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Best Sex Toys For Women

Dr. Lisa Lawless

Dr. Lisa Lawless, CEO of Holistic Wisdom
Clinical Psychotherapist: Relationship & Sexual Health Expert

Best Sex Toys For Women

There are so many sex toys on the market that it may make your head spin trying to determine the best one for you. Rather than showcase just a few sex toys that are in vogue right now, this guide will help you see what types of sex toys are popular with women and why.

Clitoral Stimulation Preferences

Just because a sex toy performs well does not mean it is ideal for everyone because sexual pleasure is subjective. Most women enjoy clitoral stimulation as it is the star of the show. However, women vary in how they like their clitoris stimulated. Before we run down the clitoral vibrators that many women enjoy, let's do a quick review of the different styles of clitoral stimulation.

Direct Clitoral Pressure

This is for women who enjoy stimulation directly on top of the clitoris, whether with the clitoral hood covering it or having it pulled back. If you like this kind of stimulation, you will appreciate powerful clitoral vibrators, air pulse (clitoral suction vibrators), or even pinpoint vibrators.

Total Vulva Stimulation

If you like having your entire vulva stroked, rubbed, or stimulated, then wand vibrators are ideal for you as the large heads of the wand will not just stimulate your clitoris but your vaginal opening and inner and outer labia as well.

Clitoral Sucking

If you enjoy your clitoris being licked and sucked on, you will most likely like the suction or air pulse (sonic pulse) or clitoral suction sex toys.

Air Pulse Sex Toys

Air pulse sex toys are often referred to as suction sex toys or clitoral pumps for the clitoris, but the truth is that they do not use suction; rather, they use air pulses (sonic pulses) to create the fantastic stimulation that so many women love. They were introduced in 2013 with the Womanizer brand, and then many companies began making them as their popularity grew.

Air Pulse Sex Toy

The way they work is by surrounding the clitoris so that there is a seal around the suction cup. Moving it away and allowing a break in the seal will stop the sensation. Once you have an air pulse sex toy in place, you must hold it still to provide optimal stimulation. They can also be used on the nipples.

Air Pulse Sex Toy Diagram What is remarkable about air pulse stimulators is that they do not create the same numbing sensation that may occur when a vibrator is used for too long a time. In fact, they are great for vibrator fatigue, meaning that if you are using a vibrator and you cannot orgasm before you start to become desensitized to it, an air suction sex toy can be used to help get to the finish line.

Check out our top-of-the-line, phthalate-free Air Pulse Sex Toys.

Oscillating Clitoral Stimulators

Oscillating Clitoral Stimulators (Pinpoint Vibrators) are also categorized as clitoral vibrators, but technically they are really clitoral oscillators (moving back and forth) and provide very specific stimulation at a high frequency. Oscillator sex toys have been around for a while and are best known by the Eroscillator brand promoted by sex therapist Dr. Ruth Westheimer. However, the new ones have a different design, and they are available in many brands now.

They are popular with women who like intense clitoral or nipple stimulation through vibration. Some women find these types of vibrators pleasurable while others dislike them, so it is really about personal preference. They also tend to be on the louder side because of the way the tip has to move back and forth. 

Oscillating Clitoral Stimulator DiagramClitoral Vibrators

Clitoral vibrators come in various shapes, sizes, colors, and power levels. They are the most popular sex toys on the market because of their efficiency in aiding women in achieving orgasms. They also provide health benefits by increasing blood circulation and may also improve the tone and elasticity of vaginal walls, intensify sexual response and sensations while promoting vaginal lubrication.

Some women also use vibrators to ease menstrual cramping and increase blood flow for perimenopausal and menopausal women. There are myths about vibrators that some holistic-focused websites promote; however, they are typically highly misinformed and often take an alarmist view of them. Read our Vibrator Myths Guide for factual information about them, and feel free to contact us with any concerns you may have. 

