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Masturbation Tips  For Women
        What All Women Should Do & How

All women should masturbate whether they are single or in a relationship in my opinion. Not just because it is healthy, and fun... but there is truly no better way to embrace the sexual beauty within yourself like masturbating. It allows you to better know yourself, your body, your sexual desires, your sexual preferences and provides you with the opportunity for a rich and fertile imagination through your sexual fantasies.

There is no right or wrong way to masturbate; as long as it feels good and you aren’t going to harm yourself, it’s great. Remember that pleasure is the goal and however you get there is perfect.

Lisa S. Lawless, Ph.D., C.E.O.
HolisticWisdom.com Founder

Member of American Association
of Sex Educators, Counselors,
and Therapists
( AASECT )

Preparation

The first thing to do is to set up a comfortable environment for yourself. If you’re going to use toys, get them and your lube out and near the play area. Read an erotic book or watch an erotic movie. Think of a past sexual encounter that really gets you hot, or fantasize about one you’d like to have one with. If you female ejaculate you may want to use the bath tub as a playground or simply get a waterproof liner to protect your sheets.

Pleasure Points

Clitoral Stimulation

You can use your hands, fingers, knuckles, a shower head, running water, vibrators, rubbing up against an object, anything that will stimulate the clitoris. The clitoris is the one organ on our bodies that is purely for sexual pleasure. Women are very excited by stimulation of the gspot, but some women are unable to orgasm unless they receive some sort of clitoral stimulation.

By using your fingers or hand, you can rub, stroke or pinch the clitoris. You can also rub the area around the clitoris and you may find that one side is preferred over another.

The shower massager head can be wonderful too. The shower head where you can adjust the stream of water, a steady, gentle stream and then a more powerful jet spray can be quite exciting.

I love vibrators, my favorite being the Hitachi Magic Wand (Powerful and fairly quiet) and the Water Dancer (Small, waterproof and very quiet). I have several different ones for different situations and different moods.

Holding a vibrator up against your clit is the way to feel the maximum amount of intense stimulation most quickly. I have found it so easy with the vibrators I use that I often have my first orgasm in the first 30 seconds of constant stimulation!

Since clits can be extremely sensitive you can also hold the vibrator around the general area if the vibrations are too strong.

G-Spot Stimulation

There are many toys out there that are specifically made to locate and stimulate the g-spot, like the Rabbit Habit. By using some type of dildo, you will also get that added feeling of fullness in your vagina, which kind of completes the whole experience.

Although, if you can locate your g-spot and can manipulate it and stimulate it with your fingers to your pleasure, then all that too can be great. Many women do find it easier to use some kind of toy. Sometimes using pillows, a bed headboard or even a bath tub to push yourself into a position with your legs open and provide easier access to reach up inside you is a good way to go.

Vaginal Stimulation

There’s always just pure penetration for the feeling of penetration. There are thousands of dildo’s and vibrating dildos on the market. I love the Dildo with Suction Cup because you can easily use it in the shower. And if your fingers or hands feel good too, than go for it!

 

Anal Stimulation

The anus is a very sensitive area of the body. When given a little bit of tender loving care, it can bring you to a wonderful place. You can explore the area with your fingers, just rubbing or tickling the area, or small insert anal toys. There are many to choose from. Just make sure that whenever you insert a toy, finger, etc. into your anus that you have plenty of lubrication and to wash your hands well if you decide to go to your vagina to prevent a Urinary Tract Infection!

 

Breasts

Let’s not forget about them. Touching, rubbing, fondling and even attaching nipple clamps the can be very exciting. If you’re breasts are large enough, try licking your nipples yourself. This can be extremely pleasurable.

The breasts are a wonderful erogenous zone that should not be ignored during any type of sex play. There is no right way to do it. You don’t even have to get naked.

Just relax and explore your body and see what feels good. Anyway you do it is your choice, just have fun. That’s the point of sex and sexual play, having fun doing it.

For more tips on masturbation as well as how to achieve female ejaculation make sure to check out The Art of Female Ejaculation on video and as a book / eBook.

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