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Bachelor & Bachelorette Parties

Dr. Lisa Lawless, CEO of Holistic Wisdom
Clinical Psychotherapist: Relationship & Sexual Health Expert
The Party Before the Vows
Before we delve into some ideas on making a Bachelor or Bachelorette Party great, let's address their point. A Bachelor or Bachelorette Party celebrates the impending wedding of a couple. It is honoring that they have found what they believe to be the love of their life.
Unfortunately, many focus on the idea that the Bachelor or Bachelorette Party is about celebrating the last few moments of being single. There are attempts to do everything possible to sabotage a marriage before it goes down from prostitutes to heavy drugs and/or alcohol to the point of losing rational thought and doing things that would be deal-breakers if the fiancé ever found out.
This is strange if you think about it; here, you have found a person you want to spend the rest of your life with, and you spend your last few moments doing everything you can to put yourself in a position to jeopardize it?
The more meaningful Bachelor or Bachelorette Party is providing the couple with a celebration that lets them know that their friends will always be there for them even as they embark on a new lifestyle and are happy for them as they have found someone to love and who loves them deeply. Providing gifts that celebrate the upcoming wedding seems like a more meaningful way of letting your friend know how much you care about them.
Beyond finding things to do, such as photomontages, memorable vacations, party games, and other ways to celebrate, you can also chip in to present a honeymoon gift that will bring the couple closer together and allow them to explore sensual fun. We have put together adult gift sets that they will remember their friends who love and support them in the new life they have together, even on their wedding night for great sex.