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Best Sex Toys For 2023

Dr. Lisa Lawless

Dr. Lisa Lawless, CEO of Holistic Wisdom
Clinical Psychotherapist: Relationship & Sexual Health Expert

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Practical Advice

This guide will feature some of the most popular types of sex toys on the market this year with insights into why they are so desirable. If you want to explore practical tips on choosing an adult gift, please see our helpful Sex Toy Gift Guide.

Best Selling Sex Toys For 2023

Let's review some of the hottest selling sex toys this year and learn why they are so popular.

Best Sex Toys

Best Couples Sex Toys

There have been many advancements in sex toys for couples that allow for increased pleasure but can also be helpful for senior sex as well as those with health conditions and disabilities. For more helpful information on these, please see the following guides:

Best Air Pulse Stimulators

Air pulse stimulators go by various names, such as clitoral suction vibrators, sonic pulse stimulators, and clit sucker toys. While many think they provide suction, they actually provide air pulses that stimulate the clitoris. They are so popular because of the intense stimulation they provide to the clitoris without causing the kind of desensitization that can occur from using a vibrator for a long time. They have a round opening that completely encompasses the clitoris and creates a seal while using sonic air pulses to provide intense stimulation that can help even women who have difficulty climaxing achieve an orgasm. This is why they make great gifts because they are so effective. The most popular brand is Womanizer. Learn more about them through our guide: Air Pulse Sex Toys or shop for them now Clitoral Suction Vibrators.

Air Pulse Stimulators

Best App Controlled Sex Toys

Popular app-controlled vibrators (teledildonics) are Bluetooth sex toys that can be controlled by a partner while in the same room as well as across the world. This is quite appealing to couples who travel or live far from one another while enjoying long-distance relationships. There are app-controlled sex toys that stimulate the clitoris, G-spot, penis, anus, rectum, and prostate. The apps also allow you to access advanced controls to custom program settings on your sex toy. Explore our body-safe App Controlled Vibrators.

App Controlled Sex Toys

Best Male Vibrators

Male vibrators have become quite popular because they provide intense stimulation to the penis but also because they can assist in increasing blood flow and help with achieving an orgasm. There are a variety of new designs, but one of the most popular brands is Hot Octopuss, as they provide vibrating male masturbators that can also stimulate a partner simultaneously. To learn more about male sex toys, please see our guide: Male Masturbator Guide, or explore our body-safe Male Vibrators.

Male Vibrators

Sex Pillows

Sex pillows continue to be a top selling product because they offer comfort and support for creative sexual positions. They are especially ideal for those who have back pain, mobility issues, are plus-sized, and have disabilities. There are also sex pillows that have places to insert sex toys, making them hands-free for added sexual creativity. To learn more about sex pillows, see our guide Using Sex Pillows To Enhance Sex, or explore our high-quality Sex Pillows.

Sex Pillows

Best Vibrator Brands

Stimulation to the clitoris is essential for orgasm, so it is no wonder why clitoral vibrators remain one of the best-selling sex toys. However, all vibrators sell well and the good news for consumers is while luxury sex toys offer amazing features, many new, more affordable competitors are offering quality vibrators as well. Some of our top performing vibrator brands are quite reasonable in price, including Nu Sensuelle, Femme Funn, Blush Novelties, Le Wand, Satisfyer, and Doxy.

Best Sex Toy Brands

Best Male Masturbation Sleeves

There are various new types of masturbation sleeves for men that feature hands-free suction, vibration, and other types of stimulation. Some of the newer masturbation sleeves don't look like traditional sleeves, which makes them discreet and, in some cases, artistic-looking. Depending on the model you choose, they can be used with sex pillows, suction-cup bases, and Bluetooth technology that allows you to control them from an app on your phone. Some of our top masturbation brands are far better in sensation, durability, and quality of material than traditional male masturbation sleeves, including Tenga, Blush Novelties, PipeDream, and more.

Best Masturbation Sleeves


Best Body Massage Wand Vibrators

Hands down, one of the best-made and most powerful body massagers are those made by Doxy. The best Doxy models feature brushed silver aluminum/titanium alloy handles with variable speeds that range from 3000 to 9000 revolutions per minute (RPM). They come in electric plug-in or rechargeable models and have high-end attachments for every type of sexual stimulation. See our Doxy wand vibrators and attachments.

Best Body Massager Wand Vibrator

In Closing

Choosing a sex toy should not be based on what is popular or what some review or article tells you; rather, it should be based on your specific sexual goals and preferences. We have created some guides to help you think through what sexual goals you have and what options are available. Let us know if we can be of further assistance as we are happy to help you.

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