Explore Nontoxic Clitoral Vibrators 

Rabbit Vibrators

Dual vibrators, often referred to as Rabbit Vibrators because of their original bunny ear shape, stimulate two parts of your body at once and are typically made to stimulate the clitoris and G-spot but can also stimulate the prostate and premium.

Rabbit Vibrator Example

Some dual vibrators have shafts that vibrate and rotate, thrust, or even go back and forth, while some clitoral vibrators straddle the clitoris or even flick it. Since their invention, they have been some of the most popular selling vibrator styles because of how thoroughly they stimulate. 

See the latest nontoxic Rabbit Vibrators

Wand Vibrators

Body massagers are wonderful for all-over massage as well as sexual stimulation. Some are rechargeable, while others require a plug, and some have attachments that can fit over the head of the massager to allow for various options such as an added dildo or textures such as nubs. Adding an attachment to a body wand that has a dildo feature will enable it to become a dual vibrator to stimulate either the clitoris and G-spot or anally with stimulation to the perineum and prostate (in males).

Explore the best wand vibrators on the market today.

Wand Massager & Attachments Example

Remote Control Vibrators

Remote-controlled vibrators allow you to use them both in private and in public easily so that you do not have to remove them from the genitals to change settings. They come in a variety of shapes with various erogenous zone stimulation points. Some can be inserted, while others are externally used. With the different designs, you can insert some vaginal or anal stimulation models. In contrast, others can be placed inside underwear for clitoral, labia, penis, and testicle stimulation (which is why some models are referred to as panty vibrators). Most remote control vibrators can be used up to 30 feet away and easily controlled with an included remote control.

See the best remote control vibrators available. 

App Controlled Vibrators

Teledildonics are Bluetooth sex toys that allow you to connect to your lover's sex toy for long-distance sex, interactive videos, webcam performers, interactive games, and experience virtual reality interactions. They are increasingly being used to stimulate partners from across the world in long-distance relationships and on webcam sex play.

See the latest app controlled vibrators available.

Panty Vibrators

Panty vibrators (similar to palm vibrators that easily fit in one's hand) are stimulators that go inside underwear and are hands-free sex toys that offer stimulation to the clitoris and/or G-spot anus, penis, testicles, or prostate. They are also similar to butterfly vibrators that use harness straps instead of panties/underwear to secure them in place.

They can be used solo or with a partner and during sexual activity, and in some cases during intercourse. These vibrators are also known for couples using them where one of the partners wears one and the other controls the vibration with remote control for added discreet public sexual experiences. Some partners get two so that each person can wear one while their partner controls their sexual stimulation and their partner's simultaneously.

Explore the best panty vibrators.

How To Get Started

While these sex toy categories are a great place to start for women looking to increase creativity, sexual health, and sexual stimulation, there are many other sex toy categories from which to choose. To begin determining the best sex toys for you is asking yourself what you wish to achieve.

Examples of things to ask yourself when choosing a sex toy:

  • Do you want something that vibrates or provides suction, air pulses, or thrusts?

  • Do you want something that stimulates a specific part of the body, and if so, what part(s)?

  • Do you want something rechargeable?

  • Do you want something waterproof?

  • Do you want it to be manually controlled, remote-controlled, or app-controlled?

  • Do you have a specific material you want it made from?

  • Do you want something for you or your partner or both?

  • Do you have a size preference?

Quality & Health Is Our Specialty

All of the sex toys we sell are phthalate-free and are made of the best quality materials. We provide as much information about each product on our site as we can, and the reviews on our products are from customers that offer insights and feedback about them. We also stand behind our products and provide a 30-day warranty on top of the manufacturer's warranty.

Need Help?

What type of sex toy you want comes down to what you desire; because everyone is unique, no one sex toy will meet everyone's needs, but we can help you narrow down what might work best for you. So feel free to reach out to us, and we will be happy to help you find the right sex toys for you.


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