve multiple orgasms. Depending on the versatility
of the toy, there are many different kinds of orgasms that can
be achieved and the ability to have a toy tirelessly vibrate,
rotate or thrust can allow for intense multiple orgasms!
Sex
toys allow for couples to not only stimulate one another in otherwise
impossible ways, but sex
shapes allow couples to get into creative positions
that provide deeper thrusting, less muscle strain and fatigue
as well as improved performance.
For
those individuals whom are or have a partner whom is substantially
overweight, there can be difficulty in achieving sexual stimulation
to one another. When sexual positions that allow for better access
to the genitals do not work well, sex toys are an obvious answer
to allow overweight couples and individuals to continue having
a great sex life.
While
there are Kegel strengthening products that are not as focused
on the pleasure aspect, there is another option for women who
want to increase their Kegel strength while pleasuring themselves-
Dutone balls may
be a great way to achieve this.
We
are all at risk for becoming disabled because unfortunately accidents,
birth defects and unfortunate side effects from medications and
disease do occur. Whether you or your partner are disabled, think
about what may be possible by using sex toys.
We
are happy to report that a man paralyzed from the waist down was
able to achieve ejaculation by using the Hitachi Magic Wand for
the first time in 7 years! While he was not able to have the same
sensations as someone who had feeling there, he was very pleased
psychologically as was his girlfriend! Not to mention the fact
that it is healthy to do it and still provides endorphins to the
body!
Traditional, dual action, pocket rockets,
g-spot & prostate, bullets, anal, waterproof, ben wa &
duotone balls, wands, attachments and make your own vibrating
dildos.
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Whether you are shopping for a honeymoon,
wedding, Bachelorette & bachelor party, birthday, anniversary,
Valentine's day, Christmas or any other special day we have what
will make their heart beat a little faster.
Now
you can finally make a very personal vibrating or non-vibrating
realistic dildo! This kit will create an "identical twin" of yours
or your lovers penis using the same patented technology in Hollywood!
Ultimate
Male Masturbation
Our revolutionary "Real Feel Super Skin" gel inserts elevate sexual
pleasure and freedom to new and exciting peaks. You won't believe
how real and life-like these feel when they are lubed up and warmed
to body temperature!
Liberator
Shapes:
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In
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The Fockers
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These
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them for a fun effect. They clean very easily (even in the dishwasher!)
Strong and beautiful toys high quality sex toys that bring a life
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You
can get your average condom at any drug store, but we have put
together some of our special and unique condoms that will provide
extra pleasure, staying power and comfort. Also read our tips
on how to best use them.
Find
toys for kegel exercise below as well as articles that help you
to better understand what are kegels, how strengthening them improves
your health and sex life and how to exercise them.
Dildo
harnesses are great fun whether you use them for vaginal or anal
pleasure, you are sure to enjoy the power of thrusting into your
partner as they moan and yell for more!
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have two loose teas that that are blended to perfection. Our Mood
Lift Tea provides relief from stress, depression, and
is truly a blend worth having. Our Immune Tea helps
to build the immune system and promote nutritive health.
We
work hard to demonstrate our respect for our clients as healthy,
intelligent, sexually adventurous adults. You will be sure to
enjoy our array of constraints, whips and other daring bedroom
gear!
Multiple
orgasms are easily experienced as they allow for controlled levels
of stimulation using realistic attachments that match their partner
while providing endurance and vibration that a partner cannot.
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Customer
Favorites
& Staff Picks- Let
Lisa S. Lawless, Ph.D., CEO provide you with our most recommended
products, pictures, descriptions, ordering information and why
they are the best for sexual play and education!
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are always adding new products to our online store so that you
can get the latest in romantic, sexual and health related products.
So no matter how many times you visit our site, there will always
be something new to learn or purchase.
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