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Sex Toys For Beginners

Dr. Lisa Lawless

Dr. Lisa Lawless, CEO of Holistic Wisdom
Clinical Psychotherapist: Relationship & Sexual Health Expert

sex toys for beginnersWhat Is The First Step?

Before you begin searching for a beginner's sex toy, you want to ensure that what you get does not contain toxicants. Because we carry only body-safe sex toys, you are in good hands when you purchase a product from us because you know you are getting it from an authorized dealer and that we have reviewed the product and brand for you before offering it for sale. 

What Is A Beginner Sex Toy?

Sex toys for beginners are usually smaller in size when it comes to penetrative sex toys, as this allows for gradual and gentle stretching vaginally or anally. The power of the sex toy (vibration, air pulses, or suction) may not be a significant factor if the sex toy has multiple speeds because it can always be used on a low setting instead of the highest, allowing for gentle stimulation. The material of the sex toy can vary as long as ample lubrication is used.

Factors To Consider

The following are things that you should look at when purchasing a sex toy for the first time, as they will help you discern what will be a good investment for your money and pleasure objectives.

Before looking at sex toys, you should begin by asking yourself what your sexual goals are concerning stimulation. Having an idea of what you want the sex toy to do will help you to narrow down what type of sex toy will meet those needs. Below are examples of things you should consider when exploring what you want in a sex toy.

Personal Preferences

  • Area Of Sexual Stimulation Desired

  • Type Of Stimulation: Manual, Vibrator, Suction, Air Pulse

  • Size

  • Color

  • Materials

  • Noise Level

  • Number of Functions

  • Waterproof Aspects

  • Stimulation Levels

  • Portability

  • Hands-Free 

  • App Compatibility


Objective Craftsmanship

  • Durability of Motor

  • Compatible With Lubricants

  • Quality of Materials

  • Power Source

  • Ease of Cleaning

  • Ease of Use

    Guides For Choosing Sex Toys

    There are many sex toys that couples can use together. Below are guides that go in-depth about the different uses, features, and considerations to explore.

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