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Best Sex Toys Guide

Dr. Lisa Lawless

Dr. Lisa Lawless, CEO of Holistic Wisdom
Clinical Psychotherapist: Relationship & Sexual Health Expert

Best Sex Toys, CandyFinding A Good Sex Toy

Common concerns about purchasing a sex toy are:

  • "I bought the wrong thing in the past, and now I don't know what to get."

  • "I want it, but is it worth the cost?"

  • "There are too many choices, and I simply feel overwhelmed."

  • "What will my partner think of it?"

If these thoughts sound familiar, you are not alone. There's nothing like expecting a night of fireworks from a sexy new toy and then finding it disappointing. Sure there are sex toys that are disappointing, but it is often because a customer has bought a sex toy from a company that does not provide truthful expectations or sells inferior products. That is why we provide high-quality products with realistic descriptions.

Find A Company That Will Treat You Well

Finding a company that will be accountable for defects, shipping problems, and other customer service issues is vital because many companies count on you to be too embarrassed to complain. Learn more about us and why we are a company you can trust.

Cheap Vs. Quality Manufacturing

If the sales hype for a sex toy sounds too good to be true, it probably is. Once in a while, something exciting comes along that's worthy of praise. There's usually a groundswell of interest, so try to find verified reviews and shop at places you trust.

Since sex toys are used on intimate parts, you will want to make sure any sex toy you use is a high-quality product. Learn more through our helpful article: Body Safe Sex Toy Guide.

Sex Toy Disappointments

If you're hesitant to experiment with sex toys because of the money or the unknown, here's a little perspective: think of a disappointing sex toy experience as somewhat akin to a disappointing meal out. You might pay $60 or more at a restaurant for a dinner that didn't thrill you, but it wouldn't stop you from trying another new restaurant.

When you stumble upon a great restaurant, you've just improved the quality of your life. Accept that not all sex toy experiences will be mind-blowing, but the more you explore, the more likely you are to end up with the orgasmic equivalent of culinary delight.

Avoid Scams

Beware of salespeople who are more interested in making a sale than providing something that works with your needs and budget. To learn more please see our helpful guides: Sex Toy Scams and Sex Toy Store Scams.

Getting Quality & Value

Be aware that sex toys made from nontoxic materials often cost more because the materials used are more expensive to the manufacturer. See some of our helpful guides to review related information:

Best Sex Toy Manufacturers

Silicone Sex Toys: Is Yours Real & Safe?

This Latest & Best Sex Toys

Sex Toys & Partners

Keep your expectations realistic and communicate with your partner on what they prefer rather than guessing. If you are getting a first-time sex toy, err on the mild rather than the wild side. Explore our helpful guide Sex Toy Gift Guide for more information on what to consider.

Select The Best Sex Toy For You

We have put together a guide to help you find the best sex toy for you rather than put together a list of top-selling sex toys. We believe educated consumers are the happiest with their purchases because they have taken the time to think through what they are looking for based on their sexual goals. To get started please see our Guide To Buying A Sex Toy.

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